emefav:
A Bride who will be walking down the aisle with the man everybody thinks she loves, has sent Genevieve Magazine founder, Betty Irabor an SOS.

According to Betty, the lady disclosed that the man she will be marrying in few hours is not the one, as her heart is somewhere else and she doesn’t know what to do...

Betty did the right thing by referring her to a counsellor.

It's a reminder that marriage goes beyond the euphoria of "viral" social media picture-perfect proposals...

Marriage is a COMMITMENT

How many people today understand commitment?

I'm not understanding.

Through dating period, courtship,proposal, preparation for wedding,and then wedding day, she feels he's not the one?

Me I will kill somebody.

Marriage counselor when they are not yet married. Abeg give her "I Don dey craze" medicine. slowpoke

AryaSand:

You can imagine the girl o. After baba bought engagement ring, did Introduction e.t.c. She come dey develop cold feet now. Wicked Girl.

Abi oo, just feel sorry for the guy but still dey alright, atleast no be after wedding she coo dey talk

dingbang:
what is ur problem na... Is it ur comment?

I don't have a problem, I was just pointing out yours

That's why it is not good for ladies to be keeping more than one guy at a time. That's the result of cheating. It makes ones mind to be divided.

So all the grooms going through this themread today would be like I hope it's not....

ProfGday:
May wisdom fall on the soon to be wife...loruko Jesu.

Hahahaha

She's mad.

AryaSand:

You can imagine the girl o. After baba bought engagement ring, did Introduction e.t.c. She come dey develop cold feet now. Wicked Girl.

Nice DP, hope you practice wat u preach ehn?

PaperLace:
It's normal.

So many couples feel that way, especially women. That's why you see them quarrelling a lot towards the wedding and hammering on imperfections that has been there.

If she has checked and it's not that marriage paranoia, she should save the young man the stress. I know a couple that went ahead with the wedding just to avoid embarrassment, then separated immediately after the reception.

why is it at the die minute some women don't think straight while some think with their butt, the guy will be traumatize , is not going to be easy for him, that's why I prefer single life, marriage is just to keep the generation going ,and have someone who will be warming ur bed...

Lolzz..some ladies are just stupid and devoid sense of discerning. Am really not surprised to hear this in that I learnt some times ago that ladies can disguise to the last minute that they love but once they come across another one they prefer to you, they will just fabricate a mundane excuse to leave. Also, no man can be so sure and refer to a lady as his wife unless they get married cos they can act funny at any point in time. This reminds me of one yeye lady that I dated some times ago..before we started the relationship, she tried giving me so many cues that she's really interested in me cos we were so close as friends then. she would even do anything possible then to make sure I notice her interest but I decided to take my time ascertaining whether the feeling she had was a genuine one or not. Later i had the same feeling for her and I disclosed my mind to her and she accepted with a promise that she would stay with me and follow me anywhere I held to in life. that's led me to develop unusual and great commitment to make sure that the relationship work out. After few months, this gal started misbehaving in which I couldn't hide my grieve from her..I decided to scold her for acting wrongly just to show how much I care about her and love her then but she couldn't see it the way I pictured it. in short, after six months, the gal disclosed finally that she wasn't really in love that she had tried all she could to get the love nurtured but her effort was unavailing. That's how we both departed after several promises from this yeye gal. But one thing that's funny to me then was that she said all my good attributes that a reasonable lady would ever crave to get in a man but she concluded that her heart wasn't accommodating the love I needed from her. Although, she later rued for the level of her stupidity then but it's already too late for her. So therefore, we guys just have to be conscious and careful with those ladies out there so that we don't get ourselves shackled in any unnecessary or unfruitful relationship.

lalanice:
I don't have a problem, I was just pointing out yours

you like to find my trouble

dingbang:
Then she should call of the wedding..... But be ready to pay back all that he has spent..

I fvcking concur!!!

MisterGrace:
This is just not adding up.

1. Who brought the man home?
2. Why did she accept to marry him?
3. Was there some sort of swapping along the line?
4. Did she let the man sponsor her education and then let herself fall in love with another dude?

read the post again and answer your four questions yourself. meanwhile, this is not question time, if u r not a good adviser, let someone else post in the front page jere! na so so dem go dey take nollywood experience answer simple question.
the girl jere, i understand by your mail dat u might be a gold-digger cos u did not mention anywhere the man's fault nor has incurable shortfalls, so makes my assumption. since u av decided to allow urself to be carried away with infatuation, call your man, tell him the truth, leave him to decide may be to go ahead or to quit, he can handle the rest, they are just paparazzi. otherwise, if he decides to 'mumu' himself and start convincing you how much he loves you or how desperate he can still change you (cos me am already seeing you as olosho), well goodluck to him, make his day, play along, let the wedding happen and aftermath, come to nairaland again after the wedding and remind us about your situation. probably by that time, someone like me would know what next to do, maybe tru what happened during the event and some days after staying together as couple (meanwhile, the wedding might actually make you to change your mind and forget about dat he-goat waiting for u @ the door! ehn! dat one wey follow u rish your wedding nite!

after God fear woman

If I say what's on my mind, they will ban me.

I'd have asked her to call it off but when I read the part where everyone thinks she loves the groom to be, I shake my head in amazement.

This is what you get when you double date and triple date. Ok I can't help it. It's coming...

Asha....

To the bride.. bia

Better late than never. Life goes on.

BleSSedMee:
Few hours to?

This doesn't sound good at all. I'm feeling so bad for the groom.

May God see her through.



*some will say it's her village people at work*

You see, nobody has said t's her village people at work but only you. I'm suspecting you're from her village .

Drazeen:
THIS IS WHY I DON'T TAKE SH1T FROM LADIES.... NO MATTER HOW MUCH A GUY LOVES A GIRL AND THINKS SHE LOVES HIM TOO HE SHOULD ALWAYS CREATE ROOM FOR DOUBTS. HE SHOULD BREAK UP WITH HER SEVERAL TIMES BEFORE WE PROPOSING TO HER... SO THAT IF THERE IS ANY DOUBT IN HER HEART ABOUT HIM BEING THE ONE SHE WOULD MOVE ON FROM HIM DURING ONE OF HIS ANTICS AND NEVER COME BACK... BECAUSE THERE SHOULD BE NO DOUBTS ONES YOU GET MARRIED. BUT SOME GUYS ARE TOO SCARED TO TAKE THESE STEPS TO TEST THEIR RELATIONSHIPS.... WE SHOULD NEVER BE SCARED TO LOSE OUR PARTNERS DURING COURTSHIP BECAUSE THATS THE BEST TIME TO BREAK UP OR BE ASSURED OF THE FEELINGS FOR EACH OTHER. FOR HER TO ALLOW THE RELATIONSHIP GET TO THIS EXTENT, THE GUY MUST BE RICH....




BEFORE I MARRY MY WIFE I WILL ASK HER A THOUSAND TIMES IF SHE IS SURE SHE WANTS TO SPEND THE REST OF HER LIFE WITH ME... I WILL MAKE SURE SHE SEE ME IN MY LOWEST... I PITY THE GUY.

Unless God blesses the deed;
Vainly we hope for the harvest-tide.

Whoever will turn rogue after marriage will still turn rogue.

The way Nigerian ladies jump into marriage baffles me. You see a girl out of secondary school and the next thing she thinks about is marriage. Any man that comes and say I want to marry you, her next line of words is come and see my people. No career goal, nothing. This is exactly why marriages fail, you marry someone you hardly know without any relationship. That lady loves someone she spent her entire time with and probably bear pressure pushed her into this wedding.

Bamz:


Unless God blesses the deed;
Vainly we hope for the harvest-tide.

Whoever will turn rogue after marriage will still turn rogue.

i go divorce am as soon as she turn ro...

that has always been the problem! their greed leads the to double date and get hooked for the wrong reasons

don't be surprise, she may be the pestering/nagging the guy into marriage, ( i knw say u wan chop and run if not put ring to it)
Now the guy sold his land borrowed with heavy interest rate to put up a befitting wedding this misfit come dey talk he is not the one,

Again this kind girls that has hope in the other person may also be in love with the wrong guy
with her some wrong reasons, like he buys me more ice cream than this one i want to wed! Some women sha! na God!

i am one of those that call for ladies Should shoulder officially and traditionally 25% of the wedding cost,
that way they will sit up in there quest for Mr. right! imagine! what a fool! he's not the one(1) he is the two?

the will demand traditional marriage, court marriage and religious wedding all for the poor guy pocket only to run after 2days of free food.
Allah ya yisha! there is God and Karma surely you will be paid for your evil!

poor brother your woman to be is an enemy within.. may God protect you! Amen!

Drazeen:


i go divorce am as soon as she turn ro...

Better a broken relationship than a broken marriage.