I see this as a total embarrassment to my personality. Despite having few girls at my reach, i decided to make her my piority, my precious, someone i cant trade for any other thing.

My girl concelled our Val plan at last minutes, telling me she is travelling with her dad to their home town to discuss a family issue which she much be present. I was shocked and confused but said ok "safe journey" as she appologized she would make it up to me when she come back. Later something quickly comes to my mind that it could be all lies, so i rushed back home yesterday to try my trick on her by dalling her no. every 2 min( for where, it switched off). I keeps dalling and also monitoring her present on whatsap, luckly for me she was quickly put on her phone probably to check messages. I message her immediately, and she replies there was no power supply at her home time, so she couldnt charge her phone. But to my greatest surprise, my girl refused to pick my calls and insisted we can only chat, that she dont want their neighbour to hear she was making call. That was around 9:20pm o. I called her no. tired, she refused to pick but only replies me with message. I told her straight up she was with a guy but she denied it.

Please guys, i just need an appropriate punishement to employ at this junction. She just message me now that she was on her way coming back from the said home town.

There was fear and too much explanation in her messages(very unusual of her),so i'm 100% sure she was with a guy.

Sorry bros, it's obvious you have been the side bobo all along. No vex.

Start calling any one of those few girls you have within your reach and save yourself this heartache.

You've said it all, when you said you're 100 percent sure she's with another guy
Unless of course she's underage and hiding your relationship from her family

I know the feeling .Pls let her go don't even stress yourself

crackhaus:
Sorry bros, it's obvious you have been the side bobo all along. No vex.

Start calling any one of those few girls you have within your reach and save yourself this heartache.

Simple as ABC.!

Chimooo.......................



Sorry ehn

Stop hurting yourself guy. Don't conclude yet when you don't have concrete evidence against her. FYI, she is just your girl friend not yet your wife so don't suffocate her.

modernWays:
I see this as a total embarrassment to my personality. Despite having few girls at my reach, i decided to make her my piority, my precious, someone i cant trade for any other thing.

My girl concelled our Val plan at last minutes, telling me she is travelling with her dad to their home town to discuss a family issue which she much be present. I was shocked and confused but said ok "safe journey" as she appologized she would make it up to me when she come back. Later something quickly comes to my mind that it could be all lies, so i rushed back home yesterday to try my trick on her by dalling her no. every 2 min( for where, it switched off). I keeps dalling and also monitoring her present on whatsap, luckly for me she was quickly put on her phone probably to check messages. I message her immediately, and she replies there was no power supply at her home time, so she couldnt charge her phone. But to my greatest surprise, my girl refused to pick my calls and insisted we can only chat, that she dont want their neighbour to hear she was making call. That was around 9:20pm o. I called her no. tired, she refused to pick but only replies me with message. I told her straight up she was with a guy but she denied it.

Please guys, i just need an appropriate punishement to employ at this junction. She just message me now that she was on her way coming back from the said home town.

There was fear and too much explanation in her messages(very unusual of her),so i'm 100% sure she was with a guy.

just free her... av been in ur shoe bfor, or chil make she come back and Bleep the hell out of her just pretend as if nothing happens then Bleep her even fake her some promises later when she reach her home just text her say make she no call you again in her life.

adetoroamos:
just free her... av been in ur shoe bfor, or chil make she come back and Bleep the hell out of her just pretend as if nothing happens then Bleep her even fake her some promises later when she reach her home just text her say make she no call you again in her life.

Baddest, Award Winning Comment Of The Year.

madridguy:
Stop hurting yourself guy. Don't conclude yet when you don't have concrete evidence against her. FYI, she is just your girl friend not yet your wife so don't suffocate her.

Lol.

I'm in the same school of thought with your last sentence until she came up with this shit. It hurt me when someone i really like cheat on me, it make me feel as if 'm not good enough or just clueless. aside the fact that she refused to pick her call, she is been acting extra-ordinary nice on phone since morning, the same issue she would've teared me apart for accusing her wrongly. So she is guity.

Just advise me the mature way i can handle the issue like others commenters are doing sir.

Well, to me relationship is like a bird, you don't hold it too tight so you won't kill it. Think deeply inside your heart and ask yourself if you can continue with her.

modernWays:


Lol.

I'm in the same school of thought with your last sentence until she came up with this shit. It hurt me when someone i really like cheat on me, it make me feel as if 'm not good enough or just clueless. aside the fact that she refused to pick her call, she is been acting extra-ordinary nice on phone since morning, the same issue she would've teared me apart for accusing her wrongly. So she is guity.

Just advise me the mature way i can handle the issue like others commenters are doing sir.

madridguy:
Well, to me relationship is like a bird, you don't hold it too tight so you won't kill it. Think deeply inside your heart and ask yourself if you can continue with her.

He should expect more of this from that girl in future. We all passed through this stage until we met the right ones that were meant for us. He either looks for the right girl for himself or ready to be a sidekick.

Wait bro don't let her go fast...

She was with a guy yes we all know, but u will be foolish to get angry and let her go.

Pretend u believe her lies, then start reducing the love drastically

And bang her more, like a porn star, cum over her face, make her ur slut and LovePeddler, cos thats what she is to the other guy, u are the dull lover boy.

Then look for another decent girl to love up

GUYCODE

modernWays:


Lol.

I'm in the same school of thought with your last sentence until she came up with this shit. It hurt me when someone i really like cheat on me, it make me feel as if 'm not good enough or just clueless. aside the fact that she refused to pick her call, she is been acting extra-ordinary nice on phone since morning, the same issue she would've teared me apart for accusing her wrongly. So she is guity.

Just advise me the mature way i can handle the issue like others commenters are doing sir.

you just need to keep the relationship going to see maybe she cheating on you.use your head

spaggyy:
Wait bro don't let her go fast...

She was with a guy yes we all know, but u will be foolish to get angry and let her go.

Pretend u believe her lies, then start reducing the love drastically

And bang her more, like a porn star, cum over her face, make her ur slut and LovePeddler, cos thats what she is to the other guy, u are the dull lover boy.

Then look for another decent girl to love up

GUYCODE

guy that bad.let him comfort the babe frist before letting het go

madridguy:
Well, to me relationship is like a bird, you don't hold it too tight so you won't kill it

I love this, but it's hard not to hold on tight especially when you love the person.

Is She Underage? if no. She is a cheat

What will you now do when you love someone so much and the person is treating you as option? You need to wake up and look for whom will love you back.

Amazinpeace:
I love this, but it's hard not to hold on tight especially when you love the person.

madridguy:
What will you now do when you love someone so much and the person is treating you as option? You need to wake up and look for whom will love you back.

yea that's true, you have to move on

The greatest mistake men make is that they believe they are the only one going out with their girlfriend,never take a woman or relationship too serious.Do you ask yourself if you are the only one. tthat have slept with her.Stop that unnecessary. protection no matter what you do,a woman that want to cheat or dump you will be,that's their nature.
Play it cool,be slow to anger,don't be too anxious,play along with her without being rash.The strength of one woman is equal to that if five men,you can't beat them in the game.

The greatest mistake men make is that they believe they are the only one going out with their girlfriend,never take a woman or relationship too serious.Do you ask yourself if you are the onl. tthat have slept with her.Stop that unnecessar. protection no matter what you do,a woman that want to cheat or dump you will be,that's their nature.
Play it cool,be slow to anger,don't be too anxious,play along with her without being rash.The strength of one woman is equal to that if five men,you can't beat them in the game.

OP u should be given the Award of the most stalking guy ever... Calling her every 2 mins are you kidding me?

She said it was a family meeting, what if it was actually a family meeting and u were busy disturbing her while her parent was few centimeters away from her?..

You accused her of cheating and she was offering and explanation and you feel it was too much explanation.. if she refused to offer any, u will still say she got nothing to say... what do you really want..?

Please kindly Pay her Bride price and lay claim on her man... not trying to be the devil's advocate but enough of your stalking tendencies.. it will not help you in life.. u will only develop high BP..if u have a reason not to trust your spouse, find a way to break things up so that you can have your sanity back .

Just leave her alone and move on. When you plan revenge, you dig two graves o. Who knows who she slept with on valentines and you want to go and bleep her after to collect your share of disease. If something is not working, let the person know and move on. Never live to hurt anyone. Not worth it in the end.

So you have side girls but you see it as an embarrassment to your personality to be a side boy? Karma at its best. Go and repent instead of thinking about revenge.

Thank God u're 100% sure she was with a guy, pls bro dnt let this weigh u down cuz i broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
For a lady to forfeit dat day for another activity aside u, then u have to run for ur life.





For me, i can't continue with such babe
Man up and let go!
May God give dat strong hrt cuz she doesn't deserve u.

How am i sure is not even my babe u're talking about?

Richy4:
OP u should be given the Award of the most stalking guy ever... Calling her every 2 mins are you kidding me?

She said it was a family meeting, what if it was actually a family meeting and u were busy disturbing her while her parent was few centimeters away from her?..

You accused her of cheating and she was offering and explanation and you feel it was too much explanation.. if she refused to offer any, u will still say she got nothing to say... what do you really want..?

Please kindly Pay her Bride price and lay claim on her man... not trying to be the devil's advocate but enough of your stalking tendencies.. it will not help you in life.. u will only develop high BP..if u have a reason not to trust your spouse, find a way to break things up so that you can have your sanity back .

Stalking? I gat no time stalking a girl bro.

It is like you dont get my initial post, her no. was switched off throughtout that day but she was occassionally login on whatsap during this period. This were one of the reasons i keeps dailling her no. that evening to know if she has something she is hiding by switching off her phone.

Innobee99:
How am i sure is not even my babe u're talking about?

lol, this is the kind of embarrassment i was talking about.

I'm glad you said i deserved a loyal girl.

Mindfulness:
So you have side girls but you see it as an embarrassment to your personality to be a side boy? Karma at its best. Go and repent instead of thinking about revenge.

They are not real/stable girlfriends like her, so dont think any Karma will fall on me.

Already followed someone advise here though.

modernWays:


lol, this is the kind of embarrassment i was talking about.

I'm glad you said i deserved a loyal girl.

Send me ur whatsapp contact let's chat

modernWays:


They are not real/stable girlfriends like her, so dont think any Karma will fall on me.

Already followed someone advise here though.

That's the definition of side chick.
Anyway, you got what you deserve.

You've been had. Thank God the day was a work day, no frightful encounters