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Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Nobody: 11:11pm On May 24, 2018 |
I got so pissed reading this story! It’s not about him being poor or not, he shouldn’t have ever accepted that offer because problems were bound to manifest!! My point is, it’d have been much better if he was managing with his wife in a one room apartment where he was responsible for taking care of his family. His wife would still respect him and he won’t be indebted to his father in law in any way! kingkakaone: 3 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by koolaid87: 11:13pm On May 24, 2018 |
I'm a lazy youth. Ain't reading your epistle but from the topic, i conclude. If your said father-in-law is paying your rent, then you should accept whatever comes to you thereafter. Get your sh1t together and get your own fuuckin place |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Wealthycharles(m): 11:13pm On May 24, 2018 |
No need to share blames. My candid advise is for u to devise a means of raising good sum of money from ur inlaw (maybe thru ur wife) and invest. Disabuse ur mind from job hunting and start thinking investment. Salary is never a cure for poverty, it's only a medicine to manage poverty. Only investment cures poverty for life. Begin to use ur first class brain to think investment.... U may start small. At this point bro, put pride aside. U can meek some funds from them and buy ursef a brand new Keke maruwa (640k) and hit the road. U can be saving 20k weekly and 80k monthly while still meeting ur domestic need since u won't have to worry about rent for 3years. In 10months, u must have bought it self another brand new Keke and put it up for hire purchase at 1m+ while the old one is still working. U can also choose to be saving it weekly savings in a mutual fund account (Stanbic into is the best) in this way it saving will grow fast with good profit. At ur spare time at night ur can engage in other online biz just like me. I yell u before u know ur financial status will change even without a so called corporate salary job. Open up ur horizon. Opportunities are bound. Ur in-laws love their daughter so much, as a sharp guy u suppose don gather good bar to establish ur self. Who knows, ur inlaw may be looking out for that investor instincts in u. 7 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by odayofunmi: 11:14pm On May 24, 2018 |
Brother, you need prayer especially against slavery. Dont be surprised to know that your glory might be fetching more morning for your father in law. Your wife will surely be guilty of it, its better you get into real prayers and try to encourage her do the same. Yoruba Will Say Isale Oro Legbin. 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Delonn(m): 11:14pm On May 24, 2018 |
winningwinner: Marriage is for matured minds and not kids. Sincerely, you had no business getting married in the first place. Is it that you were so naive, stupid or you are just a typical gold digger? Love shouldn't be the only reason for one to get married, no one eats love. You stupidly resigned your job, because your girlfriend said so, you have been so stupid from the onset, your wife has always make decisions even before she married you, can't you see she actually married you? Her father picked up all your marriage bills and you were so excited. They actually paid for their own daughter's bride price and you want to call yourself a man. Little boy, please go get a job and stop this rubbish already. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by odayofunmi: 11:14pm On May 24, 2018 |
Brother, you need prayer especially against slavery. Dont be surprised to know that your glory might be fetching more money for your father in law. Your wife will surely be guilty of it, its better you get into real prayers and try to encourage her do the same. Yoruba Will Say Isale Oro Legbin. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by bleskid: 11:15pm On May 24, 2018 |
Cutehector:GOD bless you .. . twale my guy 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Robocop49ja: 11:20pm On May 24, 2018 |
OrestesDante: My bro, I support dis idea... Be THE MAN... |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by CarlosTheJackal: 11:23pm On May 24, 2018 |
Take all the advice here then use it to make the best decision for yourself |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by nwank85(f): 11:25pm On May 24, 2018 |
The deed has been done. I can imagine what you are going through right now. Yesterday is a lesson and tomorrow is an opportunity, I will only advise you to gather the little money you have and start something, no matter how small and at the same time, you find yourself a job. Be prayerful and think outside the box, everything you are passing through will soon be a history. Remember: Tough times never last but tough people do! |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by dratine(m): 11:26pm On May 24, 2018 |
You are a fool 2 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Nobody: 11:27pm On May 24, 2018 |
KillaBeauty:The deed has been done, what he needs now is advice. He needs advice so he can help himself. Let's make his mindset OK and clear so he can make things work well for him. Like I said before, people make mistakes. 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by kazyhm(m): 11:29pm On May 24, 2018 |
KillaBeauty: you opinion shows you dont understand how people with enough money thinks............ What does the guy do all days, all through the months ? i'm very upset with this guy 2 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Mikeross62: 11:30pm On May 24, 2018 |
The deed has been done,you caused every thing but you need to man up and take control of your home Buy from eBay and amazon,check my siggy below |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by zinaunreal(m): 11:31pm On May 24, 2018 |
They now own you bros. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by jaxxy(m): 11:32pm On May 24, 2018 |
winningwinner: U made sm big mistakes bt u can still remedy the situation. Its not a crime to get favors from ur inlaw bt there must be a boundary u don't cross. U shud hv handled the wedding urself or partly to show ure prepared to run ur home its the 1st step. Never take favors from people till u know their mindset and disposition. There are sm people u shudnt even take favors from at all. U hve to put ur feet down and talk 2 ur wife, let her know u can't tolerate the situation and ur definitely not happy with the way things are going, also u want to reduce her dads involvementin ur family affairs, it maybe difficult cos this man has done so much for u guys(wedding and rent bills) bt the truth is if u don't like smtn u must say so and address it with sm actions dats if u still have any balls left. Also get a job or smtn to do, u have a first class it can't be dat hard and talk to ur wife about the new steps u want to take so things go well between u 2. She will inturn talk 2 her dad and make things rite if she values u. If not ur will hv to move to plan b... bt i hope it wont get to dat stage. Cheers |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by linearity: 11:33pm On May 24, 2018 |
EliteBiz: Which family is he a head of? The one bought and paid for by his father Inlaw or are you talking of another one? He that pays the piper calls the tune...he can never be the head of anything as long as someone else pays the bill. 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by InvertedHammer: 11:36pm On May 24, 2018 |
I didn't understand the question. So... Do you want the man to be paying while you make all the decisions? He who pays the piper determines the tune. . 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by jaxxy(m): 11:39pm On May 24, 2018 |
KillaBeauty: Sm people with money love to control, especially when they see u are weak and naive they cash in on that and pull all ur strings, b4 u know it ure their puppet bt for sm its pure love however Its up to u so set the boundaries and know exactly wat u want. They will either cooperate or backdown. The guy wasn't observant or smart bt everybody learns and he's learning now. Nothing as bad as a disrespectful wife. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by davspog2(m): 11:39pm On May 24, 2018 |
I'm so sorry bro, you already missed LAW 40, despise free lunch, so as to be from gratitude,deceit and guilt. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by pheonixdld2(m): 11:43pm On May 24, 2018 |
Hmmmm! You need to first seriously get a job. While you at it, save up. Your wife loves you, the fact that she has not started insulting you says so. Its just that value has reduced in her eyes and I won't also blame her dad, he definitely might be tired of fending for his immediate family and yours. Respect yourself MAN and start fending for your family. You should not cut off her father assistance suddenly, just be able to foot some basic bills( your child school fees, feeding, utility bills)and upgrade from there. My point is: let her see your effort, affirm to her you are the man with actions. You cant be the man of the house when another man is catering and paying the bills. 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by owomida1: 11:43pm On May 24, 2018 |
marvelli: God bless your sense. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Sarkin: 11:47pm On May 24, 2018 |
OP. GOD BLESS YOU... I COULD HAVE ASSISTED YOU WITH 5 MILLION RN BUT I DON'T HAVE. MAY ALLAH THE PROVIDER HELP YOU AND YOUR FAMILY... EVERYTHING SHALL GO YOUR WAY. SAY "AMIN" TO THIS PRAYER MY BROTHER, ALL IS WELL |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Innov8ve1: 11:49pm On May 24, 2018 |
this guy fvck up gann o, how will you quit your job for a girl? like seriously, oboi there is nothing you can do unless you get a good job, start paying your own rent in a house you can afford to live in |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by oshomoshi: 11:52pm On May 24, 2018 |
Get something doing too |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Nobody: 11:55pm On May 24, 2018 |
Mr. Man, you better keep calm unless you wanna go back to the village. But truthfully speaking, your dad in law thinks he's helping out since the man of the home is like another woman. Get up and look for job. The moment you start acting like a man financially, the old man will let you guys be. To me, I think he doesn't mean bad. 2 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by AlexJustin(m): 11:57pm On May 24, 2018 |
leaving your home won't solve anything but worsen the case instead. you just have to man up, look for something to do. it don't have to be a white collar job, you can start a business with the little money you have. above all commit it in God's hands 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by rayobaba(m): 11:59pm On May 24, 2018 |
How come you asking us question at the end of Ur story! U messed up big time. No matter how u love a girl and no matter how her dad rich, u are not suppose to resign before or after marriage. Guy, two things u shd start doing now paying Ur rent and feeding d family. These two are wat makes man a man. The price u wl pay now for Ur wrong decisions is to go hustle for job. I can't allow rich father in law service half of these Ur responsibilities he's servicing. Forget respect, u lost it d day u resigned. Just be patient in starting afresh. One step at a time. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by chronique(m): 12:06am On May 25, 2018 |
winningwinner: For now,you need to fucking shut up your mouth and not say anything. When you get a decent job and your balls have started growing, then you say something. 2 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by EverestdeBliu(m): 12:07am On May 25, 2018 |
winningwinner:Nigga you lost it when you resigned your job because of a girl's whining. A girl you were not yet married to? Pathetic. Bro you need to get a job and be back on your feet without your in-laws assistance; only then can you regain your voice as a man. Note that, should your in-laws go ahead to get you a job, you would still be subjected under their dictates...So man up, and get back on your feet by yourself. Or else, stop complaining. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by stonemasonn: 12:14am On May 25, 2018 |
enabledgoddess:Chai you guys should give the guy a break nah.. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by dozymars(m): 12:15am On May 25, 2018 |
Firstly, why haven't you learnt how to summarize. Secondly, get a job and ensure you summarize your cv. |
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