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Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 11:23pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Jman06:That's what they've subjected women to. She should build while the man scatters. That's what makes her a wife while the man's actions are exonerated because he's a man. 9 Likes |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by LesbianBoy(m): 11:23pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Benita27: Go and sleep miss perfect woman! 1 Like |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by kuffy05(m): 11:23pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
One whole year to decide on a man you got married to? Divorce or forgive him and move on! Pray there's no other set of twin outside your marriage. 1 Like |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by condomuser: 11:24pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
You are lucky he is even repentant, i know a lady that gave her man std, she denied it completely and rather said it may have happened while she was dating her ex. They went for tests and it was chlamydia which was treated instantly. There was gap in their sex life but things later picked up. A man/woman who cheats must have a reason to, are you nagging in any way? Are there things you feel he resents about you? Ask yourself these questions and remember 95% men/women will cheat on you so finding an alternative may not solve the problem. I think you can resolve this with openness and honesty between you both, most of all make yourself more appealing at all times not just as a wife but as a young woman. If he stops cheating and you think you can trust him again then open the gate for him otherwise continue the way things are but it wont be long before you start doing the same as he does then both of you will be tagged birds of the same feather . desreek9: |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Teel012(m): 11:25pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
very simple, u think he'll stay a whole year without sex? he probably already has a kid outside sef if u don't knw, and u urself must have a side guy or sugar boy to go that long without sex or forgiving your husband after he has apologised, u didn't tell us how many weeks or months he spent apologising before he decided to give up. you have very wrong advisers, and they're probably not with their husbandry, if they are, u don't know what operates in their house. think madam, it's your home, eventually your kids will notice except they're too young to understand which I kinda doubt. what sort of example are you showing them? |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by LesbianBoy(m): 11:26pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Jman06: Mr man, posting what nairaland ladies (the foolish ones though) want to see won't make them like you! 5 Likes |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 11:27pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
mazimee:her husband might be ontop of something 2 night and she's here complaining 2 complenners If na me be her husband i won't even accept her again mak we cöntinue, na she go tire she's alredy tired I can't advice my sis to starve her husband Marriage is sex No sex no marriage |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by NoToPile: 11:28pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Lexusgs430: The matter is a very sensitive one, I just hope the OP in trying to seek for advise and get a solution doesn't enter into bigger issues and someone from this thread has recognized her already. What if a family member sees her picture? 1 Like |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by sholajigga(m): 11:28pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
If you like forgive your husband, if you like no forgive am. Na your own personal problem be that. 1 Like |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by yaqq: 11:28pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Jman06:responsible single guy date a mother of four? |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 11:29pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Benita27:Reason like a morron 5 Likes |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by OgaApollos: 11:29pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Benita27:I also encourage you to remain single Ma and retain ur joy because cheating is usually not discussed or plan for. We guys don't plan to. I don't plan to. I am not immuned from it either. For ur question? Yes it will hurt bad but in my own place, U don't throw away the baby with the bad water 2 Likes |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Emvicprints1: 11:29pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Op try it for another year again then come back and update us on him getting married to another woman or if it was a court wedding you would beg him for divorce. |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by RuggedArab: 11:30pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Benita27: Young lady, I will advice you to talk less. You have never been married before so don't say what you would do now till then. People have said a lot of things they would do but when faced with that hard situation they couldn't do what they said then because it wasn't the best option then. I think it would be better you say "when I'm faced with such situations, what ever I do is what I can do". I often see your post, when it comes to husband cheating you would say you will leave. If you were in this Op's shoes would you leave your husband and the kids? Of course the man will never give you his kids unless he's a mad man. You should know that marriage is a serous institution. Do you know if you ask 10 married women if they want to leave their husbands and be free 8 will tell you a strong Yes. Now, ask them to leave they tell you how they need to work things out. When you get married you get bonded with your spouse. The worst is not cheating. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 11:31pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Benita27:sister it is easy to say than done you are saying divorce as if it is easiest thing to do the woman in question has four children who will train them ? If she divorce you think with this kind economy of this country to train four kids is tea party my advice is to call the man have a dip discussion with him privately and give him sometime to see if he as change and forgive him and move on in life 1 Like |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Joy1706(f): 11:31pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Benwems:Where will he keep the 2nd wife? Certainly not in her house 2 Likes |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 11:33pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
OgaApollos:There's something called self-control since the cheating events are unplanned. Men should work on that before getting into marriage. The same blood that flows through your veins does flow in women's veins too, they don't have water in place of it. And do unto others what you'd love them do unto you. It's that simply. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Joy1706(f): 11:34pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
LesbianBoy:What is wrong with what he posted? Isn't it the truth? 5 Likes |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Gudfrie(m): 11:35pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
mazimee:We are not against her doing what she did....... But denying her husband sex for one year is crazy n she even push him further. Beta they reconcile n stay togeda again than ds. She has no place with any man after 4 kids except she decides to stay single |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by KingSango(m): 11:35pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Adaumunocha: Nigeria has one of the highest HIV rates and not so good treatment. Cheating in these end times can be deadly. There are many orphans in Africa due Aids killing off both parents. Go see a good native doctor to see if your husband is worth your life and your 4 children. Ase Love Sango 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by seguno2: 11:38pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
You should take your own advice below. desreek9: 2 Likes |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 11:39pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
RuggedArab:On the grounds of infidelity, do you think he'd have custody of the kids?. BTW, I stated what I'd do if caught up in such a situation 'cause I wouldn't want to commit a grave sin. 5 Likes |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Nobody: 11:39pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
I am a guy an I am telling you you will be taking a great risk getting back on where you stopped just like that... * a whole bleeping year*..your husband has a confirmed lover, I mean another "wife" he is not just married to this woman. Be prepared for shockers. A year is too much time. An STI that didn't make you see you period must be some serious one that's to tell you something worse can happen. You are married to a careless man that has not regard for his life over pleasure. A man that does not use condoms on sidechicks doesn't regard his life. In a country where HIV is prevalent. The only option here is to use condoms with him 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by ameh99: 11:42pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Ma' am'' I think your decision is hash, if he has apologised and you truly see a changed man in him, forgive and ask him to go for test and start anew. This are some of the poo's you see in marriage...... Can not believe you denied a brother your cookie for for 365days... and expect him to keep waiting on you... |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by harveyspec: 11:42pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
desreek9: Children of Nowadays!! You have opened the door for things to get messed up. firstly, your husband's action was wrong, the bible says forgive or divorce, you chose to do neither, then you added unforgiveness, bitterness. one whole year no sex!! it will take a miracle for things to get back to normal with both of you. the option of Condom or No Sex is better than one year of no sex!! you have also exposed yourself to sexual temptation. keep pouring all ur emotions, time & finances on ur kids while anger,bitterness,jealousy eats u up. what do you want online folks to tell you? Why didnt you cry out to family, pastor, imam, mentors at the beginning? go talk to old couples & find out the various challenges that came their way & how they surmounted it. this generation is too quick to give up on things. 5 Likes |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by seguno2: 11:43pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Dunkofia20: If they divorce, the useless man will continue to pay for the children until they are 18 or 21 if they want to go for tertiary education. Moreover what is the big deal about being a single mother or even a spinster/bachelor for life? What is wrong with those options, which priests and nuns follow? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by walexix(m): 11:44pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Its better you get yourself female condom to protect yourself rather than punishing yourself or making your husband addicted to formication before you start regretting. 2 Likes |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by akigbemaru: 11:45pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
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Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by Lexusgs430: 11:45pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
NoToPile: Picture + name is already taken down.... We need to implore the person that quoted, to edit post |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by JamesReacher(m): 11:48pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
The only fault was the man catching STD!! That's the only mistake |
Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by emmyw(m): 11:50pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Rokia2:Best Comment So Far, Wow! So Some Ladies Can Think Like This, Seriously, I Like Your Charisma, God Bless You! 1 Like
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Re: I Deny My Husband Sex Because Of STD by shilz(f): 11:54pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
EVILFOREST:but her husband already accepted he did it or you didn't read that part? 1 Like |
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