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Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by abescom: 8:20pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
sanpipita:Stop trying to justify your error. Just admit it. If it was the case she would have said it. And she said other places, she is lying. End off. |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by eyinjuege: 8:23pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
This is 2018. Any woman still waiting for a man to make certain decisions for her is on a long thing. Of course a wise person weighs every advice given by others. But the ultimate decision should lie with you. Nobody can love you like you love yourself. Take control of your life. Of course, as with everything in life, we are allowed to make mistakes. Own your mistakes and learn from them. It's another experience under your cap. We can also learn from the mistakes of others. Be fair in your dealings, learn to use that sense you have even though it's not as common as we think |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by BabaO2: 8:29pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
dealslip:yes, you know nothing. Land in question is not Lekki phase1, even Lekki phase1 that was allocated to ur parent was not at 350K, it was way back in the 80s and how much is Lekki phase1 now? She probably was talking of a land bought in 2000s, that was the price at that time but she needs to be bold enough to mention location before I reveal the current price. |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by sanpipita(m): 8:31pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
abescom: My error? whether she lied isnt on me, im not responsible for whatever she said, my opinion is from my personal experience not hers, if you noticed I gave you pointers too. |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by frozen70(f): 8:31pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
ClassRep001: Keep deceiving yourself na you go tire |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by Nobody: 8:32pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Mklancee:have seen 300k to 18 million, but this girl own na lie. 1 Like |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by abescom: 8:34pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
sanpipita:no land bought for 350k is worth 150m in less than 30 years. And that's me being generous. 1 Like |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Women are to only submit to men with wisdom and not men without common sense 2 Likes |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by feelmeTy: 8:45pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
SMART PARENTS AND FOOLISH DAUGHTER, THIS ONE DON TURN POTENTIAL DIVORCÉE OOO
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Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by Reference(m): 8:46pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
But how come the dad even knew about the land purchase in the first place. Did she require his assistance or what because I cannot understand what concerns the husband's investment decisions with the wife and vise-versa. I want to think there is more to this story and more likely it involves the broader family, perhaps the 'sacrificial aspects of investments' which should be the only corporate decisions between both parties. My mum bought, rented and leased at various times to further her business interests without issues with my dad whatsoever. No one ordinarily opposes this. The problem usually comes when mixing business with the pleasures of family life. For instance the woman buys a land to move the family without a lot of considerations can cause problems but as an investment, no. The average man will be pleased his wife is moving up, just like a man from humble backgrounds pleased his wife for instance opens a bank account for the first time. ..... or folks, am I missing something here because this sounds so strange to me. I mean there are women who inherit estates thoughtless of an ordinary plot of land and my kids male and/or female will be entitled to property I have.... will that be a problem to their future spouses....I don't get it. ..... or am I misunderstanding something here. |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by gabazin080(m): 8:51pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
PROPHETmichael:na me and you dey play am? |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by HARDDON: 8:54pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
All I picked from that is a fam in discord. A fam that dont seem to reason together and blend ideas. One wants to Lord it, the other wants to will it. A "man" and "woman" living under same roof and competing with each other instead of complimenting each other. Sowing the seed of MY OWN not OUR OWN. An empowered woman with the will of steel. Say all you want, ama do me A weak man that thinks all it takes is shouting. Wisdom thumps Muscles anyway, ask africa A lost daughter with wrong ideas about the institution of marriage Im not impressed. |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by henryhemon(m): 8:58pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
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Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by Oceannaagent: 9:09pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
tballeyy:I don't know where you reside but there are areas that don't need govt infrastructure for them to develop. Instance is ugwuaji in Enugu. Before what it is today, that area is forest. |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by chinene1(f): 9:10pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
ClassRep001: Truly amazing! It's unfortunate but this will get more quotes than comments which make sense. Oh well, this is nairaland. |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by Oceannaagent: 9:17pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
mysticvibe12:check my profile for an investment opportunity which will be of benefit to you. |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by NdiaraIGBO: 9:20pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
eyinjuege: This is why the ridiculous idea of ownership of another human being (husband owning wife and vice versa) must stop. And loving another human being more than you love yourself is another no-brainer. I set my own wife free and that way I am also free too |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by hakeem4(m): 9:33pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
stubbornman:lol |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by DavidEsq(m): 9:39pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
momove4real25:This one thick o! See wrapper wey dis story tie. Chei! Some men dey mess up sha. |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by missyblissy: 9:45pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
ClassRep001: Really? E be like say you smoke beans when you write this garbage. I pity the lady that ends up with you. . So your wife cannot breath without your permission too. Smh Your thinking is so myopic geez. Marriage is companionship not dictatorship. 1 Like |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by Eagba(m): 9:51pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
magicminister:i don't support beating a woman, but guy you nor try. You didn't give him the honour of defending himself in a one on one duel (maybe till death). What you did was assault. Well, what do i know? You're an african |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by tballeyy(m): 9:56pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Oceannaagent:Lagos |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by amosadamu: 10:00pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
I concur with everything she said. As it happened to me too. My dad came back to Nigeria from the UK in the early 70s after studying and working in the UK for 16years, he worked with John Holt for a few years, with the money he came back with and money he made while working, he and his friends that studied together decided to buy lands and build houses close to each other. My dad bought one acre of land in surulere, Ijesha to be precise. The Lagos state government took the land as they built ijesha grammar school (the school is still there till date). My dad took the Lagos state government to court, he won, and he was offered one acre of land in the current magodo in 1976. He said then "in 100 years magodo would still be a village, I would never accept it". My mum tried her best, but he wouldn't listen Was going through his stuff few months ago and I saw all the court documents, land documents.. |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by magicminister: 10:06pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Eagba: Loool.... I did him a Favour. The other alternative was to do things that would leave him a permanent reminder for the rest of his life... all I am saying is don’t run around beating other people’s children cos u don’t know the outcome... |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by ewawumi(f): 10:07pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
ClassRep001:brother, who your over serious marriage epp? abegi, so we should fry sand now because you have grown up to be one hell of a misogynist? #getsense #ewugambia |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by JandyJ(m): 10:25pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
Where's this world going to? All discussions both private are now being published to social media. May God save us |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by dealslip(f): 10:26pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
BabaO2:So where is the location of the place since you know more than the person involved. You said she is probably talking about the 2000. You are just doing guess work and presenting as facts.that is so unintelligent of you. I just told you that land in Lekki was allocated at 7k in the 80s. What are you still arguing about. Honestly if you are asking me the worth of land in Lekki Phase 1 now,, then you don't even know what you are typing.Too much sentiments obliterates common sense. The least you can buy 1000 square metres in Lekki Phase 1 now is 150million. If you contest this figure then I know for sure you don't even live in Lagos. |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by Respect55(m): 10:26pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
highqueen:U can still drive home ur point without using abusive words. Thanks |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by Surrey2Bimshire: 10:27pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
bionixs: ?? |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by Respect55(m): 10:28pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
JupiterGeekVII:Clap for yourself. Women have really bn awesome in decision making starting from eve in the garden of eden |
Re: Woman Disobeys Her Husband to Buy Land of 350k Yrs later See what happened to it by BabaO2: 10:41pm On Jun 24, 2018 |
dealslip:i don't need to argue with u, u have no common sense, you are too gullible for flashy things 1 Like |
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