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Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by Ctrlsolutn: 10:41pm On Dec 07, 2017
olasunkanmii:
Both are mutually exclusive. Reason; by the traditional wedding, you have performed the customary rites required for the marriage ( the peoples' mandate), but by crowning it with the white (church) wedding, you are entrusting your union into God's hand. So, no "chucking" until the white wedding is done

But how many would be couples hav truly abstained for any reason.... my pple blow everyday !!!
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by Lotechi(m): 10:41pm On Dec 07, 2017
olasunkanmii:
Both are mutually exclusive. Reason; by the traditional wedding, you have performed the customary rites required for the marriage ( the peoples' mandate), but by crowning it with the white (church) wedding, you are entrusting your union into God's hand. So, no "chucking" until the white wedding is done
. Once you get married traditionally, automatically you have acted according to God's guidelines. do not let the church deceive you o. which wedding ceremony do you think Jesus attended, white wedding? #logic.

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Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by Nobody: 10:46pm On Dec 07, 2017
Inanna:
Yes. Incase you don’t know, what you call a “white wedding” is the traditional wedding of the westerners. All weddings are traditional to the indigenous people from which it stemmed from.
As long as the couple is recognized as husband and wife by the families involved and the society in general, they are married and are free to engage in sexual activities .
But they were already free to engage in sexual activities before marriage.
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by Lotechi(m): 10:47pm On Dec 07, 2017
Wildatheist:
The most important questions are...

1. What's God's business with sex?

2. When we have sex, do our spirits also have sex?
I do ask this question myself but then I still ask myself "why do all reasonable religion frown at sex before marriage"??
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by Wildatheist: 10:48pm On Dec 07, 2017
Lotechi:
I do ask this question myself but then I still ask myself "why do all reasonable religion frown at sex before marriage"??

What do you mean by all reasonable religion? Is there any reasonable religion?
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by tosyne2much(m): 10:49pm On Dec 07, 2017
The moment you fulfill marriage rites, sex can come afterwards. Church wedding is western culture
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by Laple0541(m): 10:52pm On Dec 07, 2017
Mumu question
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by Organs(m): 10:53pm On Dec 07, 2017
olasunkanmii:
Both are mutually exclusive. Reason; by the traditional wedding, you have performed the customary rites required for the marriage ( the peoples' mandate), but by crowning it with the white (church) wedding, you are entrusting your union into God's hand. So, no "chucking" until the white wedding is done


I guess your great grand fathers wedding is null and void cos no white wedding involved. Its colonial mentality. I guess devil blessed the customary one abi??

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Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by Lotechi(m): 11:02pm On Dec 07, 2017
Wildatheist:


What do you mean by all reasonable religion? Is there any reasonable religion?
I have not studied every religion in the world hence I do not know if any accepts sex before marriage.....the word "reasonable" in this context is limited to "popular" or " well recognized". But I guess you understood the point I was trying to nail
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by YelloweWest: 11:04pm On Dec 07, 2017
pointstores:
See question
You'll be surprised to see how many people that have replaced fathers consent with pastors consent angry

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Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by WrathOfHadez(m): 11:06pm On Dec 07, 2017
bizzai:


https://www.modernghana.com/amp/lifestyle/10419/can-christian-couple-have-sex-after-traditional-marriage-cer.html

You’re just confusing yourself. Church marriage has no scriptural basis and is not biblical.

No marriage ever took place in the synagogue nor did any apostle or prophet or even Lord Jesus ever conducted or officiated any marriage.

Church wedding is man made and inferior to Court wedding or traditional marriage.

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Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by Ugosample(m): 11:10pm On Dec 07, 2017
Wedding is wedding

Period


If you don't want trad, do "white" and if you don't want white, do only traditional; suit yourself


If you want to do both, so both.

The Problem with Africans is that they are too dogmatic.

As long as two people have made their intentions known to the public in the presence of witnesses (traditional, white or even court) they don marry

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Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by mikkycyruz(m): 11:12pm On Dec 07, 2017
bizzai:


https://www.modernghana.com/amp/lifestyle/10419/can-christian-couple-have-sex-after-traditional-marriage-cer.html

Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by DreamSonInlaw(m): 11:17pm On Dec 07, 2017
When you say I am a good boy lemme read to the end (thinking the post is like 5pages highest) you read like 9 page. Then u get tired u scrolled to see its like 50 pages! And be like why did I waste my time smiley
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by tete7000(m): 11:22pm On Dec 07, 2017
Most cultures allow more than one wife, a church marriage allows only a wife for a man till death part them both. Are the two same, govern by the same law? No! Can traditional marriage replace church's marriage? No!
Many men will definitely prefer a traditional marriage plus court because it allows them to defile the perpetual vow. It is the women that I always pity in this kind of argument. A sensible woman should practice her faith well and marry a man than shares her believe in supremacy of church's marriage over traditional or court marriage. It takes two to tango.
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by davillian(m): 11:32pm On Dec 07, 2017
Like me I can't wait till TM b4 I bgin fire.
I don begging test run b4 TM.
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by bezimo(m): 11:42pm On Dec 07, 2017
Left for me..i dont even want to do T.M because of some certain reasons..just pay bride price on her head in a small family setting.Then collect my wife staight to church for white wedding.

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Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by Nobody: 11:43pm On Dec 07, 2017
bizzai:


https://www.modernghana.com/amp/lifestyle/10419/can-christian-couple-have-sex-after-traditional-marriage-cer.html


Did anyone do church wedding in the Bible?

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Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by Hustlerlomo(m): 11:46pm On Dec 07, 2017
I no understand this question oo, so before the traditional or white wedding, u mean d guy no go tear bush all this while.. Na stupid question be this.
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by jossypet(m): 11:49pm On Dec 07, 2017
Until our local churches instruct otherwise, we must submit ourselves to the standing order of the local assembly we belong to. If we disobey even when we think we are right, heaven sees it as rebellion. So be wise.
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by ogtavia(m): 12:18am On Dec 08, 2017
No...they shouldnt.
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by ZUBY77(m): 12:33am On Dec 08, 2017
No, they are only allowed to have sex after their second child.

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Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by Harrynight(m): 12:59am On Dec 08, 2017
No No No..... untill ur legally married! thatz when u signed and recieved ur marriage certificate... without the cerificate ur committing Adultry if u both hav sex irrespective of the fact that u paid her pride price!
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by Harrynight(m): 1:03am On Dec 08, 2017
Inanna:
Yes. Incase you don’t know, what you call a “white wedding” is the traditional wedding of the westerners. All weddings are traditional to the indigenous people from which it stemmed from.
As long as the couple is recognized as husband and wife by the families involved and the society in general, they are married and are free to engage in sexual activities .

they must be recognized by the government if not ur marriage remain illegal hence ur commiting fornication if sleeping wit him/her witout Marriage Cert.
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by Harrynight(m): 1:11am On Dec 08, 2017
bizzai:


https://www.modernghana.com/amp/lifestyle/10419/can-christian-couple-have-sex-after-traditional-marriage-cer.html

Bride pride or what ever does not legalized marriage... Only signed Marriage Certificate does.... having sex without Govt recognition of ur union is a fornication
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by DedeNkem: 1:15am On Dec 08, 2017
Don't let religion detect how you live your life!!
Don't let pastors detect your marriage!
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by 1metre: 1:23am On Dec 08, 2017
olasunkanmii:
Both are mutually exclusive. Reason; by the traditional wedding, you have performed the customary rites required for the marriage ( the peoples' mandate), but by crowning it with the white (church) wedding, you are entrusting your union into God's hand. So, no "chucking" until the white wedding is done
but also remember, traditional wedding is indigenous while white wedding is acquired.

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Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by rabzy: 1:56am On Dec 08, 2017
olasunkanmii:
Both are mutually exclusive. Reason; by the traditional wedding, you have performed the customary rites required for the marriage ( the peoples' mandate), but by crowning it with the white (church) wedding, you are entrusting your union into God's hand. So, no "chucking" until the white wedding is done

so traditional marriage can not be entrusted to God. So you must enter a building before something can be entrusted to God. Jesus said no temple is important or indispensable, neither in this mountain nor in the temple will people worship but they will worship with spirit and truth.
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by rabzy: 1:57am On Dec 08, 2017
lexy2014:
with biblical evidence, pls educate me on how marriage was conducted in d new testament church based on "things became new".

good question
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by Akolawole(m): 2:29am On Dec 08, 2017
The keyword here is Christianity.

In that case, culture is put in the bin. I meant a complete NO NO. Be you a Ghanaian or Ivorian.

We cannot have one leg in Christ and the other legal in culture.
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by HeyCorleone(m): 2:34am On Dec 08, 2017
olasunkanmii:
Both are mutually exclusive. Reason; by the traditional wedding, you have performed the customary rites required for the marriage ( the peoples' mandate), but by crowning it with the white (church) wedding, you are entrusting your union into God's hand. So, no "chucking" until the white wedding is done


While this may seem wise, you need to realise there was never a place where white wedding was contracted in the Bible. You either did traditional marriage (and of course in the traditional marriage God would be asked to bless your union) or court marriage (Judges in the Bible like Deborah and Samson blessed union using the laws of the land.

The whole white wedding thing is just a device by the whites to show loyalty to the church. It's not necessary. It's done more good than harm if you ask me.
Re: Can Christian Couple Have Sex After Traditional Marriage Ceremony? by HeyCorleone(m): 2:41am On Dec 08, 2017
tete7000:
Most cultures allow more than one wife, a church marriage allows only a wife for a man till death part them both. Are the two same, govern by the same law? No! Can traditional marriage replace church's marriage? No!
Many men will definitely prefer a traditional marriage plus court because it allows them to defile the perpetual vow. It is the women that I always pity in this kind of argument. A sensible woman should practice her faith well and marry a man than shares her believe in supremacy of church's marriage over traditional or court marriage. It takes two to tango.


Supremacy of Church marriage over traditional marriage or court marriage?? Lmao.. Colonial mentality. And we ask ourselves why our continent is still this backward when our own people think the devices and tradition of the white to reign supreme.

Traditional and Court marriages that were well practiced in the Bible up to a point in the last millennium when the Church became very aggressive and demanded that every marriage be done in the Church to become valid. How is that a sign of superiority?

The problem with the average African is he doesn't know history and is not interested in Learning from it.

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