Yesterday, a question was trending online about who should relocate after a marriage if the wife earns way more than her husband and they live in different states.

A lot of people gave varying replies but this one definitely takes the cake.

See the hilarious reply below;

https://www.torimill.com/2018/07/who-should-relocate-after-marriage-if-the-wife-earns-more-see-reply.html

Good reply!

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the difference is clear

If u go back to ur husband Na suffer oh. They won't pay u more than 60k sef. Pls stay apart. Any time he visit give him maximum satisfaction.

You can also convince him to resign and set up a business for him in Warri. It should pay more than that 60k he receives.

I and my lady are even farther apart for the past 3yrs and we still try and cope.

To hell with gender and ego. I would rather relocate and find a new job wherever my wife is

Fuckkkk. I hate long distance relationships

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because of ego, both should leave their job and relocate to a different state entirely. They should take care of themselves from savings until a new job arise

In the dynamics of marriage, core decisions such as relocation should not be solely determined by how much a spouse earns.

So if odds fall on you, and it's obvious that one spouse relocation presents better advantage to the family growth and kids welfare, but because you are an alfa-male with your egoistic dogma, and stay put - "you are not doing me, you are doing yourself"

The one with low income

If the husband's ego is too much that he can not relocate to where his wife is because clearly that's what needs to be done then they should live separately. There are families that have never lived together and they are still surviving.

whatever suits you madam

..550k.this is what i will do..he should work out his transfer over to your place..or better still ...it just depends on the trust between two of you.in Nigerian wen a woman is earning more than her man..she won't give him that full respect a man deserves.money ehn.

I even prefer long distance relationship. Either party travelling every two weeks to unite with the family.

the husband shud resign with an immediate effect and join the wife in warri so he can take care of the kids when she's gone to work.


on the other hand, the wife should be kind enough by placing the husband on a 100k salary monthly from her own pocket

thats my own opinion o

chivera018:
The man should relocate with his wife, assuming the wife was president in Aso rock won't he relocate ?

some women are accept because they are single

ok

Village people really trying to play with your generational blessing and make you guys very poor.
How can one sacrifice oil company job for a teaching job in Kaduna that has nothing to offer aside threatening ones life once in a while.

That Man is the real definition of village people.

Total nonsense.

1.) Why marry someone who lives far away in the first place? Of all partners in the world? Rubbish.

I don't fancy long distance marriage. My child won't call house help "mommy"

2.) Why marry a man who earn 60k and you earn way higher? This is nonsense. It's illogical. Why marry a woman who earns bigger than you first? Okay the woman should feed you? (indirectly)

This isn't about ego but ethic and logic. A man relocating Because of wife salary is a coward and infidel. That means wife should feed him or start business for him. Then why marry if u don't have good salary?

If relocating because u need ur wife companionship, that's okay. Not coz of her salary. Even if I relocate, I won't use her money for anything or she divorce me back and marry her money

D's mata don com online b4....

If you're a wise man and your wife earns more than you.... Man use your head

Love should not be blind.

The man should relocate please. The margin is so huge.
I have an aunt who was in a situation like this. She is a nurse in shell. She got married to a man who is not working (it was just street hustle). The man relocated but believe me, the man is the one controlling her bank a/c till date and thank God the man is not a Gold digger too. It all boils down to humility on the woman's part.
They put heads together and formed a private school, the man was made the Director of the school. The school is one of the best and most expensive in their location now.
But I know pride won't let some men do it.

The man should understand that for the fact that he earns only 60k , he is already a failure in life. So the solution is for him to leave that village and join his wife who is already 'made'.

This is a no-brainer but pride and ego will not kill most Nigerian men

The only reason why a right thinking man will insist that such wife should resign is on basis of infidelity.. May be the husband has caught the wife doing kurukere cheating on him

Lol tell your husband that the weed has affected a very vital part of his brain.

The man should do d needful nd stop being unreasonable

All these hypothetical questions self. Where do you see them paying 550k to a nurse in Nigeria?