makky555:




What is culture please? A way of life yea? B4 dey handed us "science and technologies" were they things we had abundant in see our culture?

Don't get me wrong o... I'm not supporting colonialism but Wat I'm against is we trying to deny the dominance of their culture in Nigeria. Half of your today's activity revolved around the "white man's culture" from clothes to haircut and hairdo to food and even to source of livelihood


We can't blame them for us being backward.... developing African countries whose standard of living is better than ours do dey av 2 heads?

Check those countries.. There's less influence of the West there especially in their policy making processes. No one is blaming the white man. I am just accusing the black man of wholly copying the white man that he has lost his identity.

somehow:
wow, what a comment, so because people do it in this part of the world, it makes it right? people do animal sacrifice too, i bet its also right afterall people have been doing it, same with human sacrifice, as long as people are doing it, it means its right.

Why are the whites not doing both their white wedding (the one you call church wedding here which is their own traditional wedding) together with introduction we do here and then the normal traditional wedding?

why do the white only do one wedding whereas you do 3 here? does it mean theirs isn't complete while yours is? some of you blacks with your mentality here. infact i don't see any intelligent discussion coming out from this. enjoy your folly.

Don't mind the low IQ called tete7000. He is the dumbest person I have seen.

Too bad we share a country with alot like him. How can black rise up to our full potentials when we have people that are still mentally enslaved?

pek:
Don't mind the low IQ called tete7000. He is the dumbest person I have seen.

pek:
Don't mind the low IQ called tete7000. He is the dumbest person I have seen.

Birds of the same person flock together. If you know what they call low iq, you will see it each time you look in the mirror. Awon ode meji. What do you know?

somehow:
Too bad we share a country with alot like him. How can black rise up to our full potentials when we have people that are still mentally enslaved?

Deluded you talking mental slavery. Sorry for you! You can relocate to Mars if sharing country with people is your pain. Ode

tete7000:



Birds of the same person flock together.

With this statement alone, you need to look in the mirror and call yourself an idiot. You can do well to refund your elementary school fees. That is, if you went to one!

What a waste.

tete7000:


Deluded you talking mental slavery. Sorry for you! You can relocate to Mars if sharing country with people is your pain. Ode

queenfav:
You are very correct!We have seen couples who did everything, yet lived in chaos. Your parents blessings upon the marriage is key, not one pastor that may even be committing adultery with a female chorister in his church.

hello madam how u de

lexy2014:
hello madam how u de

I am great.. U?

queenfav:
I am great.. U?

am doing fine ur majesty. I hear Xmas is just around d corner

No till after the white wedding

lexy2014:
am doing fine ur majesty. I hear Xmas is just around d corner

Na so.. No be only majesty. Abeg, i dey find money o. Come and buy human hair for the special woman in your life pls.

queenfav:
Na so.. No be only majesty. Abeg, i dey find money o. Come and buy human hair for the special woman in your life pls.

but u are her majesty, Queenfave and u are d special woman in my life. So how we go do d weavon matter? By d way, no b human hair God first give una?

lexy2014:
but u are her majesty, Queenfave and u are d special woman in my life. So how we go do d weavon matter? By d way, no b human hair God first give una?

No let my oga wake up by 12 midnight, dance round 7 times, swear for u abi?U know d babe when u dey toast currently, come and buy her hair so that she can agree fast!

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queenfav:
No let my oga wake up by 12 midnight, dance round 7 times, swear for u abi?U know d babe when u dey toast currently, come and buy her hair so that she can agree fast!

Na we de control all those tinz wey de happen 4 midnight so u have nothing 2 fear. Na u de my mind b4

God recognises traditional marriage during which parents give their concent !! church wedding is a white mans culture and it is not biblical at all. It has nothing to do with scriptures. Only the parents and family has authority in wedding ceremonies not pastors or clergy man. It is just 100% cultural thing for white people and never existed in during and after biblical times until wide spread colonization by whites who brought their white wedding culture to you. It has nothing to do which scriptures. A 100% example of colonial mentality lol.

olasunkanmii:
Both are mutually exclusive. Reason; by the traditional wedding, you have performed the customary rites required for the marriage ( the peoples' mandate), but by crowning it with the white (church) wedding, you are entrusting your union into God's hand. So, no "chucking" until the white wedding is done

there is no conflict here. it is just strictly scriptural truth. Marriage throughout scripture and during early church is traditional marriage. the so called jews still do not have church wedding only traditional jewish weddings.
God recognizes traditional marriage during which parents give their consent !! church wedding is a white mans culture and it is not biblical at all. It has nothing to do with scriptures. Only the parents and family has authority in wedding ceremonies not pastors or clergy man. It is just 100% cultural thing for white people and never existed in during and after biblical times until wide spread colonization by whites who brought their white wedding culture to you. It has nothing to do which scriptures. A 100% example of colonial mentality lol.

tete7000:



And you that know history, clap for yourself. The last time I checked, I am entitled to my opinion. I am not interested in putting the traditional marriage before the church's marriage. Problem with people like you, is you see everything from a rebellion point of view. Every organisation has its code of conduct, no one forces you to be member of the Church. If you chose to join the Church and they tell you it's a must you wed in the church for your marriage to be valid, you do so or quit. Whose business is it if you are traditionalist and chose to do only traditional wedding. Ignorant you talking about people not learning history. I am a Christian by choice and believe in the supremacy of Christian faith over traditional values when they conflict. You can't understand, so stay in your corner and ignore me. People could have as well retain their traditional religion and all this senseless argument won't be necessary. Why convert to Christianity, only to come around challenging Church's authority.

let me tell you a scriptural fact now!! you cannot marry a lady unless the parents HANDS HER OVER TO YOU IN MARRIAGE. You need parental consent if they are still alive. That is the authority God has bestowed on them as the parent. No amount of anointing/ prayers/ fasting can nullify scriptures. Thou shall honour your father and mother so that your days shall be long and it may go well with you.

Lilyqueeny:
No till after the white wedding

Smiles.

abdoolorunwa:

IT IS ONLY ISLAM THAT PREACHES NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE.
SUFFICE IT TO SAY THAT IF YOU DO NOT SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE THEN YOU ARE A MUSLIM AND IT IS A GOOD THING. YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO ENJOY YOUR NEW BRIDE.
BUT YOU PREFER TO CARRY SLAY QUEENS TO D ALTER.

What is wrong with this one... Dnt u have slay queens hiding under hijab just because of societal standards. Is every girl in hijab chaste?