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Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by Xisnin(m): 11:24am On Nov 29, 2017
sKeetz:
She should come and marry me.

Nigerians are not jealous of each other and I won't commit suicide.

As an added incentive; I have a big dîck too.



Apart from your di ck what else do you have to offer?

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Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by Gr8son: 11:26am On Nov 29, 2017
If Africans are jealous of each other, how come Nigerians support each other! Even your in-law.
That doesn't take the pains away. However, I think the title should include the word "some ..."

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Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by Mrnairalandd: 11:29am On Nov 29, 2017
emusmithy:
Just saw this on Facebook.

Modified: You're never wrong Flying Solo.

I have been flying solo for almost 8 years now and my life is really peaceful without any fear of being stabbed or betrayed.

I keep all these fake friends at bay

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Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by oyetpel(m): 11:33am On Nov 29, 2017
What did i just read? So touching.
RIP to Sylvester.
Black men are so bad, just now i am beginning to think we are cursed.

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Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by habsydiamond(m): 11:44am On Nov 29, 2017
people being jealous of eachother as been in existence since the time of Adam. Cain ended up killing his brother all because of this factor... jealousy leads to enmity.. if u feel someone is jealous of Ur progress it's beta u pick race B4 u end up in a hole just like that of a fish pond.....
Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by 9jatatafo(m): 11:46am On Nov 29, 2017
This is PhD. Pull Him Down. Africa and their stupid thinking

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Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by sKeetz(m): 11:52am On Nov 29, 2017
Xisnin:


Apart from your di ck what else do you have to offer?

My balls. undecided
Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by sKeetz(m): 11:54am On Nov 29, 2017
thebosstrevor:


Another Sylvester friend on nairaland.

Who is Sylvester ?!?
Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by sirusX(m): 11:56am On Nov 29, 2017
careytommy7:
So this mumu committed suicide because he was deported?
Reason am nah....from yankee life to something similar to Buhari drama

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Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by hanassholesolo: 11:57am On Nov 29, 2017
DTalented:
Well, 1bitcoin is now $10,000 and Something. Check my signature. Join the facaebook group.
Thank me later

Jesus

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Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by Nobody: 12:39pm On Nov 29, 2017
What a sad story and a terrible outcome. Karma is a Biitch with a fat @rse, she will always come back and Fvck you up.
Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by toye440: 12:50pm On Nov 29, 2017
sKeetz:
She should come and marry me.
Nigerians are not jealous of each other and I won't commit suicide.
As an added incentive; I have a big dîck too.

But jews hate Afonjas for bin a better homosapien.
Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by jacyhelen(f): 1:06pm On Nov 29, 2017
i dont keep close friends,they kill faster than bullet.

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Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by HERSLEY(f): 1:10pm On Nov 29, 2017
sKeetz:
She should come and marry me.

Nigerians are not jealous of each other and I won't commit suicide.

As an added incentive; I have a big dîck too.


hmmmm...hi
Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by Kakamorufu(m): 1:11pm On Nov 29, 2017
Thats why u see some black who only feel safe when they are around the white peeps. Africans hate eachother no be small

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Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by Nobody: 1:27pm On Nov 29, 2017
e be like say to marry all these whites remain now! dating sites here i come!!!
Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by Tjohnnay: 1:31pm On Nov 29, 2017
theapeman:
true oh! white women are very caring and loving with there sweet sense of love-jealously when them see you with other women!

them can love for Africa unlike our[b][/b] black baboons[b][/b] who can open leg for moneyundecided

I advise you put your standard above naija women.


Those ones?? der case dey one side

der mata tire me ehn

I nor dey even reason dm again
Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by Ugosample(m): 2:03pm On Nov 29, 2017
kay29000:
WOW! I didn't expect what happened in the end. This would make for a great story/movie.

Really, the "crab in the bucket" mentality most Africans have is so disturbing. Where did that come from sef? Why do black people hate to see another one of their own succeed? Once a black man in a black community succeeds, you start hearing stuff like...he did juju, or he joined Illuminati or what not. We are own problem.

Blacks have a serious problem

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Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by dragunov: 2:07pm On Nov 29, 2017
DTalented:
Well, 1bitcoin is now $10,000 and Something. Check my signature. Join the facaebook group.
Thank me later
Thief!!!!!!!!!!! Bitcoin ko bitnote ni. Mchewwwwwwwwwwwwww! Lost 25grand to one of you m.other 'fz' last year. The ars.ehole named Michael and who attends a winners chapel branch stopped picking my calls. Bitcoin my foot.

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Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by Infamous(m): 2:28pm On Nov 29, 2017
Misleading topic.
The lady never said that 'africans' in diaspora are jealous of themselves rather i read 'Zambians' living in diaspora (atlanta) are jealous of themselves.
I also read where she mentioned that her step sister is married to a Nigerian and that they (Nigerians) in diaspora (no particular place was mentioned) are supportive of themselves.
Nigerians in diaspora be repping. I don't give a hoot about the negative reports people (even nigerians) give, nigeria will be great again.
Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by toprealman: 2:38pm On Nov 29, 2017
Price you pay for being too good.

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Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by DTalented(m): 2:48pm On Nov 29, 2017
dragunov:

Thief!!!!!!!!!!! Bitcoin ko bitnote ni. Mchewwwwwwwwwwwwww! Lost 25grand to one of you m.other 'fz' last year. The ars.ehole named Michael and who attends a winners chapel branch stopped picking my calls. Bitcoin my foot.
Sorry for your loss sir. I have lost more than 25grand to scammers. I mean, MOREEE. But that does not mean i should quit trying. No. It also doesn't mean all programs are scam or that everyone is a scammer.
From your post, i understand you do not really know much about btc. When you finally do sir, you would wish you had opened your mind to learn about it earlier.
Good luck sir.
Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by Nobody: 3:31pm On Nov 29, 2017
From what I know about from my elder sister in UK, I would say yes but it depends on social groups. They would help you to find your footing but don't expect them to be Father Christmas all the time.

Sirheny007:


Nigerians..can you confirm this?

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Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by Nobody: 3:32pm On Nov 29, 2017
Zambians. The lady said Nigerians in diaspora help themselves.

Kakamorufu:
Thats why u see some black who only feel safe when they are around the white peeps. Africans hate eachother no be small
Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by whitebeard(m): 3:37pm On Nov 29, 2017
emusmithy:
Just saw this on Facebook.

Modified: You're never wrong Flying Solo.
I'd drink to this..!!

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Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by Kakamorufu(m): 3:41pm On Nov 29, 2017
JoeyBlack:
Zambians. The lady said Nigerians in diaspora help themselves.

u think i didn't see that? What am saying is, some blacks just don't feel safe hanging out with fellow blacks, irrespective of their country of origin. Tho naija peeps do look out 4 eachother over there, i know that 4 real.

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Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by cooltola(m): 4:13pm On Nov 29, 2017
He should not have committed suicide regardless, he gave more power to those who set him up by committing suicide. Life is precious and sometimes not a bed of Roses, when things are tough , get on your own knees , get support groups and so on . leave your case to God, the Lord strengthened the weak.
Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by Kbanka: 4:34pm On Nov 29, 2017
According to your story, Its nt africans that are jealous of each other. Its zambians. Keep us out of it
Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by Heartbender: 4:46pm On Nov 29, 2017
Moral of the story...be a Nigerian if you must be African. grin
Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by Nobody: 4:50pm On Nov 29, 2017
Mind the functions you attend, black folks generally use such functions to dress down those they feel are below them; find every means to run you down if they feel you are above them ( whatever the reason behind it, i dont know- maybe poor mindset).

When you are new in country, pick your associates very very carefully! Na ma kontri pesin no follow....

Drinokrane:
According to a Facebook page named Mwebantu Trendsetters Two, An heartbroken American lady just shared this touching story. The post has garnered over 8k likes 7kcomments and 3k shares;
"You Can Never Understand A Human Being. I met Sylvester Mumba in 2012 in Livingstone,Zambia when I went there on vacation.

Sylvester used to sell things made out of wood at a place called Mukuni park in Livingstone. He was a talented woodcarver
,he used to make decorative crafts out of wood.

I got his phone number after I asked him to make a wooden map of United States Of America with my names written on it. From that day,he became my friend and we started communicating even when I came back to USA. I was 23 years old and single when I met him, I just did not feel happy,I was basically lonely and I would call Sylvester whenever I felt lonely. We would chat for hours non-stop. He had broken english but I understood everything.

He used to tell me that” we were meant to be because only I understood His bad english” We then started dating six months later.

I saved up just enough working as a Host in at a SteakHouse, went to a travel agency booked a plane ticket and was off again to Zambia,but this time not to see the Victoria falls but to see Sylvester. The ticket was $1,357 dollars at the time round trip. I stayed in Zambia for a month and we quickly got married.
Then after the wedding,i left him in Zambia. Back home in USA, I paid an Immigration lawyer to help me with visa paper work for Sylvester.

To make the long story short, Sylvester was given a green card and that’s how he came to USA in May 2013. We did another wedding in USA.

We were so Much in love. All was well in our marriage.
I even helped him get a Job at Target Stores and helped him buy a car to ease his movements. He slowly started adapting to the American culture and his English Improved. He also met some Zambians living in USA and together they became one family. As time went by,we started attending functions/parties organised by the Zambian community in USA.

I was even there in Tampa, Florida to support Zambia National Soccer Team when they took on Japan. And after the soccer match there was a party where we interacted with the Soccer players and other people in attendance. I have attended many independence functions organised by the Zambian community in Atlanta. I started noticing one thing,the Zambians in USA like Gossiping and do not like to see their fellow Zambians (Friends) prosper in Life.

Sylvester’s Zambian friends, Women inclusive would call and tell me that Sylvester did not marry me because he loves me, but because of poverty and papers (Green card). They would tell me that he was going round the Zambian community,telling people that he was just using me to become a US citizen and that he will leave me once he is given a green card valid for 10-years. Some of his Male Friends would call me asking me to divorce him and marry them instead, and some would call asking me for sex.

I did not care about what people were telling me. I loved him so much and he meant my world to me. Up to date I do not understand why Zambians in diaspora are jealous of each other. My step sister is married to a Nigerian Man and The Nigerians are so supportive of each other. Sylvester and I decided to isolate ourselves from all the Zambians in USA because their gossips started affecting our marriage.

We were happy once again until in June this year when Sylvester was arrested for being in possession of drugs.

He went drinking with some of his trusted Zambian friends. After around midnight,they all decided to call it a day. Sylvester was the only one driving,so he had to drop his friends at their various homes. And after dropping his friends,on his way back home, he was stopped by a squad car (Police Car).

His friends planted some drugs in his car and called the police. And that’s how he was arrested in June and was deported back to Zambia Three weeks ago. I tried to fight his deportation for 4 months but it couldn’t work out as you know our immigration laws are now tough because of our current president.

People get deported for minor offences. And the sad part is that his friends have been asking me to date them since the time he was detained. Sylvester left USA three weeks ago and on Friday 24th November,2017 he committed suicide. Sylvester will be put to rest today the 27th of November,2017 at his parent’s village in Northern part of Zambia. I am so heartbroken. I am unable to travel to Zambia.

My prayers and thoughts are with his family"


http://www.torimill.com/2017/11/in-diaspora-are-jealous-of-each-other.html

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Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by CioAngels(f): 5:09pm On Nov 29, 2017
Sorry about that, his friends will still come to ask you out, please run from them or report them to authorities to get them warned or deported too.

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Re: "Africans In Diaspora Are Jealous Of Each Other" - U.S Lady Cries Out by Icon79(m): 5:21pm On Nov 29, 2017
Pretty girl.

And by the way, this problem isn't limited to Zambians alone ... all black Africans are jealous of each other. That's why I try to stay away from Nigerians. An average Nigerian would rather push you down than help you stand.



O pari

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