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To Break Up Or Not To Break Up: She Wont Let Go Of The Past by Samuelgr8: 8:41am On May 01, 2018
Dear Jzhane,

My girlfriend has serious trust issues. I have tried to accommodate her issues but it looks like this might be the end of our relationship. However,I confided in colleague who thinks that I should be patient and give i more time before making a decision.

I met Anabel last year. She had just ended her four years relationship with a guy who cheated on her. It took a while to convince her that I was real. I liked her alot cos she is very beautiful,kind and homely. Some would consider her wife material,I do too. She is the most responsible girl I ever dated. She prays alot,a very good cook and my folks really like her.


But she wants to know every female around me. If any lady comments that my facebook pictures are fine,she begins to troll them. I have had to sit with her and talked to her several times about her trust issues. When I do,she cries and says its as a result of the hurt she experienced in the past relationship she had. She always promises to work on herself but it looks like she is not working hard enough.

Because of her issues,when I recently chatted with my ex who just wished me happy new month. I didnt even think it would ever be an issue but as usual now,my babe just went off ,demanding.....



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Re: To Break Up Or Not To Break Up: She Wont Let Go Of The Past by fykes(m): 9:12am On May 01, 2018
Dude u r sitting on a keg of gun powder.. She is bitter about something it may not even be d hurt, she is disappointed, maybe still in love with her ex..she will turn u bitter, get confrontational and maybe when u can't handle it , u will hit her. Don't say u can't, I've seen it all before, that is one helluva toxic relationship u got, tell her to shape up or ship off ASAP. And don't let ur heart lead ur head wrongly.
My one kobo!
Re: To Break Up Or Not To Break Up: She Wont Let Go Of The Past by Samuelgr8: 12:16pm On May 01, 2018
fykes:
Dude u r sitting on a keg of gun powder.. She is bitter about something it may not even be d hurt, she is disappointed, maybe still in love with her ex..she will turn u bitter, get confrontational and maybe when u can't handle it , u will hit her. Don't say u can't, I've seen it all before, that is one helluva toxic relationship u got, tell her to shape up or ship off ASAP. And don't let ur heart lead ur head wrongly.
My one kobo!
Re: To Break Up Or Not To Break Up: She Wont Let Go Of The Past by Samuelgr8: 7:31pm On May 01, 2018
Better watch your step b4 venturing in....else....

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