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Deleted! by edogu(m): 10:47am On Sep 22, 2017 |
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Re: Deleted! by Nobody: 10:50am On Sep 22, 2017 |
When will you Nigerians realise white wedding is just a formality! If you've paid bride price, she is your wife _ you are her husband. How can it be a CRIME to impregnate one's wife umunnem? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Deleted! by edogu(m): 10:53am On Sep 22, 2017 |
Kkk |
Re: Deleted! by PointZerom: 10:54am On Sep 22, 2017 |
edogu: Pls explain better. |
Re: Deleted! by edogu(m): 11:05am On Sep 22, 2017 |
PointZerom: 1 Like |
Re: Deleted! by Nobody: 11:07am On Sep 22, 2017 |
edogu:I know why you asked. You both planed on having your white wedding after the payment of bride price. Well, in some churches you won't be wedded while in others you'd. If the rules in yours are strict, then do marriage blessing. |
Re: Deleted! by PointZerom: 11:15am On Sep 22, 2017 |
edogu: Since you have paid her bride price what's she still doing in her father's house?. Bride price remains the last settlement in traditional way of marriage after it comes the ceremony, I wonder how you handled yours. Pls take her to your house, hope you're sure of been responsible for that pregnancy?. 1 Like |
Re: Deleted! by edogu(m): 11:16am On Sep 22, 2017 |
kimbraa: Kimbraa, thanks for your concern. Actually, I didn't know she could get pregnant easily based on the last test we took. We were told that she has a hormonal imbalance. I have paid her bride price. Unfortunately, I couldn't go ahead with the white wedding because I'm among who those were retrenched by the management Michael Okpara University of Agriculture. However, I have assured of the traditional wedding but she's still crying. |
Re: Deleted! by edogu(m): 11:21am On Sep 22, 2017 |
PointZerom:Yes, I'm sure. Thanks by the way for your contribution. 1 Like |
Re: Deleted! by TheArchangel(f): 11:21am On Sep 22, 2017 |
PointZerom:Dont say what you dont know or conversant with. He has not even done the traditional marriage rites sef. That bride price money can be easily returned without recourse. Edogu, you are lucky to impregnate her with the hormonal imbalance she is having. Console her and take her to see a health professional who will explain to her why she is EXTREMELY LUCKY TO BE PREGNANT WITH SUCH DIAGNOSIS. |
Re: Deleted! by edogu(m): 11:24am On Sep 22, 2017 |
TheArchangel:Thanks Archangel |
Re: Deleted! by Nobody: 11:25am On Sep 22, 2017 |
edogu:Why not ask her exactly what she wants. |
Re: Deleted! by ElsonMorali: 11:27am On Sep 22, 2017 |
You say she has hormonal imbalance? This could be the reason for the crying. Loads of women cry when pregnant. It a hormonal thing. Meanwhile, You've paid her dowry and She's still in her father's house? Weird?! 1 Like |
Re: Deleted! by edogu(m): 11:35am On Sep 22, 2017 |
kimbraa:It's kind of psychological. She was raised under a strict condition. She's scared of her father's reaction to the news [quote][/quote] |
Re: Deleted! by Nobody: 11:39am On Sep 22, 2017 |
edogu:Now I understand. She should know the deed has been done, and she shouldn't beat herself for it. The pregnancy doesn't stop her from having her traditional marriage as at when due. 1 Like |
Re: Deleted! by PointZerom: 11:43am On Sep 22, 2017 |
TheArchangel: You didn't understand my post. 1 Like |
Re: Deleted! by Oyindidi(f): 2:29pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
edogu:sorry about your job, you guys can do marriage blessing after delivery. Persuade her to move in with you. 1 Like |
Re: Deleted! by edogu(m): 3:14pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Oyindidi:Thanks |
Re: Deleted! by Geosystem(m): 4:53pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
me think that after her parents have accepted the Bride price from you she is your wife already all others is just fomality 3 Likes |
Re: Deleted! by mrwonlasewonie: 5:49pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
Are you actually sure your wife's ready to be married to you |
Re: Deleted! by Ishilove: 7:19am On Sep 23, 2017 |
edogu:Once your bride price is paid, you're married. In my place bride price payment is a culmination of the traditional rites and is the marriage ceremony itself. Any other ceremony is just paparazzi. Since you've paid it, she is already your wife. Us humans are the ones complicating matters for ourselves with unnecessary, self imposed dogma 2 Likes |
Re: Deleted! by edogu(m): 7:22am On Sep 23, 2017 |
Ishilove:Thanks |
Re: Deleted! by Nobody: 5:31am On Sep 24, 2017 |
edogu: That means you have done a traditional African MARRIAGE. Its just unfortunate that our colonial past degraded it and made it look like its not as good as white people's marriage ceremony. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Deleted! by Ishilove: 6:39am On Sep 24, 2017 |
Muafrika2:Our colonial past masters didn't degrade it. It is us Africans that are enthusiastically degrading the place of traditional marriage with our deeply rooted inferiority complex 4 Likes |
Re: Deleted! by Nobody: 6:47am On Sep 24, 2017 |
Ishilove: |
Re: Deleted! by sisisioge: 6:50am On Sep 24, 2017 |
No...she's all yours now since you've paid the dowry. 2 Likes |
Re: Deleted! by Sanchez01: 7:32am On Sep 24, 2017 |
sisisioge:He paid the bride price and not dowry. I doubt if any ethnic group pay or receive dowries in Nigeria. We often take one for the other but they are not the same. 1 Like |
Re: Deleted! by sisisioge: 9:12am On Sep 24, 2017 |
Sanchez01: Really? Well the bride price makes him the owner. Other components of a dowry such as yams , wines etc might have been brought too. Abi you think he probably brought just the money? All those yams, oil, wines, etc aren't components of a dowry? We Yorubas still collect Biko...the ones groom's family brought. 2 Likes |
Re: Deleted! by Sanchez01: 9:51am On Sep 24, 2017 |
sisisioge:I understand you perfectly and I understand the Yoruba culture like the back of my hands even though I'm not one. However, the yams, oil and so many other items brought forward by the groom and his family to his would-be-bride's family are items required by tradition during rites. When it comes to dowries, we refer to money paid by a bride, and, or her family to the groom. Example of this can be seen with Indians. It explains why I said we don't pay dowries here. 2 Likes |
Re: Deleted! by Ishilove: 10:31am On Sep 24, 2017 |
Sanchez01:Not just money, other material items like cooking pots, sewing machine, plates and cutlery etc. 1 Like |
Re: Deleted! by sisisioge: 10:50am On Sep 24, 2017 |
Sanchez01: Ok, so we are going by dictionary meaning here ba? No probs...na bride price then. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Deleted! by sisisioge: 10:51am On Sep 24, 2017 |
Ishilove: Guy is saying the terms are wrongly used. Dowry is groom-price while bride-price is the iyawo price according to the dictionary 2 Likes |
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