it happens to be my friend who always to stand firm in their family as the breadwinner of the Family, he lives in Minna Niger State, Although they were four in Family all married with children but his brothers have set back on their business, though one have die leaving his own family. so everytime this friends of me always have phone calls, neither from hiis mother, his brothers, or his late brother family only requesting about money and also his own family to care about.

These want to result some set back in his own business as he refuse to answer them again about money, please he needs your advice whether to focus on solving the problem a whole extended family problem alone or not.

please adivice him what to do especially his old aged mother and late brother's family.

your advice will save a soul

He should set up is mom with any amount he could afford. Else if he continues sending money monthly etc he'll be drained out. Setup wife, and mom with any amount , and only give money to siblings in school . , lazy ass ones dont get a dime

Advise him to help as much as he can but give his own family a priority. He should consider his own family first, then his aged mother, any leftover for extended family. Let him try to setup petty businesses for the extended family if he can for them to be independent.