paulynpen:




That is the problem! You are a perfect gentleman and she is an imperfect lady that you are helping by marrying her. Man you are not perfect the way she is imperfect. You did not tell us you own weakness that she possibly don't like. Men must be discipline, cut their egos, come down to the level of their wives, treat them like something with flesh and blood, correct them with love when they are wrong, appreciate them when they are right, give them their little respect and space, give them opportunity to realise themselves and live the life they desired as a married woman, women are not slaves, they were not created to live for the man but to live with the man. Irrespective of what folks believes I stand on my findings that 80% of marital problem is traceable to men' ego and lack of empathy
For clarifications sake, I am a man, married with a kid.
Women are not perfect but it will be good if men begin to realise their imperfections and deal with them
Thank you

Seun, please pin this comment on Nairaland front page biko

gypsey:
well..so far that hasn't happend and i have had sex with about 156 women. believe or not

Sir,

Please, I know you’ve been hurt and heartbroken and I can never understand and no one will ever understand or ever feel what you’ve felt... But suicide is not just when you kill yourself immediately.

I can decide to lace my food or drink with poison and destroy my internal organs causing me to die one day but eventually. Cigarettes are a form of slow poisoning.

Sex with multiple partners is also you killing yourself slowly but eventually. No one is willing to hand you a medal for the number of people you’ve slept with not even the porn industry...

You’ve never loved the women in your life and I don’t blame you because you’ve never loved yourself and you still do not love yourself because you do not know yourself and do not understand yourself therefore you cannot give what you do not have...

If you loved yourself, you’d cherish your body and all it has to offer too much to have given it to 156 total stranger that do not care about you!

Find a mirror and take just 5 minutes starring at yourself. Stand stack naked if you want and just dwell on whatever thoughts that comes to mind. Debate those thoughts, play but sides(opposing and supporting)... Take longer if you can. Please give it a try

Thank you

Pipedreams:
Please women learn to control your tongue. Not all men can take insults, manipulation, lies and disgrace. My ex wife annoyed me to the extent that i gave her a hot slap. I have never laid my hands on a woman in my whole life. I am a peaceful and perfect gentle man people admire but I didn't know what pushed me. She continued in her troublesome ways..insulting, disgracing me and demeaning me in all possible ways in front of friends and her people. I just woke up one morning and took a long walk....packed my things, just clothes and left the marriage for good. I am not a rehabilitation specialist for the mentally challenged all in the name of marriage. I deserve a good life!! Please flee from narcissistic and toxic relationships before the devil use you like this story!!

You are just like every other beast out there, they always blame the victim but you are lucky to
be living in a lawless country otherwise, you would have been typing this message behind bars.

Pipedreams:
Please women learn to control your tongue. Not all men can take insults, manipulation, lies and disgrace. My ex wife annoyed me to the extent that i gave her a hot slap. I have never laid my hands on a woman in my whole life. I am a peaceful and perfect gentle man people admire but I didn't know what pushed me. She continued in her troublesome ways..insulting, disgracing me and demeaning me in all possible ways in front of friends and her people. I just woke up one morning and took a long walk....packed my things, just clothes and left the marriage for good. I am not a rehabilitation specialist for the mentally challenged all in the name of marriage. I deserve a good life!! Please flee from narcissistic and toxic relationships before the devil use you like this story!!

Any woman living with you is a living dead, you are not different from this murderer just that your abuse
have not led to death yet. SMH

haywire07:
Cheating can pain ehn

Hope you`d remember to say this if the report says it was the man that cheated?

Pipedreams:
Please women learn to control your tongue. Not all men can take insults, manipulation, lies and disgrace. My ex wife annoyed me to the extent that i gave her a hot slap. I have never laid my hands on a woman in my whole life. I am a peaceful and perfect gentle man people admire but I didn't know what pushed me. She continued in her troublesome ways..insulting, disgracing me and demeaning me in all possible ways in front of friends and her people. I just woke up one morning and took a long walk....packed my things, just clothes and left the marriage for good. I am not a rehabilitation specialist for the mentally challenged all in the name of marriage. I deserve a good life!! Please flee from narcissistic and toxic relationships before the devil use you like this story!!

The wife beaters and monsters are already here. Why not move back to your mother's house since you
apparently can't live with others?
It is this man on front page today, it could be you next time, so take my advice and live alone.

Pipedreams:
Please women learn to control your tongue. Not all men can take insults, manipulation, lies and disgrace. My ex wife annoyed me to the extent that i gave her a hot slap. I have never laid my hands on a woman in my whole life. I am a peaceful and perfect gentle man people admire but I didn't know what pushed me. She continued in her troublesome ways..insulting, disgracing me and demeaning me in all possible ways in front of friends and her people. I just woke up one morning and took a long walk....packed my things, just clothes and left the marriage for good. I am not a rehabilitation specialist for the mentally challenged all in the name of marriage. I deserve a good life!! Please flee from narcissistic and toxic relationships before the devil use you like this story!!

When you were repeating, "for better for worse", you were feeling like a champ then o, bah?

Alariiwo:
Damn!!

The woman must have done something very bad to warrant such inhumane treatment.

RIP to the dead.

You would be surprised she may not have done something as bad to deserve death.

Thoniameek:


Sir,

Please, I know you’ve been hurt and heartbroken and I can never understand and no one will ever understand or ever feel what you’ve felt... But suicide is not just when you kill yourself immediately.

I can decide to lace my food or drink with poison and destroy my internal organs causing me to die one day but eventually. Cigarettes are a form of slow poisoning.

Sex with multiple partners is also you killing yourself slowly but eventually. No one is willing to hand you a medal for the number of people you’ve slept with not even the porn industry...

You’ve never loved the women in your life and I don’t blame you because you’ve never loved yourself and you still do not love yourself because you do not know yourself and do not understand yourself therefore you cannot give what you do not have...

If you loved yourself, you’d cherish your body and all it has to offer too much to have given it to 156 total stranger that do not care about you!

Find a mirror and take just 5 minutes starring at yourself. Stand stack naked if you want and just dwell on whatever thoughts that comes to mind. Debate those thoughts, play but sides(opposing and supporting)... Take longer if you can. Please give it a try

Thank you

cheers! for your Advice, i will give it a try when i am ready. at the moment i am not ready yet. . i like having sex with as many women as possible it's my part time job. cheers!! once again

And you had 110 people endorse this post that clearly blames the victim for the actions of a monster?

It will not be well with all of you

Pipedreams:
Please women learn to control your tongue. Not all men can take insults, manipulation, lies and disgrace. My ex wife annoyed me to the extent that i gave her a hot slap. I have never laid my hands on a woman in my whole life. I am a peaceful and perfect gentle man people admire but I didn't know what pushed me. She continued in her troublesome ways..insulting, disgracing me and demeaning me in all possible ways in front of friends and her people. I just woke up one morning and took a long walk....packed my things, just clothes and left the marriage for good. I am not a rehabilitation specialist for the mentally challenged all in the name of marriage. I deserve a good life!! Please flee from narcissistic and toxic relationships before the devil use you like this story!!

gypsey:
That individual is low self esteemed, lacks in confidence And sounded like A minor, he proberbly has no sisters, so i feel sorry for him. It's wrong for a woman to stab her husband to death just as it's wrong for a man to murder his wife.

lol i just pity any female who has anything to do with him

EgunMogaji:


The Kenyans are passing the baton.

i wonder how we feature on their forums

Very wicked man.

Women should learn to flee any marriage where they are being battered cos you may not live to tell the story
Forget what society will say

gypsey:
cheers! for your Advice, i will give it a try when i am ready. at the moment i am not ready yet. . i like having sex with as many women as possible it's my part time job. cheers!! once again

Lots of mentally unstable men on this forum.

cococandy:
And you had 110 people endorse this post that clearly blames the victim for the actions of a monster?

It will not be well with all of you

Pls i am not blaming the victim madam. I blame the man for not returning her back to her parents and ending the marriage instead of killing her

charain:

Any woman living with you is a living dead, you are not different from this murderer just that your abuse
have not led to death yet. SMH

One big retard spotted

Cadec007:
lol i just pity any female who has anything to do with him

precisely! we can only feel sorry for him

cococandy:
And you had 110 people endorse this post that clearly blames the victim for the actions of a monster?

It will not be well with all of you

Nope. He should have walked away. Some women can be devious. Me slapping my ex wife came as a reflex action. Thats why i saw that i could not cope but to leave than to be tagged a wife beater.

benfluleck:


I can't really waste my time with illiteracy please when you get your Primary School Cert I can come back and advise you Comprende. That means do you understand? in Spanish. If I am stupid then you must be in living in the mental hospital then clearly, as the articles here and the one you are talking about are entirely different, all cases of death are sad no matter what happens human life is expensive. My wife will probably stab you for your mental deficiency first before she dares to ever stab me. . Have a good day and please don't forget to get the nurses at Yaba left to wash you off properly.

****falls off mango tree**** still **laughing** you just made my morning. thank you!
That individual is a Nicompoop!

as long as you are human, there is no telling your reaction some days, something you tolerate today might be unforgiveable tomorrow.
The human body can take a lot of pain so for someone to beat someone to the extent that they lose their life shows that there was a lot of rage and it is criminal regardless of the offense.

How do you beat someone to this extent, you can hear them crying or screaming, begging but your continue to pound them, till they are numb to the pain or pass out.

It is criminal!!

paulynpen:




That is the problem! You are a perfect gentleman and she is an imperfect lady that you are helping by marrying her. Man you are not perfect the way she is imperfect. You did not tell us you own weakness that she possibly don't like. Men must be discipline, cut their egos, come down to the level of their wives, treat them like something with flesh and blood, correct them with love when they are wrong, appreciate them when they are right, give them their little respect and space, give them opportunity to realise themselves and live the life they desired as a married woman, women are not slaves, they were not created to live for the man but to live with the man. Irrespective of what folks believes I stand on my findings that 80% of marital problem is traceable to men' ego and lack of empathy
For clarifications sake, I am a man, married with a kid.
Women are not perfect but it will be good if men begin to realise their imperfections and deal with them
Thank you

Absolutely! women should also do the same to or for their husbands, it's not just one way, there are always two people in a relationship i believe.
otherwise the relationship would not be balanced.
And what worked or works for you in your marriage may not work for another man. i have been married twice and divorced twice. has 2 children from 2 different women (ex wifes) so i know!

gypsey:
well..so far that hasn't happend and i have had sex with about 156 women. believe or not

And me that has had sex with over 1000 women does not mean I shouldn't be rational when I spot a woman who means well. It's not how far or how many but how well.

Decryptor:


And me that has had sex with over 1000 women does not mean I shouldn't be rational when I spot a woman who means well. It's not how far or how many but how well.

well..Good luck to you! you and I are not the same. Ciao!

Alariiwo:
Damn!!

The woman must have done something very bad to warrant such inhumane treatment.

RIP to the dead.

It isn't odd to see people supporting a man who murdered his wife.

Alariiwo:
Damn!!

The woman must have done something very bad to warrant such inhumane treatment.

RIP to the dead.

It isn't odd to see people supporting a man who murdered his wife.

gypsey:
Absolutely! women should also do the same to or for their husbands, it's not just one way, there are always two people in a relationship i believe.
otherwise the relationship would not be balanced.
And what worked or works for you in your marriage may not work for another man. i have been married twice and divorced twice. has 2 children from 2 different women (ex wifes) so i know!

Of u have had 2 divorces, Then bro u need to check ur self.

TarOrfeek:


She said: What can you do. Riff Raff!

He did: What can you say? Corpse!

And then - 77 years imprisonment. -

PrecisionFx:



It isn't odd to see people supporting a man who murdered his wife.




Of u have had 2 divorces, Then bro u need to check ur self.

NO! i don't need to check myself, you see? you just jumped into conclusions that i am the problem, (i am not suggesting that i am perfect) did you bother to ask the reason of the divorces? NO! Anyway, it's just your opinion and i wellcome it. No matter how wrong.

gypsey:
NO! i don't need to check myself, you see? you just jumped into conclusions that i am the problem, (i am not suggesting that i am perfect) did you bother to ask the reason of the divorces? NO! Anyway, it's just your opinion and i wellcome it. No matter how wrong.

Oga ur still a very young man.

U meet 2 women.

U Dated them both.

U Agreed writhing ur self that u can marry Dem.

U Married dem.

U Divorced them after very few years.

THAT SPEAKS VOLUMES.

U have already concluded that they are the problem.

I know ur type man, U are extremely self righteous.

Check ur self man, It won't hurt u and it won't mark u less of a man.

Alariiwo:
Damn!!

The woman must have done something very bad to warrant such inhumane treatment.

RIP to the dead.

Supporting n murderer n justifying murder.

RIP, You did not know that you were marrying your hangman