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Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by profosa: 11:11pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
report to her family immediately,thereafter move your family to your new location if you still love your wife and family.,if you dont have money pls go and borrow,please never ever use food money to settle scores even if you catch her red handed. if not properly handled you can loose your children.my 7.years baby reports everything seen,heard or inferred when i go out hustling. women are fickle and conniving. they would turn your children against you.talking based on 7years marriage experience and 2years of joblessness.this are the period a man really knows the wife she married 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by Mintayo(m): 11:11pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
This is beyond you now, it is obvious you can't handle the situation again. It's time you involve her parents and maybe yours. They are all need to be aware to prevent stories that touches. Please help save Anu... https://www.nairaland.com/4239439/please-save-sisters-life/1 |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by NoBetterNigeria: 11:13pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
You're right, i remember the post. Not up to six months AnodaIT: |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by Newboss(m): 11:13pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
So people still marry in this generation? Marriage was for the days of chauvinism! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by Tohzara(m): 11:17pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
xtivin:Abeg, no be by force. Marriage doesn't have to be a PRISON. I wonder what he's even gaining from it, that he'll have to be acting foolish and slaving himself just to preserve it. That doesn't make any sense. His wife doesn't work. He's the one fending for her and the children. She flirts around with some bloke nextdoor (and probably has been fücked by that nigga). He probably has a dream for his own life, a goal in which he seeks fulfilment, yet he stresses himself to cater for a parasite, who still HURTS him despite that, and you're asking him to keep the marriage by all means? Makes zero sense. Of what value is it? Why should he make that the most important thing in his life? If it doesn't work, it doesn't work! Why man go stress himself for nothing. It's completely meaningless. Any woman who tries this with me is gone. That's the end. One can't be struggling with life and still be struggling to keep a marriage. Life shouldn't be that hard. It's not compulsory. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by oshe11: 11:17pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
alfredo4u:DNA DNA DNA Pls do this 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by merbenko: 11:21pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
Jibbie28:A cheating wife will always be a cheating wife no matter what the husband provide to her she will still miss behave 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by Nengee: 11:27pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
The only solution to this is..... Try and relocate u wife and kids to the location u working now . When married couples live apart because of some kind of job it's always dangerous. The home gets divided and the children suffer the more. It will be some nice excitement for ur kids relocating to ur new place of work. It's part of education in another form, the get to learn new cultures and make new friends whom in turn may be great friends of the future. Also if u want ur children to be well disciplined the better be close to u cos a mother can hardly train a child alone. Sometimes the presence of the father in house alone keep the kids cool headed. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:30pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
alfredo4u:Please bro, I advice that you separate from the woman (yes, divorce her) and move on... Else you are heading to your grave 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by focus7: 11:32pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
Never compromise your future with a promiscuous and uncontrollable woman. |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by HolyTitus(m): 11:32pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
Sir, I'll try and be brief as well - Life is damn to short to be unhappy or be held down by low lifers; with all what you'd narrated here, i see her as a kinda lady that doesn't need to be corrected due to her egocentric nature. It's evident she relishes the guy's company more than her marriage - more than you as well. If i were to advise my elder bro as well; this is what I'm gonna tell him... Those precious kids future are very important; relocate your kids to your place or your parents' before they stumble upon what they ain't mature to see yet someday, then channel that energy you've been wasting thinking about how your marriage gon' reform towards achieving more better goals than you've achieved already - let that your so-called wife enjoy her God forsaken company/ fling and lets see who laughs last... Shalom. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by Freeman59: 11:37pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
Bro, take a day or two off work, go home send that adulterous woman packing. What rubbish? Did you say she's your wife? She should go and live that useless life of hers elsewhere 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:38pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
Proudlyngwa:My brother, I don't know why some men would want to die on top of woman matter 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by Freeman59: 11:40pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
Bro, take a day or two off work, go home send that adulterous woman packing. What rubbish? Did you say she's your wife? She should go and live that useless life of hers elsewhere. If you decide to stay on, bro I can assure you that you will die young thinking of all the rubbish she may have done with that guy. Yes I said it, your wife is cheating. What baffles me more is the confidence with which she confronts you with it. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by dadabashua1(m): 11:43pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
nairaland always gives me 1001 reasons not to marry.... if marriage will temper with my happiness..... seriously I won't think about it.... can't trade my peace of mind and happiness for anything else..... mbanu 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by Nobody: 11:45pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
filuka: How much? |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by NaijaElba(m): 11:46pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
@op I will make this brief....Just place Magun on her....Thank me later. #begood |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by Proudlyngwa(m): 11:47pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
TonyeBarcanista: I wonder if some men have testicles, This idea of equality in marriage is a scam, marriage is meant to compliment each other, not cancel out the other person, Heaven knows ,I will never mistake infatuation for love. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by Chydo63(m): 11:48pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
CaptainJeffry:his wife was more than willing and ready to go into the man's arms. She didn't need any push from her husband, all she needed was the freedom she seems to have gotten now! 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by Nobody: 11:48pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
Aren't there good wives anymore?? Where do these ones come from? I dont understand o |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by Chydo63(m): 11:51pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
Freeman59:This is the simple truth. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by eenai(m): 11:57pm On Jan 26, 2018 |
Bros, I understand your predicament and feel for you. It is most unfortunate. Way forward: relocate your family to your new location, this is the very first thing you should do. A woman's infatuation is difficult frustrating to deal with. Talk to her heart to heart. This one no be by gra gra oh. Otherwise you will loose her completely unless you don't mind. Remember if black fly perches on your abunna na cwondastanding you go take slap am commot. |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 12:01am On Jan 27, 2018 |
hopeforcharles:Very baffling So careless and immature |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by Chydo63(m): 12:01am On Jan 27, 2018 |
Op, I've been in a similar situation, the painful aspect is the audacity with which your wife is carrying on, as if you don't have a say in her life. She's your wife and you must stamp your authority. She either obeys you or leave. There can't be 2 captains in a ship. Don't be surprised that someone close to her e.g her mum, sister or friend is/are the ones encouraging her. By the time you give her the expulsion option, she'll come back to her senses. Remember the only action that warrants divorce from the Bible is Adultery. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by InvertedHammer: 12:05am On Jan 27, 2018 |
alfredo4u: Simple solution. Lace her with Climb and gum! May be available in Kenya. Or better, magun. / |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by frank043(m): 12:06am On Jan 27, 2018 |
agbarisocket: Oshey! Powerful one!! Haven't you heard of anti-MAGUN? I was like... wtf the day I heard it exists!!! Still in doubt though. |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by TonyeBarcanista(m): 12:06am On Jan 27, 2018 |
Proudlyngwa:Lol my brother, I wonder sef o... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by Monaco2(m): 12:06am On Jan 27, 2018 |
alfredo4u: Hmmmmm.... Bros this ur story make belle turn me n also make me feel really bad for u n angry at the same time.... N if I can feel all this I can't begin to imagine how u feel. The bitter truth is this your wife is already having a romantic affair with the guy in other words they are already having sex.... Because from Wat u wrote it's obvious, n it's like she is more attached to the guy than u.... N she is willing to let u go for him.... That's the reason she has not bother calling u ...n that's the reason she doesn't careif the neighbors see them together or not... As I am typing this sef I dey vex for ur wife abeg make I stop here 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by Pataricatering(f): 12:07am On Jan 27, 2018 |
Ganjafama:take your kids how ? Their kids not his ! When will you guys learn that women now have rights and you can’t take kids away like your wife has no right to her own kids ? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by credid(m): 12:08am On Jan 27, 2018 |
First go for parternity check to ascerain d two kids na ur own to start with, after dat u gats call off dat marriage coz d fire is dead already before one of go kill d other 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Disregarded My Instructions! I Stopped Calling Her! by Chiscomax(m): 12:12am On Jan 27, 2018 |
Donald3d: hello. this is the studyprofessor guy. can we have a chat? do u still ve my number? |
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