Good day,

I want to share my story,please keep me anonymous. I broke up with someone that I was in a relationship for almost two years. The relationship was the best I ever had. I think I am still in love with this lady but something happened that made me leave. And that has made me to have trust issues with ladies and I am finding it hard to trust even as I try new relationships.

Dupe (not real name) and I knew each other since 2016. We met during NYSC. I love that she was a homely and godly girl. After service year,I got a job but Dupe could not find a job for almost one year. So,I got her some money and she started a buying and selling business. I liked how industrious she was. She started an online business too. She would deliver orders to customers at their homes or offices.

Early this year,she made a delivery to a man and claimed that the man ended up raping her. I was livid and wanted to report the matter to the police but she said she did not want this to come out cos of the shame and stigma. I tried to convince her but she would not bulge.She begged me to let things be. I then asked her to tell me who the man was,she initially did not want to but maybe cause she did not want me to be suspicious,she told me but made me promise not to do anything about it.

God knows,no man will hear that his wife to be got violated and will do nothing about it. I tracked the man down and confronted him. He laughed and told me he never forced my girl. That it was a mutual agreement. He told her he liked her and before he could buy stuff from her,he wanted to sleep with her. At first,she resisted but he made her a handsome offer and she finally agreed. I told him he was a liar and I would deal with him but he said,go and ask your LovePeddler girlfriend to tell you the truth.

Now,this whole revelation was very hard on me. Here I was,dating this lady for two years with no s*x cos we wanted to wait until marriage and here someone else is claiming she willingly gave it to him? I could not take it and I asked her. Of course,she denied it. I then asked her to let us report to the police to prove her innocence but still she refused. She refused on the grounds of the shame and stigma of being known as a rape victim. She said,my family would also find out and hate her. I know it will be hard if people find out the truth but I did not care,I just wanted justice for her and wanted to make sure she was not lying.

This disagreement between us caused a strain in our relationship. It was clear there was trust issues. We could not get past it. She would cry and say that I am insensitive to her plight. I was torn between believing her and sticking with her. One day....see more


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She’s really immature, a topic came up somewhere recently where somebody threw a question “what information can you share with your spouse” and people gave several answers one of which was “it depended on the level of maturity of the one you’re sharing the information”.

Your girl should have known how you’re going to react to such information and keep it to herself.

Honestly, no matter how genuine we think we are some information are better kept than shared because of the consequences of such shared information.

The question should always be if I share this piece of information would it bring healing or further cause a catastrophic disintegration.

Maturity is the key.

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Mr Man, She told you she was violated, and the man told you it was on mutual consent which means one of them is right. Since you had a few words with the alleged rapist who said it was on mutual consent and bae claims she was raped, Why not tell the man you're taking the matter to court which is going to tarnish his image but before you conclude you would like him to prove his innocence by making her same offer again let's see if she bows to the pressure. If she bows then you know or let him call her in your presence let them gist then you'll have a clue of what happened.

bros trust no woman.... the guy said it was consensual, madam say na rape. note that most ladies usually use rape as an excuse when they have fallen cheaply, but am not saying she's lying tho. even if u report to the police, there has to be evidence, and she must be ready to fully participate in the investigation... to be serious "i" will say she is lying. (talking from experience)

Nice one dear

temodent:
She’s really immature, a topic came up somewhere recently where somebody threw a question “what information can you share with your spouse” and people gave several answers one of which was “it depended on the level of maturity of the one you’re sharing the information”.

Your girl should have known how you’re going to react to such information and keep it to herself.

Honestly, no matter how genuine we think we are some information are better kept than shared because of the consequences of such shared information.

The question should always be if I share this piece of information would it bring healing or further cause a catastrophic disintegration.

Maturity is the key.

fictitious story to generate traffic

babyfaceafrica:
fictitious story to generate traffic

The forwarded chat below from the editor to me as received from op, Remember story we posted this past August wedding cancelled that was supposed to hold August 22. I made her(editor) post story without much editing, so the story will not loose its originality and make front page, cos NLs been refusing to make our stories to front page because of guyz like you who always say it fake.it actually did made front page, but we later regretted it cos it hurt the op,the story line gave her identity away, though we didn't use her real name.
you can go ahead and call all our stories fake, but we are no moved cos Thomas been there since Jesus days

Samuelgr8:
The forwarded chat below from the editor to me as received from op, Remember story we posted this past August wedding cancelled that was supposed to hold August 22. I made her(editor) post story without much editing, so the story will not loose its originality and make front page, cos NLs been refusing to make our stories to front page because of guyz like you who always say it fake.it actually did made front page, but we later regretted it cos it hurt the op,the story line gave her identity away, though we didn't use her real name.
you can go ahead and call all our stories fake, but we are no moved cos Thomas been there since Jesus days

lolz....WhatsApp editing.. you can't blame me..bloggers are liars and will do anything to make money

if u visit our blog, you see we dont just post any kind of stories. days we dont have stories we dont post anything, rather we get articles relating to relationship and post it.

babyfaceafrica:
lolz....WhatsApp editing.. you can't blame me..bloggers are liars and will do anything to make money