ladies and gents let's discuss

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It's not like a written rule, but it shows you respect her if you do!

Why na? Na europe you dey?

this should be in the family section

yes

even in ur parents hse

ur parents must tell u when someone is cumin to stay

talkless of ur partner

when its not just u stayin in the hse!

Of course you have to. Na only you dey live for there.

Unless you think she is a glorified househelp Then yes you must.

If you no wan wahala you berra do oooo . Una know say two women no fit enter the same trousers ooo

So u no no?

I suspect this was meant to be another basher thread but thankfully the ladies in the house have handled this in a matured manner.

 Should You Inform Your Spouse Before Inviting Your Relations To Stay Over?

 Yes. only makes sense. The house / home does not belong to you alone.

Before nko?, Are you the only owner of the house?

I suspect this was meant to be another basher thread but thankfully the ladies in the house have handled this in a matured manner.

Should You Inform Your Spouse Before Inviting Your Relations To Stay Over?

Yes. only makes sense. The house / home does not belong to you alone.

Really? I thought you were gonna go all '. . I own the house, I'm the man . . .' on us!

Ujujoan:


Really? I thought you were gonna go all '. . I own the house, I'm the man . . .' on us!

Somebody must've told you wrong. you obviously have not seen any of my posts.

^^^ Hmmmn

Ok oh!

Why not? he may own da house but i run/manage the house.

If the man bought the house with his money so why do u guyz say the man and the woman is d owner of the house.

What are we discussing? Is this something to discuss? If you are a grown man and you don't know the answer to this question of yours then you need a shrink! I'm out!

You should discuss with your wife, all major things you intend to do, not just to inform her. That is, if she's your wife, and not a wife.

Yes o, she has every right to know b4 anybody moves into that house. That really reminds me of two friends that were living together, as in paying the rent together and one of the friends went and brought her sibling without telling the other friend, and she was really pissed, in that case i want to ask if she has the right to be angry or is she just overreacting.

That is normal now, and it goes both ways unless your house is like a guest house. Would the person coming not need some care, are you not going to make provision for the visitor?

Absolutely.

Yes, cos the house belongs to you both

Should You Inform Your Wife Before Inviting Your Relations To Stay Over?

Is this a serious question?

@OP: Sure, she must know. The woman matters. I'll never diss my wife or give her rude surprises, what for?

of course!!

If the relative is going to be fed and housed why shouldn't the other party be informed.

Out of respect to her, YES!

You dont want to deal with a resentful wife at the end of the day. Most importantly, it shows you respect her, but that doesnt diminish your position as the HEAD of the family.

Yes by all means - It is her house too, whether or not it was built before your wife was born and the property deeds are in your name only.

duh

yes, u should say it before

woye77:

ladies and gents let's discuss

I am interested in knowing why you shouldnt in the first place

yes u need to inform everybody, including the rats in your house. Cos they have right for somebody to come and inconvenience them