Recently, I've found myself wondering much about the nature of self-made ladies in our society today. This is borne out of the conversations I've had and heard from mostly young bachelors who are looking forward to getting married to their dream partners.

While some are advocating that young people should marry women who are working in order to supplement the man's income during the hard times, others are of the opinion that marrying an already made wife is an open invitation to domestic and matrimonial terrorism in your home.

Today, many of our young, talented and visionary sisters have become victims of this later thought. Our culture and tradition at many points segregate women from taking a major role in the society but have given them the championship role in the kitchen and the other room activities (PMB).

A few years ago, a mobile web app came out (www.brideprice.com.ng) that could be used to measure the pride price of a Nigerian wife to be. Although the developers of the app have stated clearly on the app that it's only a joke, it still depicts the true Nigerian culture. In the app, a women's bride price reduces once she has a Ph.d

I'd like to have your opinion to the following:

- Why do men and the society general think an educated woman is a deadly weapon to be kept in a young man's home?.
- Why do women also like to assume the leadership role in the home when their husbands are still there?
- Who would you marry?

Why are men scared of self-made independent women?

If they are really weapon then you have no right to call the dependent ones leeches/gold digger after your goddamn money.

You got what wished for.

I say we wait on the Gods..!!