rikemsmedia:



Pregnancy is 9 months, you're happy your flesh and blood died, yet you call yourself a man.

If you took up even pure water seller job, or laborer for 9 months, if you work just 10 days in a month and earn 1000naira per day of labor, this is 10,000 naira a month, you can provide feeding and save stipends. Why are you like this? I am unhappy with men that can take care of babies, you had 9 months to prepare yet you fumble. I'm looking for a responsible lady so i can start a family, you're rejoicing a baby died. Don't you know that baby will be crying where he/she is and it will lock more doors for you in the future? Use your senses, go and find work, even if it's 20,000naira a month, go and do it. It's the work of a man to provide for his family, you're an infidel who don't want your own progress.You're your own enemy, not Buhari, Jonathan, PDP or APC. You are your own enemy


Even if you bet on Nairabet weekly from the start of the year, just one game, you can win and earn something. You don't work, lose out on opportunities, funnily you guys deceive ladies into marriage and then blame your star, blame your deceased parents, blame the government, infact, you even blame me you don't know for your wiles. If you're old to give woman belle, you no be boy, can't your hands or head function?

gholy292:
I'm 27yrs old I have a wife with 3kids plus a girlfriend with 1kid and also 7months pregnant I'm and earning 30k monthly only God is helping me to take care of them plus I rented a 3bedroom flat of 150k here at Ogun state and school will resume on Monday and I'm to pay their school fees of 28k

Its not easy at all only God is my helper not every man can take care of 2 women with 4kids with a monthly income of 30k and both of the women are not working they stay at home cause no enough money to open shop for them only me house rent school fees feeding and other daily needs

77up:
this is great ! nice one.

Cutehector:
Trust me the most difficult age for a man is when he becomes a family man... Mehn he can't even buy good things for himself anymore.. That's if he is living on an average salary... School fees, clothing's for kids, house rent... Food stuff...

richythePH:
hmmmm


you're right though but personally my difficult age was between 18-21 cos i was so influenced by peer groups to do a lotta bad things



i believe my most difficult age yet would be in my early 30s to infinity cos thats when i intend to get married and as of now i have no clue on how to be a father or family man

gholy292:
I'm 27yrs old I have a wife with 3kids plus a girlfriend with 1kid and also 7months pregnant I'm and earning 30k monthly only God is helping me to take care of them plus I rented a 3bedroom flat of 150k here at Ogun state and school will resume on Monday and I'm to pay their school fees of 28k

Its not easy at all only God is my helper not every man can take care of 2 women with 4kids with a monthly income of 30k and both of the women are not working they stay at home cause no enough money to open shop for them only me house rent school fees feeding and other daily needs

olujastro:

How will God help you when you haven't helped yourself?

When I read stuffs like this I shake my head for Africans. Those who have the money are usually wiser by having just two kids to help them plan well. While those whose income tends towards zero are the ones making unwise decisions by bringing more loads than their shoulders can carry.
When I see how I'm still afraid to start a family for fear of not giving them the best (because Nigerian ladies don't bring much to the table) despite the amount I make a month, and compare it others who choke their lives on peanuts, I just wonder the more.
I guess if you were in my shoes you'll have 40 wives by now.

lestat:
That's in a well planned society which has a better focused and well exposed preseident unlike.buhari

Here the most difficult age for a man is between 17-69

gholy292:
I'm 27yrs old I have a wife with 3kids plus a girlfriend with 1kid and also 7months pregnant I'm and earning 30k monthly only God is helping me to take care of them plus I rented a 3bedroom flat of 150k here at Ogun state and school will resume on Monday and I'm to pay their school fees of 28k

Its not easy at all only God is my helper not every man can take care of 2 women with 4kids with a monthly income of 30k and both of the women are not working they stay at home cause no enough money to open shop for them only me house rent school fees feeding and other daily needs

DonPiiko:
This is very true, I started hustling at 24 I have some money to my name, but I am not happy, I want it all like Pablo, I want to be super rich beyond my wildest dreams. So help me God

Safiaa:
20s.

Our best years, most selfish years, most physically active years, our most physically attractive years, most sociable years. Prime years, the years where the most opportunities will come.

Our most pressurised years, our most disappointing years. The years that determine our future, the years that make the biggest impact, the years that we learn the most about ourselves.

At the end of the day, make the best of your 20s. We may not accomplish all our goals or achieve everything we want, but do the most you can, live your life and most importantly make yourself happy. Comparison is a thief of joy, stay focused. Good luck to everyone in their 20s and hustling.

GrammarNazi1:


"...of a woman's existence..."

"...of woman existence..." It is also grammatically correct to say "of woman existence" when you use the word "woman" to mean "all females collectively."

ameri9ja:


Wrong. Just as "of man existence" is wrong but "of human existence is existence" is correct. "Man" or "woman" are always nouns.
The "..." is clearly superfluous.

sirelexzy:



i am happy you have made money like you said. and you wrote like you are an average person financially and you should be happy cause "there is always gonna be some bigger house than the one you got, always gonna be some fresher clothes than the ones you rock, always gonna be a better car than the one you have got but you are never going to be truly happy till you love yours."

no such thing as a life better than the one you are living at the moment.
always find appreciate the little things you have.

richythePH:
hmmmm


you're right though but personally my difficult age was between 18-21 cos i was so influenced by peer groups to do a lotta bad things



i believe my most difficult age yet would be in my early 30s to infinity cos thats when i intend to get married and as of now i have no clue on how to be a father or family man

greiboy:
God bless the nigga

I am going through every thing he stated now because I am in that age bracket.

I am sometimes totally confused about my own future.

Every decision I take now seems to be very important for my life

I am trying to discover myself In This cruel world of ours

Heavance:
Mr man, go back and check your gender profile again.... you are one of the reasons Buhari is insulting us all.

Heavance:

Mr man, go back and check your gender profile again....
you are one of the reasons Buhari is insulting us all.

scave:
but u are a mother already with ur F status in NL

scave:
but u are a mother already with ur F status in NL

DonPiiko:
This is very true, I started hustling at 24 I have some money to my name, but I am not happy, I want it all like Pablo, I want to be super rich beyond my wildest dreams. So help me God

LegitGirl:


Hermaphrodite?

Dolypson04:
Are you a transgendered?

kinkybunny:


you really are confused about your life, that you chose a female gender.

Newboss:
A woman on Nairaland that dreams of being a father or family man, is that one a human being sef?