Sleekydee:
her wahala go too much...Lol


on a more serious note, if genuine love exist, it wont mata.

using my relationship as an example, wen I end up wit my gf, if eventually she bcoms richer dan I am, I won't lose one minute of sleep. I kno she undastand perfectly d concept of " what's mine is hers n vice versa"

your gf is a rare gem.

imustsaymymindo:


Well, in my own opinion I think it is a fallacy that the richest person in a group or in a relationship automatically becomes the one in control. If so, the richest man in each country would automatically become the President or be the most influential person in the country. And this is untrue.

Following this line of thought, it is probable that those men that lost control or respect because their wives got richer than them is because they didn't have strong leadership qualities but relied on money to buy them such respect.

Story for tortoise. my dear. only 3 things buys respect for women.

1. Man with good enough money.
2. Man that can satisfy sexually.
3. Man that can provide security for his family (part of this can be money as well)

If you loose any one of this. Your respect is gone to the Wind.

@bold are you sure? Because it does seem to be about who has more money. If not why is the woman getting her own money scaring the shyt out of you guys?

A husband is not a helpmate. What is he?
Do you know the meaning of helpmate?

That why many of you are useless as companions. You're presence only adds work for the woman instead of making her life less stressful. (Which is the whole point of getting married.) having some to help you so that things are less stressful for you as single person/parent.

Acidosis:



Cooking is not a function of who has less money. Stop idolizing money.
My wife will cook, and that's not because I earn more..


Many men will not cook because it is simply not "manly" for them to cook all the time. A man or woman that wants to cook will do so even while he/she earns millions.

If at some point, a woman earns so well that she can no longer take care of her house, the ideal thing is to assign some of the roles to an alternate HELPmate. A husband is not a helpmate.

Acidosis:


You're an embarrassment to humanity. I know shamelessness is one of your good qualities but please learn to comport yourself, at least, on Sabbath.

Someone would be an embarassment to humanity only if humanity had the need to protect its integrity. Who is humanity trying to impress? Plants? Animals? Aliens? Non-existent deities?

Sabbath is on Saturday, not Sunday. Does your theology need help?

Jibby, jiggy, jibber, jagger. Sorry. I don't speak the language of apes, nor do I wish to communicate with apes. Now go eat a banana or whatever it is that your people do.

Acidosis:



Cooking is not a function of who has less money. Stop idolizing money. My wife will cook, and that's not because I earn more..

Many men will not cook because it is simply not "manly" for them to cook all the time. A man or woman that wants to cook will do so even while he/she earns millions.

If at some point, a woman earns so well that she can no longer take care of her house, the ideal thing is to assign some of the roles to an alternate HELPmate. A
husband is not a helpmate .

A husband is not a helpmate?
It is finished

I don't mind if my wife earns more than I do, so far there is love and mutual respect from both sides. A family should live on the principle of what is his is hers and what is hers is his.

OmoLayo29:

I should dash my husband money? He earns more than me but he likes to borrow all my money so that I can go broke and beg him for money.men ehn

No mind us oh...

MADUBI:
I don't mind if my wife earns more than I do, so far there is love and mutual respect from both sides. A family should live on the principle of what is his is hers and what is hers is his.

YEP!

cococandy:
Because they don't want to be treated the way they treat their wives when they are the ones with money.

To them it seems normal of a rich man has mistresses and is waited upon hand and foot. It's okay. It's healthy. It's doesn't belittle the woman.

But once a woman is rich same things become suddenly horrible. What am I saying?
even doing half of what men do when they are rich would be an abomination of women do them.

If a rich man works hard to provide for his family, it is common sense that the wife take care of his personal needs and that of the family but if the situation were to be reversed, she's would be evil to expect him to take care of her while she's providing for the family.


Disgusting hypocrites

This is the only reasonable speech here. Men do not want their wife to be rich because when they wife is rich, all their nonsense wont be tolerated as the wife is capable of taking good care of herself.

needful:


This is the only reasonable speech here. Men do not want their wife to be rich because when they wife is rich, all their nonsense wont be tolerated as the wife is capable of taking good care of herself.

Lol
Leave them let them keep beating about the bush as if we don't know the real reason.

needful:


This is the only reasonable speech here. Men do not want their wife to be rich because when they wife is rich, all their nonsense wont be tolerated as the wife is capable of taking good care of herself.

Exactly
That's why I always encourage all Ladies to be financially independent cos if a Lady have her own reliable and good source of income, no man can come and be treating her like trash