[b]Marriage is one of the most important event in an individual’s life. Marriages are said to be destined from the heavens. The advent of a supposedly golden period in one’s life is expected give birth to feelings of positive anticipation. This holds true though for most women.Women are said to be difficult to understand. But the same seems to be true for the guys. Have we ever pondered enough on why are guys so scared of marriage? Is it that they wish to remain their mamma’s boys? Is it plain immaturity that he doesn’t wish to start handling responsibility?



While we start delving on the reasons why guys are so scared of marriage, we should also keep in mind the patriarchal set-up of most of our societies. This is where these guys have to become men and start fending for both themselves and their families. With the changes in the dynamics of families due to women becoming earning members of the families, guys have started becoming less scared of marriage. This is because of the wife sharing with him his responsibilities and making him more secure.Here are some reasons why men scared of getting married.[/b]

Reasons behind men scared of getting married are:

1.The wedding and honeymoon: His father is no longer ready to bankroll his wedding. The way weddings in India are, this is enough to give him the nightmares. He may earn enough for a living. But what about that European honeymoon his lady is expecting from him? This might just explain why guys are so afraid of getting married.

2.Bad experiences with partners: He did enter into a relationship earlier and had dreamt of a golden life with his partner. But things did not work out and resulted in a nasty break-up. Now he is plain scared of marriage. Cannot blame him though.

3.Afraid of kids: One of the reasons behind the guys being so scared of marriage lies in the frightening aspect of losing sleep over diapers! Strange but true. The women of today expect him to play an equal role in parenting. This is where he gets those hiccoughs.

4.A nasty mother: Sounds ridiculous right? You have seen how your mother treats your sister-in-law and this has led to your brother’s divorce with his wife of three years. Enough to scare you into deciding not to bring another lady into your home.

These are the reasons behind men scared of getting married


Mynd44 lalasticlala.

http://www.naijabroad.com/men-scared-getting-married/

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The only a reason a man gets scared of marriage is because he's a coward who cannot face the reality of life, the reality of having his own family and taking care of them, he would rather no one be dependent on him. The biggest excuse of Nigerian men on why are not yet ready for marriage is 'No money' as if you need all the money in the world to get married.

Sadly marriage is overrated and done to please the society and parents, As a man never propose because of pressure and as a woman never accept a proposal because of pressure, marry someone who makes you happy, who you connect with not just on a sexual level, Marry someone who you know is going to make your life easier.

Finally, FTC WAWU, been a long time I got this spot, I want to dedicate this ftc to my very special Nairalander, I miss you everyday, I miss spending time with you, I miss the incredible orgasm and lastly I wish you would stop being a coward and just do it.

The only thing that will make a man be scared is just finance.

I was this close to comment first ...

We Aren't scared of getting Married.



1) The cost of Weddings in Nigeria is on the high side

2) The economy is so bad that now youths at 30 ain't working, do you expect them to get married without a job?


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Today na relationship for NL

Economic crisis? Chameleonic character in some ladies?

Ok

;Dthis guy you don't know money is the main reason huh

Eyah.

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There is nothing to be afraid of.just calm your mind and put your faith in God

Men are not scared of marriage. Most of the youths at the moment are underemployed. Imagine a graduate earning less than $100, how can he cope with the rising cost of living? Mariage is not an event.

How many time them want post this nonsense on Nairaland

Pls how do I get ur contact so we have a private chat

Nma27:
Economic crisis? Chameleonic character in some ladies?

No money

Atiku2019:
We Aren't scared of getting Married.



1) The cost of Weddings in Nigeria is on the high side

2) The economy is so bad that now youths at 30 ain't working, do you expect them to get married without a job?


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balash:
How many time them want post this nonsense on Nairaland

I tire oh.

Marriage ke, well maybe an another world sha,

They are scared because they don't know between Simi, Amina, Chioma who they really want to settle with and finally they would even involve innocent Bisola

Fear of the unknown.

Money does it all..

Cheating, recession

Benignasweety:
They are scared because they don't know between Simi, Amina, Chioma who they really want to settle with and finally they would even involve innocent Bisola

You assertion above is wrong

Hoes everywhere

Evaberry:
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The only a reason a man gets scared of marriage is because he's a coward who cannot face the reality of life, the reality of having his own family and taking care of them, he would rather no one be dependent on him. The biggest excuse of Nigerian men on why are not yet ready for marriage is 'No money' as if you need all the money in the world to get married.

Sadly marriage is overrated and done to please the society and parents, As a man never propose because of pressure and as a woman never accept a proposal because of pressure, marry someone who makes you happy, who you connect with not just on a sexual level, Marry someone who you know is going to make your life easier.

Finally, FTC WAWU, been a long time I got this spot, I want to dedicate this ftc to my very special Nairalander, I miss you everyday, I miss spending time with you, I miss the incredible orgasm and lastly I wish you would stop being a coward and just do it.

na your type der poison your husband..

what a nasty comment (especially the first line).


you need orientation ma'am

Only club girls are afraid of not getting the attention of other men cos of marriage

Benignasweety:
They are scared because they don't know between Simi, Amina, Chioma who they really want to settle with and finally they would even involve innocent Bisola

I am scared of marriage simply coz I haven't got emotional and financial stability just yet and I am sure it's same for a lot of us upcoming young men

In my opinion Guy's are not scared of Marriage...

These are some of the reasons guys are not getting married...

1. You can get Sex without any commitment.

2. Premarital is now a norm.

3. Women have turn themselves to Sex object and not Mothers anymore.

4. Baby Daddy is the trending thing.

5. Love is not Sold to the Highest bidder.

6. There are no-jobs with Financial Security.

7. Men and Women don't know what Marriage means anymore.

8. We are all Selfish.

NB: Money is Very important but definitely not the Most important Thing.

Ladies have sex around & we are scared that they can't stay with one man.....The cheating rate is getting high... In this world where a woman will be on phone having sex with another guy & may be speaking to fiancee same time.... ...in this world where ladies will have sex with ex few days to wedding......in this world where DNA fails.....In this world where if you don't have much money, love becomes an issue.......In this world where ladies have opened legs for many guys & cant stay with just one joystick.....Fear!!!! Its not just a fear of committment, but fear of cheating....

The only Reason why Men fear marriage is because they think they're Man enough yet but not knowing that the case is vers-versa. but come to think of it, Marriage comes from God. It's a blessing and not just ordinary.

It's a Divine call