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I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Nobody: 3:57am On Apr 13, 2018 |
My wife remains a bombshell after 15 years of marriage and 3 kids. I must admit, my libido is high (I wouldn't know how other 41 year olds get-it-on; but me, I'm a..u know). I really bear with so much responsible working class mothers have to do on the daily but as much as I know these things, I still can't help the urge to make love to my woman. The problem is, she's been complaining incessantly and can be distant atimes. Is there something new I need to learn. If you're better experienced in this department I'm definitely in need of your advice. Please respond maturely. Thank you. |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by ikbnice(m): 5:50am On Apr 13, 2018 |
How was her sex drive in the last fifteen years |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by sisisioge: 6:34am On Apr 13, 2018 |
It's awesome that you still have the hots for her...thankfully, she's been taking care of herself. Biko have you been doing the same? Are you still hot? Believe me, I've seen unbelievably hot 49yrs old...anyone would be happy to bunk him anything. Yet, there are some funny looking 40yrs old that we refer to as "elderly". If you are still hot, then you've got to help ease the stress in her life to score more...hopefully, all is well in eden. Cheers. 4 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Chubhie: 8:04am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Simply take a new wife like our ancestors. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Ranchhoddas: 9:47pm On Apr 13, 2018 |
Chubhie:End of discussion? |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Nobody: 4:34am On Apr 14, 2018 |
sisisioge:Thank you. |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Nobody: 4:38am On Apr 14, 2018 |
Chubhie:Taking a new wife goes against my religious beliefs and I'm also of the school of thought that it would not go down well 'to cut my nose to spite my face'. Besides, I can only but love one woman. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Chubhie: 6:34am On Apr 14, 2018 |
doctoradekokolo:Perhaps a day shall come when you elevate above religious constructs or move over to another religion that accommodates the natural and traditional rights of man as encoded by nature and exemplified by our forbearers. wouldn't go down well? Perish the thought cos all things can be controlled and automated with the right structure. It has been shown that a man is more than capable of loving more than one woman and that problems arises the moment he starts living the lie of loving but one woman. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Fundamentalist: 6:49am On Apr 14, 2018 |
Chubhie: People like to live with lies in this our generation in the name of monogamy, A man is polygamous by nature 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Chubhie: 7:00am On Apr 14, 2018 |
Fundamentalist:The results of living such lies are already self evident. Yet, people carry on. I don't understand this. 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Gloriagee(f): 7:32am On Apr 14, 2018 |
Do you help her with household chores? Bearing with working class women is not enough. Go out of your way to make things easier for her. N listen. U mention that she's complaining incessantly. Wats the common denominator in her complaints? Listen without being judgy n see how you can help address the issue (s). Good luck! 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Fundamentalist: 7:45am On Apr 14, 2018 |
Chubhie: Welcome to the 21st century, where people live by lies and yet believe in it . The funny part is that you hear their wives say that its OK for him to have a girlfriends, mistress but no to a second wife. Their so called wives denies their husbands intimacy and love but yt want the man to restrain himself for them always . May be they forgot body no b wood 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by babythug(f): 7:51am On Apr 14, 2018 |
quote author=babythug post=38028079] Here are a few tips that might help you: 1. Try some romance during the day.Send her nice texts. Call her to check on her etc etc 2. Depending on what your work schedule and hers is like, try and ease up some of the chores/ activities she has to attend to in the evenings. Help the children with homework if possible. see how you can help to make dinner preparation easier, this includes plucking ewedu if necessary . 3. The s.ex doesn't have to be immediately you both get into the room. Give her an hour or more to sleep, then you can warm your way in... you can also try early hours of the morning. She may be better rested and more receptive. 4. Buy her nice gifts to show how valuable she is to you. Doesnt have to be expensive. Even recharge card will do 5.Good luck![/quote] 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Nobody: 8:29am On Apr 14, 2018 |
Chubhie:I disagree with you. Thanks for your opinion anyway. |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Nobody: 8:30am On Apr 14, 2018 |
babythug:Hmmm ! Thank you so much. You're the best. |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Fundamentalist: 8:35am On Apr 14, 2018 |
doctoradekokolo: Just tell us you are afraid at how the society will see it I really hate to see people pretend |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Nobody: 9:02am On Apr 14, 2018 |
Fundamentalist: 1 Like
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Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Richy4(m): 4:41pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
If she has been complaining, let her draft a time table for u on which day(s) that suits her.. It will be selfish if you are doing it while she was not enjoying it.. Just talk it out.. The time table might be hilarious but it might help since you were the one that got it really bad.... And it will help you to anticipate any day it was your time |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Nobody: 4:44pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Gloriagee: I don't think choreplay works , though he should help to make things not just easier for her but sane, if she knows the act is because of sex it would seem somehow, then again its possible she's not just attracted to the husband anymore. |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Nobody: 4:45pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Richy4: Time table sex lol that's the sign of detioration, it seems Marriages kills ones libido. |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Gloriagee(f): 6:41pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Except helping your spouse shouldn't be all bout sex but about being each other's helpmeet. He acknowledges her work and domestic schedule is pretty intense. Lil things contribute to building an atmosphere of intimacy. pcguru1: |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Vikky014(f): 7:29pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Fundamentalist:And a woman is what in nature? |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Nobody: 9:10pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Richy4:Time-table !?...guy, I never said anything about being that old. Who draws/negotiates a time-table for sex anyway. Just showing my boo this thread is a problem solver in a way. Some of the response are so hilarious.
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Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Fundamentalist: 9:50pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Vikky014: You think I would waste my precious time with "feminist" Sorry You miss road |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Chubhie: 10:00pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
Vikky014:You tell us. |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Chubhie: 10:01pm On Apr 14, 2018 |
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Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Vikky014(f): 6:29am On Apr 15, 2018 |
Fundamentalist:I'm in katsina. the high rate of divorce here is as a result of new Amaria. they are so many divorcees In the Muslim world. don't sound as if a Muslim woman will be over the moon to share her husband. in ur small mind any girl that counters ur opinion is a feminist. yeye |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Fundamentalist: 12:53pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
Vikky014: While I'm also in south eastern Nigeria, where we have a lot of fatherless babies (bastards), child factories and ritualists who use them to make money Yeye dey smell |
Re: I Need Advice. My Bombshell Of A Wife As Gone Sexually Frigid. by Dyt(f): 6:51pm On Apr 15, 2018 |
Did I read where he's been adviced to try another woman? Nairaland weee not keeeee me Hahahahaha |
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