Amarabae:

Let me advise you.
Sex is good in marriage but overdoing it look odd and tiring.
For some women, 3 times a week is too much,
While for some, it's okay
What she is trying to tell you is "sweetheart it's not everytime there will be a penetration, we can do some pre-intimacy and romance each other and have fun.
It can be a good Mouth Action and then you both sleep without any penetration(if she likes Mouth Action)
You can give her a good head and you both sleep.
It must not end in penetration.
Too much full penetration sex will make both of you burn out and get tired of each other, and the thoughts of cheating will come in.
Give penetration sex some time gap so that you both can be refreshed and hungry for it again.
.
Oriaku Amara

ecgreb:
Good morning nairalanders. I have been married to my wife for more than 10 years now and we have beautiful kids. She was the first and only woman I have ever had sex with. Averagely, we have sex 3 times weekly and it has always been fun. I ensure that I carryout my manly responsibilities by providing for the family and trying to make everyone happy. Few days ago, she decline my sexual advances. Later, I ask to know why she did that and she told me that I love sex too much. I was embarrassed. She sleeps nowadays in the children room or in the parlour just to avoid me though she refuses to accept that truth. Please I wish to know ideally how many times couples here have sex with their partners weekly and how I can control my sex cravings towards her. I just wish I can stay away from having sex with her even for two months.

RiyadhGoddess:






Once a week is fine for me. I'm not a sex person. He will understand that. More of fore play is cool for me. I won't even marry a man that loves sex in the first instance.

ekanempatrick28:
GOD will forever bless u. U deserve a carton of Beer

Amarabae:

Let me advise you.
Sex is good in marriage but overdoing it look odd and tiring.
For some women, 3 times a week is too much,
While for some, it's okay
What she is trying to tell you is "sweetheart it's not everytime there will be a penetration, we can do some pre-intimacy and romance each other and have fun.
It can be a good Mouth Action and then you both sleep without any penetration(if she likes Mouth Action)
You can give her a good head and you both sleep.
It must not end in penetration.
Too much full penetration sex will make both of you burn out and get tired of each other, and the thoughts of cheating will come in.
Give penetration sex some time gap so that you both can be refreshed and hungry for it again.
.
Oriaku Amara

badjack:
My brother, your wife must have been discussing with her friends. They must have been comparing husbands and sex life. Tell her that she knows you all these while and should not compare your marriage to any other. I do make love with my wife up to five times a week. She knows that. Don't kill people pikin ooo because your pricko no de rest. Haba.

Avedonn:
Women naturally lose interest in sex after a long duration of marriage. Give Her some time off it or go on vacation with her and the kids to reignite her feelings towards you.

Remember no matter how sweet marriage is, it gets boring if you don't take some necessary steps to revamped it which often leads to cheating.

SlayQueenSlayer:


Guy, I hope you get to marry her o. If not ehh, una don't cheat her husband finish o.

nwaanambra1:



as u fine reach like this na him u dey talk this kain yeye talk say u no like sex!



my dear you should prepare your mind to the fact that your hubby should be lashing you at least 7 times a week - that is on compassionate ground!


if you are lucky enough to marry a man like me - looking at your face will be giving me a boner every time and i will be lashin you like two times a day - one for breakfast and one for dinner - pre-intimacy will come only whn u r on your period and i think four or 5 days break for your period is quite good enough in all ramification.

as i dey look your profile pic self fuk don dey hungry me - and na to pour some clean thick akamu on top that ur golden teeth and that your fresh lips be the koko! i go love see how you go take lick am all and swallow the hot onitsha akamu!

Greenbullet:
This man self, don't you know that when women start bearing children, their sexual urge fades , what you need to do now is to get a small good girl that can be servicing you in your free time so that your wife can rest, it's not cheating, your wife has chosen to delegate her duty of satisfying you !

Lloydfather:
sence will not kill u.
Your advice were classic hope he understand.

ecgreb:
Good morning nairalanders. I have been married to my wife for more than 10 years now and we have beautiful kids. She was the first and only woman I have ever had sex with. Averagely, we have sex 3 times weekly and it has always been fun. I ensure that I carryout my manly responsibilities by providing for the family and trying to make everyone happy. Few days ago, she decline my sexual advances. Later, I ask to know why she did that and she told me that I love sex too much. I was embarrassed. She sleeps nowadays in the children room or in the parlour just to avoid me though she refuses to accept that truth. Please I wish to know ideally how many times couples here have sex with their partners weekly and how I can control my sex cravings towards her. I just wish I can stay away from having sex with her even for two months.

C*U*M

love2love:


**Too much full penetration sex will make both of you burn out and get tired of each other, and the thoughts of cheating will come in. **

Do you have statistics to prove this Cos what I have observed is wifes quoting this particular sentence as reason to avoid sex. I hope we are not the ones creating the problem be circulating unproven theories.

sisisioge:


Chai! After a decade long! I think you guys are cute .

Be warned future hubby, don't run away from me...it's just seix

IamPatriotic:



my point

Amarabae:

Let me advise you.
Sex is good in marriage but overdoing it look odd and tiring.
For some women, 3 times a week is too much,
While for some, it's okay
What she is trying to tell you is "sweetheart it's not everytime there will be a penetration, we can do some pre-intimacy and romance each other and have fun.
It can be a good Mouth Action and then you both sleep without any penetration(if she likes Mouth Action)
You can give her a good head and you both sleep.
It must not end in penetration.
Too much full penetration sex will make both of you burn out and get tired of each other, and the thoughts of cheating will come in.
Give penetration sex some time gap so that you both can be refreshed and hungry for it again.
.
Oriaku Amara

RiyadhGoddess:





Awusubillahi

Speakdatruth:

That's the point. Even the poster is very dumb if 3 times a week at random is considered craving or too much for sex. We've seen the situation the other way round, that it will be the wife craving for sex all the time. Will the man run away? They would only work it out and there are ways to do that. Anyone can be sexually active in marriage but it's not in the jurisdiction of the wife to deny her husband of her body. Nothing is an excuse for that.

Amarabae:

Let me advise you.
Sex is good in marriage but overdoing it look odd and tiring.
For some women, 3 times a week is too much,
While for some, it's okay
What she is trying to tell you is "sweetheart it's not everytime there will be a penetration, we can do some pre-intimacy and romance each other and have fun.
It can be a good Mouth Action and then you both sleep without any penetration(if she likes Mouth Action)
You can give her a good head and you both sleep.
It must not end in penetration.
Too much full penetration sex will make both of you burn out and get tired of each other, and the thoughts of cheating will come in.
Give penetration sex some time gap so that you both can be refreshed and hungry for it again.
.
Oriaku Amara

Amarabae:

Let me advise you.
Sex is good in marriage but overdoing it look odd and tiring.
For some women, 3 times a week is too much,
While for some, it's okay
What she is trying to tell you is "sweetheart it's not everytime there will be a penetration, we can do some pre-intimacy and romance each other and have fun.
It can be a good Mouth Action and then you both sleep without any penetration(if she likes Mouth Action)
You can give her a good head and you both sleep.
It must not end in penetration.
Too much full penetration sex will make both of you burn out and get tired of each other, and the thoughts of cheating will come in.
Give penetration sex some time gap so that you both can be refreshed and hungry for it again.
.
Oriaku Amara

CorGier:
Hey enough of that nonsense all of you. The onus ain't on him to fix her. Funny enough sex is one of the motivating factors why most of you ímbeciles choose to put a ring on it in the first place, and what do we have here? An entitled bítch not only denying him his matrimonial rights but shaming him in the process.
These are the same lot who con men into walking them down the aisle should they want full unrestricted access to the puss.
If it's the general norm for women to loose interest in sex as they approach menopause or something, what plans has she put in place to ensure his sexual needs are met? Who else is he supposed to run to if not her?

I hate this.

These are two people who should have bonded by now, nothing else in the world should matter to them than their collective happiness.
Like really why do we even bother, I mean what's the point of all this marriage nonsense if after ten whole years of investment and sacrifice, it all comes down to this fúckery. I admire most of you with the level of shít you to put up with. I dare you that dear wifey to pull that stunt on me, there ain't even gon be a kids room for yo arse to run to.

sinola:

Amarabae,your explanation is explicit and top notch.....how can someone be f**king his wife three times every week...nawaooo

Quality20:
ur wife is probably I n her late 30s or more. Many older women ain't sexy cos of loss of estrogen hormone, reduce ur sex tns to once in a month or marry a younger less educated sexy girl as second wife

omooba969:


@bolded,

What kind of advice is this?

Baffupdrizz:
Disregard every other pieces of mis-advice and take this one first:

• What you are having is called a dead bedroom situation. In reality, it's not as if the "sex is too much" as your wife says, the sex WITH YOU is too much.

• It might break your heart to hear from me that your wife no longer finds you sexually attractive as you used to be, and merely providing for her doesn't get her wet.

• You are headed down a path of total disconnection with your wife, in fact, it will get worse if you continue to pester her about the issue as she will find you irritating and desperate.

RECOMMENDATIONS:

1. Start Lifting, and pick up a new hobby that develops your physical well-being.

2. Send me a pm

3. Pay me for my services as it is not free of charge.