GratefulHeart23:
Hypocrites everywhere. If the woman were to divorce the man coz he brought home a child outside wedlock, some funny characters would definitely criticise and won't mind crucifying her. Some will even tell her to keep praying for him. Mtcheeeew! Why not advise the holier than thou with no blemish herbalist to also pray for the wife and take care of the child after all that's the same advice most people would give the woman if she were the victim.

victorioushands:


I have seen your type and 'full of insecurity' point has become pointless these days before the table of facts. The truth remains that, take it or leave it, whether men cheat or not in marriages, the act of wives bringing in seeds from strangers into her legitimate matrimonial home and thrusting it upon her husband to father is the worst second abomination after that of Eve and the serpent. And the fact that the solution I proffered had not really come up in our age doesn't mean it's not the right option. And mark it, it will be very soon. Couples can choose to divorce on any grounds they want - if the law permits - but to reduce the attacks on matrimony, I reiterate, government should make it mandatory that every child born in a marriage should undergo paternity test. Now, you can either take it or grovel in your insecurity. You just revealed yourself and I hope you are not married yet else I would have pity on the man.

lunacol:
Most of the first borns are not the true child of the husband.Some ladies out of pressure from family members and friends marry the person they never loved and never thought of marrying but the worst part of it is that some ladies have the last sex at least one month,two weeks or even a night before the wedding day with their aristo lover.Some get pregnant from this last fling which results to pregnancy. The gullible husband accepts the another mans seed from the "smart wife" without knowing that the wife is carrying a pregnancy that does not belong to him.

Ahmed0336:
Some women from one particular side specialized in cheating.

midolian:
hehehehe..

I hope its not what i am thinking

victorioushands:
While the government does everything to avoid abuse in marriages, it should also consider subsidizing or making free and compulsory DNA testing of children immediately after birth. It will destroy the hand of satan in marriages. Come to think of it, if it were women of gender equality, they would have shouted everybody down until the bill is passed. But, sadly, they are the only culprit. And I don't know why some of these human rights have not stood for this? This is one of the best ways to reset marriages. So many undocumented illegitimate children have destroyed the homes of innocent fathers. And many of them trouble the society.

tit:


Trust but verify, my sister

GratefulHeart23:
Hypocrites everywhere. If the woman were to divorce the man coz he brought home a child outside wedlock, some funny characters would definitely criticise and won't mind crucifying her. Some will even tell her to keep praying for him. Mtcheeeew! Why not advise the holier than thou with no blemish herbalist to also pray for the wife and take care of the child after all that's the same advice most people would give the woman if she were the victim.

pocohantas:


This isn't about any side though. You will be surprised how common it is in every side. There should be a punishment for this kind of deceit from women.

totorimi:
Honestly, with what the world has turned out to be nowadays, with no fear of God, no self dignity, high infidelity rate and immorality everywhere. Coupled the with the fact that women are just too desperate for money doing things unthinkable to belong.

It won't be out of place for men to secretly conduct a DNA test to be sure before it becomes too late.
It will be suicidal for any man to unknowingly be loving a child spiritually and emotionally not knowing is another man's child.
I fear women more than anything else in this world. A woman can make or mar a man's life so that's why I don't play any rough play with them. Some men today are suffering because of what a woman has done to them but they don't know.
Take a little time and watch a woman discreetly you will notice a lot. If they don't like you they can watch you drown but if they do and u hurt them. They don't regret any action they take on you and they are merciless when dealing especially with a man.

pocohantas:


This isn't about any side though. You will be surprised how common it is in every side. There should be a punishment for this kind of deceit from women.

Legolast:

98% of human right are women

Preetiex:
& what of d men f***king dem?

lagosrd:


What is this one saying.
Kini nwi taanure nse eyan

pocohantas:


The onus is on the married woman to keep her vows na. Which one is the men again? How will she have extra marital affairs and still bring the baby home. That's evil.

Preetiex:
If d table was turn & d man is d 1 wit d child nko

PierreDeFermat:
and some people will say marriage is the only way to not contract STD when you want to do it raw and even married people are giving each other std. I think Saudi sharia law and religious. policing should be introduced to Nigeria,marriage is very scary these days cos girls of today are even far worse than past generation

pocohantas:


Still bad. The woman should so what's best for her...

valentineuwakwe:
this issue is a dangerous one to behold. .can the court dissolve a marriage base on DNA paternity test? if this trend is allow that means many more marriage will go cos most kids born by most wives are not the true children of their husband's. .time will tell. .woman, know thay self o.judgement nd at don reach

GratefulHeart23:
Hypocrites everywhere. If the woman were to divorce the man coz he brought home a child outside wedlock, some funny characters would definitely criticise and won't mind crucifying her. Some will even tell her to keep praying for him. Mtcheeeew! Why not advise the holier than thou with no blemish herbalist to also pray for the wife and take care of the child after all that's the same advice most people would give the woman if she were the victim.

emmyw:
Hmmm

SwayG:
I need to do test also..cos my mind is telling me I'm the lost son of Dangote..

where can I do a test pls

GratefulHeart23:
Hypocrites everywhere. If the woman were to divorce the man coz he brought home a child outside wedlock, some funny characters would definitely criticise and won't mind crucifying her. Some will even tell her to keep praying for him. Mtcheeeew! Why not advise the holier than thou with no blemish herbalist to also pray for the wife and take care of the child after all that's the same advice most people would give the woman if she were the victim.

I believe two wrongs make a right where you come from

Just shut the f*ck up and stop sounding like a broken record

pocohantas:


This isn't about any side though. You will be surprised how common it is in every side. There should be a punishment for this kind of deceit from women.

kimbraa:
For the fact that you're full of insecurities doesn't mean the government should fix that for you. Obviously in this case, the man knew the child wasn't his, then why was he still married to the lady?, a child's paternity isn't the only ground to get a divorce if your wife is promiscuous as he stated. There are faithful women out there who wouldn't stand another man touch them beside their husband and likewise men.

You're too insecure.