I am gonna be plain and truthful...I have always had issues with calling i'd rather text. That's one issue my dad and stepmum always had with me. I have dated this girl for 5years and now we wanna be married but my parents are saying no for several reasons
1: My dad and stepum(who caused a fight that seperated my dad from his siblings long ago, so I only have one aunt that we the kids speak to) has to be married first because my step mum said she doesn't want me wife to be a senior to her in the family.
2: My parents (Dad and stepmum) went to some spiritualist and they told them that my marriage won't last very long.
3: They said if I get married I won't remember the family because of my character.

I have been a Christian but exactly a year ago I gave my life to Christ completely and I stopped fornicating. So now I wanna be married but my parents won't let me because of the excuses I listed above.

My fiancee's parents don't have any problem as long as their daughter gets married to who she loves.

Please I need your honest opinion.