RiyadhGoddess:
Op I saw now that some mofos are already insinuating that your wife is already cheating on you that's the reason for her sudden withdrawal from sex. Op please disregard these silly advice. Remember that most of this people giving you advice on nairaland don't even have a home in the first place. Many are not married or they are married but are not happy. Don't let a won da bi mo se da (enemies of joy or good things) put words into your head o. Like I said, sex 3 times a week is much. Once a week is cool and the rest can be pre-intimacy. Find out from her what the problem is please. God will not destroy your home o insha Allah

RiyadhGoddess:






Jisos!

omooba969:


@bolded,

I try to imagine the battles you often face (in those moments) in his absence. You're missing in action while you're still young and full of energy.

By now, you're probably sexually relegated.

UyaiIncomparabl:

ecgreb:
Good morning nairalanders. I have been married to my wife for more than 10 years now and we have beautiful kids. She was the first and only woman I have ever had sex with. Averagely, we have sex 3 times weekly and it has always been fun. I ensure that I carryout my manly responsibilities by providing for the family and trying to make everyone happy. Few days ago, she decline my sexual advances. Later, I ask to know why she did that and she told me that I love sex too much. I was embarrassed. She sleeps nowadays in the children room or in the parlour just to avoid me though she refuses to accept that truth. Please I wish to know ideally how many times couples here have sex with their partners weekly and how I can control my sex cravings towards her. I just wish I can stay away from having sex with her even for two months.

tunjidayo:
dat is how women are wired to be.is just like a law of diminishing return,she will gradually continue to reduce the nos of times she want sex and it has noting to do wit infidelity.my wife thus dat too,before i got married i was hapi i got a partner of desame or even hire libido than i do becos she do initiate sex even more dan i do.but now in marriage we are cool too but i noticed dat am always craving for sex more dan her.i was like is dis not thesame person dat can give me pleasure at any contact before?now is either once in a week or even in two weeks

oshe11:
Lolz.....

Just 3 times a WEEK?


I was giving my girl twice on a daily basis back then in school



Maybe you are no longer satisfying her, like after first round you just go flaccid. So to her, sex is more like a chore to satisfy you and something she no longer enjoys


But ask her sha, na she dey wear the shoes and obviously knows wear it hurts

queenfav:
lol.. Am not o. Before getting married, i was able to do without it for months..So it's not a big deal to me.

Amarabae:

Let me advise you.
Sex is good in marriage but overdoing it look odd and tiring.
For some women, 3 times a week is too much,
While for some, it's okay
What she is trying to tell you is "sweetheart it's not everytime there will be a penetration, we can do some pre-intimacy and romance each other and have fun.
It can be a good Mouth Action and then you both sleep without any penetration(if she likes Mouth Action)
You can give her a good head and you both sleep.
It must not end in penetration.
Too much full penetration sex will make both of you burn out and get tired of each other, and the thoughts of cheating will come in.
Give penetration sex some time gap so that you both can be refreshed and hungry for it again.
.
Oriaku Amara

Seenyo:
from personal experience, my 1st suspect is

FOUL PLAY!... an ex or a better John Thomas

is probably in the picture!


other factors (hormonal changes, monotony, etc) are SECONDARY.

omooba969:

Over-sharp dey worry you bro.

Amarabae:

Let me advise you.
Sex is good in marriage but overdoing it look odd and tiring.
For some women, 3 times a week is too much,
While for some, it's okay
What she is trying to tell you is "sweetheart it's not everytime there will be a penetration, we can do some pre-intimacy and romance each other and have fun.
It can be a good Mouth Action and then you both sleep without any penetration(if she likes Mouth Action)
You can give her a good head and you both sleep.
It must not end in penetration.
Too much full penetration sex will make both of you burn out and get tired of each other, and the thoughts of cheating will come in.
Give penetration sex some time gap so that you both can be refreshed and hungry for it again.
.
Oriaku Amara

Simplep:
U tink every man is like u?,i beleive d op die

Groovenaija360:
3times a week is very small bro

It Shud be at least once per day.

But always respect her when she says no.

Something is wrong some where, try and find out.

I recommend 5times a week.

And not just in bedroom but everywhere, bathroom, kitchen, parlor

SlayQueenSlayer:


Guy, I hope you get to marry her o. If not ehh, una don't cheat her husband finish o.

Medunah:

How many years marriage?

Powerexpert:
are you married?

omooba969:


What's the difference between 'having sex' & 'making love'?

Having sex means you cum before her and lazy off. Making love means she cums multiple times before you cum. Sense will not kill me one day

Josh44s:


No, he is a widower. Be there asking foolish question.

NokiaN8:
she is seeing another man.. from experience... watch her steps... maybe her ex called her a d they having a nice time at ur back... or smthing with a neighbor...

ecgreb:
Good morning nairalanders. I have been married to my wife for more than 10 years now and we have beautiful kids. She was the first and only woman I have ever had sex with. Averagely, we have sex 3 times weekly and it has always been fun. I ensure that I carryout my manly responsibilities by providing for the family and trying to make everyone happy. Few days ago, she decline my sexual advances. Later, I ask to know why she did that and she told me that I love sex too much. I was embarrassed. She sleeps nowadays in the children room or in the parlour just to avoid me though she refuses to accept that truth. Please I wish to know ideally how many times couples here have sex with their partners weekly and how I can control my sex cravings towards her. I just wish I can stay away from having sex with her even for two months.

CriticMaestro:
Extraordinary lie....after 10years of marriage you still have the urge to have sex with the same woman three times a week? So you must have had sex more than 1500 times over the years...what you deserve some accolades for that extraordinary lie

RiyadhGoddess:





I'm not married

RiyadhGoddess:





I'm not married