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This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by AloyEmeka5: 5:18am On May 03, 2010 |
What will you advise her to do in order to retain her husband? This lady wouldn't just leave my husband alone |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by ThoniaSlim(f): 7:59am On May 03, 2010 |
The mistake most ladies make is blaming the Woman involved! No its the Man who wouldn't RESPECT himself and leave her ALONE! If he didn't encourage it, she won't have the guts. So the problem lies with the husband not the WOMAN. So deal with your MAN first! 2 Likes |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by SAGoddess: 8:23am On May 03, 2010 |
ThoniaSlim: Seconded girl, I feel very strongly about this too, the wives always blame the other woman forgetting that their men had a hand in what is happening as well, SMH! IT takes two, not ONE! |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by MissyB1(m): 9:02am On May 03, 2010 |
''At 52, do I fight a girl who could have been my daughter, over a man?'' |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by nethacker(m): 9:34am On May 03, 2010 |
ThoniaSlim:i beg to disagree with the above. Dat u were being chased around by male admirers shouldn't give u the credence to stereotype. We men are different and have different approaches to issues that relate with women. Some men will be so blunt abt it while some will simply disregard it. So pls dnt blame the MAN as if u dnt knw dat some women like u intentionally do dat to destabilize stable homes. |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by chiozor: 9:50am On May 03, 2010 |
why d balme on the man. if the woman say no will the man push her? why can't she respect the feeling of a sister at home and tell the man no! the control measures is on the woman not the man pls |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by nethacker(m): 10:00am On May 03, 2010 |
chiozor:abi oooo. dnt mind thoniaslim abeg |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by SAGoddess: 10:00am On May 03, 2010 |
Why is the husband "quiet" if he had nothing to do with this? He evidently went after the love-peddler, |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by MissyB1(m): 10:07am On May 03, 2010 |
Trust male Chauvinists to be on the defensive, as usual. If the Lady is unaware that the man is married - She's innocent and the man is Guilty. If she's aware, Both of them are Guilty Possibilities: If the man isn't 100% Guilty, he's 50%. The woman is either 50% guilty or innocent. Conclusion : However, In both cases, the man shares in the blame. What say Ye? |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by SAGoddess: 10:10am On May 03, 2010 |
Clearly it is easier to blame the other woman Missy B, for breaking up a HAPPY home! |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by nethacker(m): 10:14am On May 03, 2010 |
SA Goddess:y do u hv to translate his quietness to infidelity? Missy B:^^^ @ ur analysed possibilities, y is d woman not 100% guilty? Wat do u want the man to do ?kill her or disgrace her publicly? r u telling me dat some women r so dumb to understand a simple NO from a man? |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by MissyB1(m): 10:30am On May 03, 2010 |
nethacker:Why would she be even 1% Guilty if she's unaware the man is married? nethacker:Kill and disgrace who, for what reason? nethacker:Whoever said, the woman wooed him and he said 'No'? Did You read the thread at all? |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by nethacker(m): 10:38am On May 03, 2010 |
Missy B:i read d post aunty. i only drew my points from ur analysed possibilities |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by adetoru(f): 10:53am On May 03, 2010 |
THey are both guilty |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by SAGoddess: 10:54am On May 03, 2010 |
adetoru: Not according to the men here, it is ALL Delilah's fault and of course the man is totally innocent |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by nethacker(m): 11:06am On May 03, 2010 |
SA Goddess:we nvr said so.all we said was dat, y must u blame d man solely for wats not his fault?the woman should be blamed too not dat its d man's fault entirely i knw women always want to hv d last say in every argument, watever a man says afterwards is d beginning of another argument |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by chiozor: 11:18am On May 03, 2010 |
my point here is if a man tell a woman i want to f.u,c.k and the woman says no, will there be any intimacy is women that daft that they will always do what a man(not their husband says) then why don't they sleep with all men that whine at them, why the choice man or woman see a good color can admire the good color, the blame is in the doing not in the talking. so if the man tell the woman to jump into lagoon she would immoral is strictly blamed on the woman, WOMAN PLEASE SAY NO I WILL NOT DO AND THE MAN WILL GO, EVEN IF HE PESTER YOU SHOUT, FLEE,REPORT HIM, EMBRASS HIM AND HE WILL GO, DONOT DO IT BECAUSE YOU ARE HURTING ANOTHER SISTER, PERIOD 1 Like |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by MissyB1(m): 11:52am On May 03, 2010 |
chiozor:Werrin this one deh talk? If he wants to Get down and I want same [without the knowledge that he's married], where's the problem? However, knowing he's married and I still proceed to the deal, is where a problem lies. Gerrit? |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by 190: 11:58am On May 03, 2010 |
ThoniaSlim: Ooh lawd, Not again!! |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by chiozor: 12:48pm On May 03, 2010 |
Missy B: ^^^ that is now good to know, at least you have agreed that not that a man is responsible for the action but the woman who wants the action even more you have also proof here that women when they donot want to, there will be no action, so anytime there is action, the woman want it. Thanks Babe for understanding and explantion |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by ThoniaSlim(f): 4:36pm On May 03, 2010 |
@nethacker What has this got to do with me? I gave an opinion and you take it personal. If you disagree with my statement, can't you do it logically without sounding bitter. Or are you one of the numerous admirers I've snobbed? Lol. . .(according to you I've got numerous admirers ,since your jobless enough to keep count for me) Lol. Anyways I stated my opinion, if you got a personal grudge against me or my opinion. Then go jump off a cliff! |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by VGA: 4:53pm On May 03, 2010 |
ThoniaSlim: |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by Blazay(m): 6:12pm On May 03, 2010 |
Marriage is for better for worse. The lady has given your husband something you cannot give him. Please tolerate the situation or move on with your life. All are blessings from God. Sorry o. At 52, you will soon stroke out with man stress. Leave the man alone to enjoy his new found love. Leave the marriage if you can't take it. The man has made his choice. |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by AloyEmeka5: 12:44am On May 04, 2010 |
Missy B: The woman cannot be innocent; she sent him erotic text messages knowing full well he is married. |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by AloyEmeka5: 12:47am On May 04, 2010 |
SA Goddess: The man may be innocent depending on the way you look at it. What if the woman is a stalker? |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by mamagee3(f): 1:22am On May 04, 2010 |
Poster. . . The thread should be rephrased to "My Husband Can't Learn to Pull his Pants Up and Stick to me alone". |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by blakbarbie: 3:56am On May 13, 2010 |
look ppl, its really very simple, you make a vow, stick to it, if you can't stick to one, how bout you not get married, it isnt for everyone. |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by Tattooboy: 5:12am On May 13, 2010 |
mama-gee:Yeah sweetie. |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by binhozie(m): 4:03pm On May 14, 2010 |
Can someone explains how the hell this relates to food thanks! |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by distincty: 11:00am On May 15, 2010 |
Blazay, it written alova u tht u r a furkn muslim & u belive im many wives & i'm also hapy u said marriage is 4 beta & 4 worse, if marriage is 4 beta 4 worse why do man hv to run afta dogs, Man hv to take thier wives d way thy r, 'every second wife is a DESTROYER' |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by agathamari(f): 2:32am On May 17, 2010 |
they are both guilty. before you start sleeping with any guy it is your responsibility to make sure he does not have a wife or girl friend. ignorance is no excuse. the man being in a relationship (married or dating) has no business with another woman period. if he had nothing to do with her but she continued to harass him he is still partially at fault since he could not simply go to his wife and tell her about the woman and ask the wife for assistance in dealing with her. no matter how you slice it they both are equally at fault. |
Re: This Lady Wouldn't Just Leave My Husband Alone by ekyal(f): 3:59pm On May 17, 2010 |
Why would a married man not just stay glued to his wife? Must they have an extramarital affair? our society is such that women dont have the courage to ask a man out. It is usually the man that does the chasing. I advice the woman to deal with her husband first before going after the lady outside. |
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