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Top 8 Reasons WHY WOMEN CHEAT by Aj2(m): 2:04pm On Jul 13, 2018
Do you know that women now have a secret website where they go to look for secret lover?

They also have secret socia media groups where they hangout to post their nude pictures in order to attract men to hook up with them and plan a date secretly

What exactly make married women to be cheating; you are going to find out the major reasons why women result to cheating on their husband

Read to the end to find out the solution to the problem and how you can guard against it in your marriage

Most married folks like to pretend extramarital affairs just don't happen — or at least not in their houses. But the sad truth is affairs do happen. They're a lot more common than you might think, and women are almost just as likely to step out on their relationship as their male counterparts.

Now that we know women are not as opposed to cheating as we'd like to think, it's time to dive deeper into the reasons so many women are abandoning their vows. I spoke with several experts to find out, and while some reasons may be just what you expected, others might really give you pause.

Emotional cheating
Some may view emotional cheating as harmless companionship, but professional relationship consultant Chris Seiter says it's just asking for trouble. "Emotional cheating often leads to physical cheating, and even though the lines are blurred when dealing with 'emotional cheating' I have found that it can be just as dangerous," he said.

Emotional cheating may mean different things to different people, but it all boils down to the same motivation: "If you have an emotional need that you need to get met by your partner and you instead go to someone else to get that need met, then that would be considered emotional cheating." some examples of emotional cheating include seeking someone else out to make you feel admired, important, reassured, appreciated, or approved of.

Attachment style
It makes sense that a person who is overly attached to their partner would be less likely to stray people who need high levels of attachment may be more prone to cheating for that very reason. "Attachment style affects how people feel in close relationships and can make people insatiably hungry for more connection — in which case they might have to look outside the relationship for more,"

Emotional abandoment
Just because a spouse is physically present does not mean he is emotionally checked in, and for some women, that sort of abandonment can be worse. "The urge to cheat can often emerge when women feel emotionally abandoned"

The physical presence of a partner is never enough to sustain a healthy, satisfying relationship. It is imperative that couples communicate their needs and expectations regularly as these can change over time. Instead of making assumptions or hoping your partner can read your mind, initiate a direct conversation about the emotional needs that are not being met."

Marilyn Williams, founder of the MEDIAN Center for Resilience and Brain Training, agreed, saying, "In my experience, most women cheat (or explain/justify their cheating) because their emotional needs were either not being met, or were perceived as not being met by their partner. They feel lonely, ignored, not paid attention to, etc. Most of the time the cheating was not premeditated; they realized how lonely or vulnerable they were once someone else started paying attention to them."

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Intimacy fears
Being afraid of intimacy has the power to destroy a relationship in more ways than one. Those who have intimacy issues may still seek out that sexual companionship, but not with their partner. She says some people may be "scared of intimacy in a way that allows sexual desire to only be felt outside of a deep partnership, because there is too much closeness with a partner to feel safe merging through sex."

A power play
Sometimes, a woman's decision to cheat is nothing more than a tactic to show her partner who's really in charge. "When women feel that they have no voice in their relationship, they may be more likely to cheat," "If a woman feels she has little to no say with regard to household decisions, finances, or future plans, the temptation to step outside of the relationship can be particularly tempting. In fact, some women may feel a gratifying sense of power and control when engaged in a secret affair."

Revenge
Some women have been hurt, betrayed or disrespected by their partner and decide to retaliate by going outside of the relationship sexually and letting their partner know. It's the 'see how you like this' lesson. Some women intentionally cheat to mock their husband and can even approach the court to seek divorce after breaking her hubby’s heart

Not enough face time
We're not talking about face time on your phone, but actual, face-to-face conversations with your spouse. This may seem like an old-school concept, but it's still pretty important in your relationship, according to Dr. Jenn Mann, host of VH1's Couple's Therapy. "One key issue for women who cheated is NOT having enough time with their partners. Taking the time to sit and connect, talk about your day, and share experiences is crucial. Put down your phones! Turn off your TV! Make some eye contact, sit and talk about your day," said Mann. "The studies show that the women who did not cheat spent an average of 30 minutes a day sitting and talking with their husbands."

A Drop In Sex/Unsatisfactory SEX
Physical connections are very important in relationships, psychotherapist and some sex experts says allowing touch and sex to drop off significantly is a major reason women tend to step out on their partners.

"The oxytocin biochemical released when we have good, intimate, connected sex goes a long way toward keeping the nesting intentions alive and well for both people in a committed relationship.

Research suggests that sexual dissatisfaction has been closely linked to greater incidences of conflict as well as unhappiness, infidelity and instability in the marriage. "Sex is a use-it-or-lose-it prospect! Neural pathways associated with sexuality are strengthened and maintained if sex is engaged in often.
Remembering that there are many kinds of sexual encounters to be explored is important as well. There are the quickies, the long drawn-out sessions, the everything-but-intercourse sessions, the sexy shower-time sessions and then there is simply sensual touch as well.

This all contributes significantly to a couple's being interested in one another and feeling a deep attraction for and excitement about one another."
If your wife finds your sexual performance unsatisfactory, boring and you could not give her maximum sexual pleasure for a long time, some women cannot endure it, but end up getting that satisfaction elsewhere which can lead to infidelity, hatred, Lack of trust, Divorce, hypertension which can even lead to untimely death

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Re: Top 8 Reasons WHY WOMEN CHEAT by HRHQueenPhil(f): 4:54pm On Jul 13, 2018
top 8 reasons why men cheat
1. NO FEAR OF GOD
2. peer pressure
3. partner abandonment
4. et al

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