Interesting15:


You know?

You know it's a Bible verse, and you tagged it an Igbo proverb?

vizkiz:
Biggest mistake; Marrying a liability.

chatinent:

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Origin: http://chatinent.com.ng/index.php?act=ST&f=31&t=347&st=0#entry654

menxer:
You would never know you made a mistake until the the result is out.

I object, that saying, "he who finds a wife has found a good thing..." is not an Igbo proverb but Bible verse.

TINALETC3:
If u really wnt 2 d attitude of ur partner, 4get abt d way he or she treats u in particular, focus on hw he or she relates wt her family , frnds and neighbors, mind u, she has bin wt dose pple even b4 she met u so, Wateva attitude she dishes out 2 dem is d "real her", no pretence.
2.once in awhile, pay her family home a visit and wen u do, secretly focus on d mother, watch how she treats her husband, ladies most times, treats dia hubby exactly d same way dia mom treated dia dad. Al D same, u cn neva no her 100% bt jst try

mccoy47:
May God protect us from karashikas

Evaberry:
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Many women pretend during courtship and that's part of the reason why marriages are breaking up.


Nobody is perfect but pick someone you know will never hide anything from you.


when looks and a sexy body fade what will make her attractive to you?


Think about that.

ashjay001:



U marry a good wife, u're happy

U marry badly, and u become a philosopher!

Seems u're a very good philosopher!

menxer:
You would never know you made a mistake until the the result is out.

I object, that saying, "he who finds a wife has found a good thing..." is not an Igbo proverb but Bible verse.

Goldfaze1:
the writer is a Muslim he doesn't know Bible verses.

Goldfaze1:
the writer is a Muslim he doesn't know Bible verses.

Mistakes Men Make While Choosing A Wife In Nigeria

chatinent:

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goingape1:
I keep my stand with number 3

any woman who is not a virgin is a useless woman and deserve a useless Man!


a woman will open her shiit hole for someone preek to enter sometime in her life and you want me to go that same shiit hole?


I rather have my package new than to use an second hand product.



as for the question you ask "who then will marry the one you deflower" of cause some stvpid idiot will marry your waste product!

chatinent:
I know. Thanks for reading.

brain54:

you didn't know that...you clearly stated it as an Igbo saying...

LordKO:
@op

Your number one point made you to appear parochial. Being a nightclub goer (I hold no brief for the addicted one's though) doesn't make one irresponsible. Also, one's persona (dressing sense, not holding brief for people that goes around naked) shouldn't be a yardstick to ascertain one's nobility. Attributes (good or bad) always lies beneath persona. So, your number point is invalid.

On your second point, believe you me, the importance of physical beauty can never be undermined - by the way beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and of course, the eyes must eat and feel filled up first before the stomach. My point here is that beauty is as important as good attributes when choosing a wife, this will always ensure sustainable loyalty. I don't see the good in a woman that has good attributes but repulses me physically.

About your number 4, even though it's not a bad idea to go down to a lady's hometown to inquire about her before making a final decision, yet, you shouldn't forget that people do change either for good or bad. Therefore, personally, I would rather make my decision based on a lady's current attitudes than how good or bad she was said to be from her hometown.

Your number 5, 6 and 7 are on point. Only feeble-minded people allows others - parents in particular or other people in general - to decide a fate for them. Actually, it takes a conscientious person to live life at the periphery of conventionalism.

From my own perspective, the easiest way to choose the right life partner is for one to achieve self-realization first. When you achieved self-realization, you'll find it easy to understand what constitute the ambiguous word "love" to you and based on that you will lookout for someone that possesses the good physical and innate attributes that made up the constituency. There's always "the right one" for everyone, what's not obtainable is the "perfect one" and no sane person look for that, because perfection is only of the creator of the universe.

Dressing is the most outwards attributes that we see. A girl who keeps her boom open for all to see must accept to be treated as a public property!

TINALETC3:
If u really wnt 2 d attitude of ur partner, 4get abt d way he or she treats u in particular, focus on hw he or she relates wt her family , frnds and neighbors, mind u, she has bin wt dose pple even b4 she met u so, Wateva attitude she dishes out 2 dem is d "real her", no pretence.
2.once in awhile, pay her family home a visit and wen u do, secretly focus on d mother, watch how she treats her husband, ladies most times, treats dia hubby exactly d same way dia mom treated dia dad. Al D same, u cn neva no her 100% bt jst try

TINALETC3:
If u really wnt 2 d attitude of ur partner, 4get abt d way he or she treats u in particular, focus on hw he or she relates wt her family , frnds and neighbors, mind u, she has bin wt dose pple even b4 she met u so, Wateva attitude she dishes out 2 dem is d "real her", no pretence.
2.once in awhile, pay her family home a visit and wen u do, secretly focus on d mother, watch how she treats her husband, ladies most times, treats dia hubby exactly d same way dia mom treated dia dad. Al D same, u cn neva no her 100% bt jst try

stevecantrell:
with blaqcoffee109 can i ever make a mistake ?