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Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by kollinpowel(m): 2:27pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
The mum is at fault in this , cos the Boy is being trained to grow up way too fast . 1. What stops the mum from going to pay the school fees herself? 2. What stops the mum from visiting the Boy in school or at least knowing a teacher in the boys school 3. If I read the encyclopedia well the mother give the boys so much money, what is the money for? The truth is you should not give children of nowadays too much freedom if not it will end up to hunt you . But it's not to late change his school and give him a close monitoring. 1 Like |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by ashjay001(m): 2:28pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Oladimejyy: Broken home syndrome, mostly! He needs discipline n a father figure. 1 Like |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Asbaba(m): 2:29pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
spiritedtete: Kung Fu with love combined.. lol. I remember when my brother beat the hell out of me, I ran to my moms room but she closed her room on me. he grab me and continue. when he's done I was bleeding from almost everywhere on my body. I was angry 'cause of what happened, I left for my elder sister's house, I told her all that happened. I was expecting her to support me but she started shouting at me to the extent she raised her hand to slap but she was pure and simple, she couldn't find the courage to beat me. also her husband join in to shout at me. that day my heart was full of anger and hatred towards everybody in family, I was even planning to leave the house . But now am good boy, it's now I understand why they treat me like that, not bcuz they hate or don't love me rather it's bcuz of the love they have for me. so, just beat the hell out of the boy and put him on lock down for 3 months, since his case has worsen to smoking and stealing mind you my case isn't about smoking or stealing, it's just bcuz of fighting. at that time I was like freedom fighter. fighter every now and then. so my bro show me how it's to be beaten. up to now I can't remember the last time I fought someone. 4 Likes |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by softprick: 2:29pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Better hand never touch am,ordinarily I dey charge people fee but I will do this for free,just arrange my flight ticket to and fro. |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by bettercreature(m): 2:29pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
mikeywise:The story is very confusing.The Mother is probably a market woman or one of those women that normally have children for different men |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by manci(m): 2:30pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Op your English writing must be a IPOB English from est. |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by femi4: 2:30pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Oladimejyy:she gave him 50k for school fees and she never asked him to provide receipt. That's carelessness of the highest order 1 Like |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Nobody: 2:31pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
consultancy:That kidnap approach is a two way things, he might become soft as you said or he might be worst and become a kidnapper who carries arms himself... The best way is to show him love, take him to Prison and see what is left of the people who choose that path of life. 2 Likes |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by engrjacuzzi: 2:32pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
10 years old and he's already in ss1. that is the consequence for rushing and I'm wondering how he got into secondary school at the age of 6years. that's Child Abuse! parents are the cause of most abnormal attitude we see in children 3 Likes |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Oyindidi(f): 2:33pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Oladimejyy:The mother should tell him there millions of women without children and they are doing well. 10 years old dey threaten him mama. Flog that evil spirit comot for him body then give am mouth every day for 1 month if him no go sober. Silly kid! |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by obi3x(m): 2:33pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Oladimejyy:na so |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by GreenArrow1(m): 2:33pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
snowblaq: Y'all really believe this ckoc and bull story to be true? Lol. The mod who pushed this to the frontpage must be high and protesting against the proposed ban on codeine. Seun! Caution your staff. 1 Like |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Kolency(m): 2:34pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Oladimejyy:Proverbs 13:24 ESV:Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him. |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Nobody: 2:34pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Asbaba:Thank God they did all that... You might been the Modern Day Malcolm, MLK, Huey Newton ... We all know it all ended for them. |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Nobody: 2:35pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
GreenArrow1:I knew its a lie when he said a 10yr old in SS1. I wanted to talk but what do I know? 4 Likes |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Notmyproblem: 2:36pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Oladimejyy: Have you guys considered seeing a psychologist? I had the conversation with a friend few days ago the pressure placed on children to succeed a times by parents do more harm than good. Spending up your child's education implies the child is going to miss some of his/her formative years and that may affect the child negatively. A ten year old in ss1 is throwing an innocent child in the midst of teens raging with hormones and deliquescent behavior. What do you expect from the child if not to try to feel among and been seen as grown up and not a ten year old. 3 Likes |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Nobody: 2:36pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
UjuJoan2:Exactly the question i wanted to ask. Oladimejyy:Im sure u mean to say JSS1, because there is no way that can be possible. Like someone said above, take the boy away from the mother to someone he will fear and have respect for. Bitten him wont solve the proble but he need some that can train talk sence into him. |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Nackzy: 2:38pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Hmmm Wat kind of 10 year old child is that ..am confused |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by MRAKBEE(m): 2:38pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
spiritedtete:I luv ur approach.. No oda approach is as good as discipline and love combined. |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Nobody: 2:39pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
From your story i blv he didnt grow up with his dad.. And grand dads are always soft with kids because they love them around... So i blame u guys the older men in the house. You should have seen all this coming. I gots lots n lots of nephews n nieces all over the world and when ever the family is all together, they all want to be with me, why am i the favourite uncle? I get so close to them that they tell me things they can't even relate with their parents n i get them straight if i need to.. I dont doubt ur story i have had little nephews who's done worse... It pays to be close to these kids not just sending them money all the time or buying them stuffs.. Although i send money from time to time i also take time out to know how they really doing.. Calls n visits when i can.. Spend time with the kid,play with him, relate with him like u would with ur little self.. Let him trust u. The problem will solve itself. 1 Like |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Tego(m): 2:39pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Pray for him |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by GreenArrow1(m): 2:40pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
thegentleman: And people are just rushing to comment on an obvious lie. 1 Like |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by histemple: 2:41pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
First, OP please correct the mistake when you said the 10-year-old boy is in SS1. I believe it was a mistake in typing. This boy lacks the presence of a father in his life and the mother is too soft to train any child let alone a boy. It's all shades of wrong to give such a child money to pay his school fees personally. I also discovered that it seems the woman focused more on other things than monitoring the boy's academic performance. Obviously, she doesn't have any relationship with the boy's teachers and that is why she didn't know that the child has been out of school for sometime. Although this boy is just a victim of probably a broken home. It actually takes redoubled efforts and God's grace for children from broken homes to turn out well. This is because a child needs both parents for normal growth and no single parent can perform both roles effectively. SOLUTION The mother must make up her mind to give that boy something close to the discipline of a father. Send him to a military school and play deaf ears to his complaints of maltreatment. In fact try as much as possible to distance yourself from him at the early stages in that school while she keeps constant communication with his teachers. I could have gone with the suggestion by "Consultancy" to subject the child to a near death threat but I am assuming that the small not hasn't reached that level. Such threats are usually the last resort when every other mechanisms failed. At that level, you must achieve one of the two possibilities. Either the boy changes for good or becomes even more hardened. |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Mckandre(m): 2:41pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
10yr old? i find it hard believing this crap. i just cant
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Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Queenext: 2:41pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Most shouting its a lie,not possible to give a ten ur old boy school fees. Some people aren't worthy to be called parents at all I know a mother that just dump her two children age 6and 4 into a commercial bus,and tell the conductor where they will stop...I was scared that day... If the bus owner is a ritualist nko. Go to private school and see worst parenting 1 Like |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Nobody: 2:44pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
these lies are too much, eeyah what Is it, even if he started schooling at 1 it still doesn't rhyme. |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by talk2percy(m): 2:44pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Single patents, absence of a father figure when a child is growing up is bad. They should just take him to the military school. Let him go there and prove his stubbornness, them go change am for him immediately. 2 Likes |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by uglodoh(f): 2:45pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
mikeywise: That boy is not 10 years old. A ten year old child can't be in SSS 1. |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by gidob(m): 2:45pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Two mins silence for all the mumus who fell for this lie... Some were even giving sound advice...... 7 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Humility017(m): 2:46pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
Oladimejyy:this is one of the aftermath of single parenting or divorce |
Re: My 10-Year-Old Cousin Smokes by Beedude(m): 2:48pm On Feb 11, 2018 |
So Many Things Dont Add Up Here. From The Boy Being 10yrs Old And In Ss1. Then Mother Gave Him 50k Fees To Pay By Himself (A School That Charge That Amount Doesnt Av An Account Number). @op, I Think Both U, The Boy And His Mum Need To Attend Army School Together. 3 Likes |
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