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Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by pocohantas(f): 2:54pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Daeylar: LOL. There have been several threads where the woman was the culprit...you need to see comments! See how they are all blessing the poster that said she should forgive and continue having sex with him. That poster should dare make same comment if it were a man and see the insults she would get. Is it that easy to allow a man who cheated on you, gave you STD as bonus...to penetrate you? The woman is emotionally hurt! What do these men take women for? Is this the marriage they are using to insult single ladies? How many men can have an eréction for a wife that did this same thing to them? Damn! Some NLders are wicked!!!!!!! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by joebeckz(m): 3:01pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Benita27:the man is wrong but two wrongs don't make things right. Ur statement above showed u know nothing about marriage. I mean no insult. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by joebeckz(m): 3:15pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Daeylar:Advisers like you are home breakers. If he apologizes sincerely and is ready to make amends, she should forgive and move on in as much as he did wrong and should be punished. Her action was harsh. Instead, she should watch him for 3 months, if he treats himself or not, she should take that time to heal and forgive him completely, they should get closer afterwards and start all over and she should calmly make him understand that she has been hurt and would not easily trust him so he will have to take a urine or blood test before every intimacy. A urine culture test takes 2 to 3 days to be ready and cost 1k. Meaning he can have sex with her just once a week. He will feel bad about her decision but he caused it. No one will tell him to be extra careful even if he still chooses to have an affair outside. Not letting him at all is gonna break her home gradually and she clearly stated that they have a perfect home except for his infidel act. Stop advising people wrongly if you know nothing about marriage and its vows. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by jpphilips(m): 3:46pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
frenzyduchess: I disagree completely, keeping late night has nothing to do with banging another chick under the circumstances except the man is naturally stup!d which the woman is yet to confirm. When you have a Margaret Thatcher at home, it is normal for one to drive to a bar, after work, gist and drink to sober before going home, think about it, what is there to rush home for when under pvssy sanction? |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 4:01pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
So you want to tell me a man that gave his wife std even when their sex life was great and nothing was wrong has been celibate for the past one year? Hahahaha you People will kill somebody with laff. jpphilips: |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by MrMakaveli20(m): 4:06pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Rokia2:you hit the nail on the head. madam, the sooner you resolve this, the better. you might think every other thing is great between you guys, but that's a huge lie. tell your husband to do the necessary tests, or at most, start using a condom.... this has been enough punishment. as a married man myself, I doubt if I would go back to my cheating ways after serving this type of punishment. sex is the icing on the cake of marriage. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 4:25pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
pocohantas: when I see the comments and attitudes of husbands and future husbands I wonder the same thing. 1 Like |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by MissJoy29(f): 4:50pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Geniro:Whatever I advise her now is what I will probably do if I were in her shoes when I'm married (but I Pray I don't experience such) cos like you said, a lot of shit happen in marriage. The main reason I quoted your earlier write up was because you said the man will be "balling" outside. I don't see any form of enjoyment there. A lot of married people are just so immature. Tell me why he can't show genuine remorse and take steps to make up with his wife WHO HE WRONGED GREATLY. You know why, cos he's not ready to stop his misbehaviour. So, whether she starts sleeping with him again or not, it doesn't change the fact that he will still do it again and soonest (if he really hasn't changed). Like I said, I will give her same advice I will take. If I were in her shoes, I know I won't allow it to deteriorate to this level. 1 year is a very long time & so much water may have passed under the bridge on both sides. My handling it well will depend on the man, his level of remorse (which is the bone of contention here) & how far he's willing to make things right. You are a human being. You should know when someone is ready to change. Now, assuming I do everything I could & he's not willing to change or take steps in the right direction, I think I will tow the path of the OP & do what I know will not fail: go to "war" in Prayers. Why? 1) I don't support divorce. I just can't bring myself to support it. 2) I can't just consent to wearing condoms with him to please him when I know he's still sleeping around just because I'm his wife. What about the mental image of him doing what he's doing with me with those other whores? 3) the matter needs wisdom to handle so, I take it to God in Prayers. So, i hope it doesn't get to the stage it got with the OP. I know I won't allow it get to that stage. But you also have to factor in the other person. Is he ready to meet me at least on the way even if not half way? A woman has the power to build or tear her home down. That's why we need to be careful, sensitive, Prayerful and wise. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 4:55pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
mazimee:U dey fuwadu but say she shldnt.. That place has started complaining. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by MissJoy29(f): 4:56pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Proudgorgeousga:My thoughts exactly. Their mentality here goes a long way to show what they really have in mind for their wives. And it's scary as hell... |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 5:00pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
frenzyduchess:U can still bang a stranger and come home early. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 5:01pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
MissJoy29:Well, men see as women jump around before marriage.. U know u stop when d men start. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by MissJoy29(f): 5:03pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
elfmann:I don't understand please |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 5:10pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
MissJoy29:Women claim they have stopped sleeping around after marriage, u know women start early and men use this time to follick more, kind of making up the lost ground. So as the other guy said yesterday.. U can't demand faithfulness when he never deflowered u. It is a man's world if the man has the fund but real marriage is dead in d real sense. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 5:15pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
So let's just assume he has been going for Bible study in hotel rooms then ,Just like he did with the one he got std as souvenir from elfmann: 1 Like |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 5:15pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
tayo60:Its not about her alone, he also has to be willing to save the marriage. 1 Like |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by mapet: 5:28pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Who am I to tell you that your decision is not justified...... Hmm! Unfortunately you are the only one who has not had sex for a year. I also suspect that the lady who infected him would have gone for treatment and continued "servicing" your husband. Secondly, the way you write, it's either you make too much assumptions or you live in denial |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by MissJoy29(f): 5:29pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
elfmann:Lol @making up for lost ground. I have questions for you biko... 1) Is it now a competition on who cheats the most between a man & a woman? 2) Is it every woman that sleeps around before & in marriage? 3) Suppose you are a woman who doesn't sleep around before marriage, how would you feel landing yourself (getting married) with a man who wants to "make up for lost ground" by frolicking up & down? 4) would you be aware a lady sleeps around before marriage ( & probably hasn't stopped) & you want to still marry her so that you will "surpass" her in marriage? 5) This is the most important question: would you say because ladies have been sleeping around, you now want to defile your marital bed and break your vows because you want to show them you can sleep around too & maybe better & smarter than they did? Forgive me for this deluge of questions but your statement brought about them.... |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Daeylar(f): 5:57pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
pocohantas: I see the comments, sometimes when I can't take the rubbish anymore I go to another thread. how many yards of wife material did they say she was? That poster should dare make same comment if it were a man and see the insults she would get.They will eat her raw on the first page alone, the mentioñs will almost kill her. What poster was that though?, was it on the first page?
Don't mind all these people, they know what the man did is wrong and the woman is right in every way, they know the man should even be showing more remorse but because it's a woman, they will close their eyes and pretend they didn't see. What do these men take women for?Submissive wife materials Is this the marriage they are using to insult single ladies? How many men can have an eréction for a wife that did this same thing to them? Damn! Some NLders are wicked!!!!!!! Which one is erection? I've told you that by now they would have gone to her people to demand their bride price back, and in their minds they would have been planning how to kill the useless wife and her useless people, but here see how they are twisting their mouths saying, "don't scatter your marriage" They know what they are doing, they want to cheat and get away with it with little or no repercussions, but they want a faithful wife who will forgive them and "pound yam for them" LMAO when she catches them cheating. 1 Like |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by freda506(f): 6:11pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
mechanics:Would say the same if the roles were reversed? Yeah, it's very easy for you to chide women to forgive. After all, we don't have feelings; we most certainly aren't allowed to air our grievances. We should just be thankful that we found men to "marry" us, right? Sick. @O.p: You're doing amazing, sweetie. The man's atrocities are grievous; way too grievous for you to sweep under the carpet. Whatever decision you take, do not sell yourself cheap. You are allowed to be happy. Don't, in the name of "keeping a marriage", starve yourself of happiness. 1 Like |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by gfelo(m): 7:59pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Pls madam, call ur husband for a talk abt this issue advice him to stop cheating if he can't stop let him manage and use condom, Dnt run from fry pan to fire o. No good marriage anywhere o, na manage we dey. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by chiderao: 8:16pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Nothing is guarenteed in this life...even your life aren't guaranteed also without HIV. mazimee: |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by chiderao: 8:24pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Nothing is guaranteed in this life ..even your life aren't guaranteed without HIV.. ...when she entered into the marriage she knows that it's a risk ...nothing to be assured of....i think she have to accept him back ..run some test etc...and carry on while praying very hard..nothing kills cheating partner like prayerful woman ..we men have a problem with cheating...but I don't cheat thou .... best wishes . |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by stonecoldcafe: 8:53pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
desreek9: Keep having sex dear but stay protected. How can you go a whole year with no sex? I give you hand o! |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 9:56pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
MissJoy29:The world is distorted, so is marriage and humans. If u don't want it stay off it or divorce. No better deals.. Others are waiting to be caught. These questions don't help folks frolicking.. It must go on. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 9:59pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
freda506:She is starving herself of sex.. Can u? |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 10:05pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
frenzyduchess:Some men don't lie about it.. It is up to u. Stay or leave. No unconditional love u know. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 10:07pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
frenzyduchess:Some men don't lie about it.. It is up to u. Stay or leave. No unconditional love, u know. Women must realize that marriage doesn't wipe off ur past sins. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by MissJoy29(f): 10:15pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
elfmann:Hmmmm...ok o. Scary though |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 10:17pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
frenzyduchess:Some men don't lie about it.. It is up to u. Stay or leave. No unconditional love, u know. Women must realize that marriage doesn't wipe off ur past sins. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 10:26pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
MissJoy29:Yeah, since marriage can't be sustained. Don't u see baby mama and daddy coming on mainstream? Girlfriends giving births and no marriage. That is d way it will be going now on unless one wants that battlefront that marriage brings. You can do worst things and no wahala so long as you're not married to d person. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by MissJoy29(f): 10:47pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
elfmann:I get your drift. I really do. But all these don't mean marriage is not good. That was not the original plan of the Creator. How did it ever come to this? |
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