mrblessed:
You surely have a whole lot going through your mind at the moment. This is certainly not the best time to be a woman. As for your guys, you know them better, continue to carefully and consciously interrogate their characters. Good luck in your screening exercise.

ImaIma1:
None abeg. Stop wasting time on three of them and move on.

sacx:
Hmm sister, your village people are after you

edoman2016:

You ladies are very funny. What give the OP that the three guys have intentions to marry her but not just to have sex with her? I hate ladies that scrutinize their relationship like examination and experiment. I just broke up with my holier than thou girlfriend recently. She is just like the OP.

She was scrutinizing our relationship like examination instead of enjoying it and give it all. She always think she is a very good wife material even though she has her own weaknesses. She is boring and self centered. Despite that, I overlooked it because no one is perfect. When I got tired of her constant scrutinization, I broke up with her. And I had intention to marry her cause I am 31.. Why date a man, if you know you will still be on a watch out in the relationship?

KanwuliaExtra:


You become one by sharing a unique sexual experience. Virgins do not have real relationships. All those men may not see you as a marriage material either. They all may want to sleep with you and take off.

Relationships are like taking risks. . . No guarantees. You do your best and hope for the rest.

crackhaus:

Realife4u:


Am not anticipating a war in my marriage. I like to know how a person will react to situations in marriage. Am in search for a truly diplomatic and mature person that is why I keep asking them real life questions to know the secret person of the heart.

Lonestar124:
Look for another man.......they're all irresponsible.

A desperate lady will go for the first guy.

Realife4u:


From the look of things most men cheat. Going from your suggestion how can I find a way to manage a man that cheats? Do I need to see a councillor?

oweniwe:


The third guy doesn't sound irresponsible to me. To take care of a grandparent and to run a taxi are not beans. If he had a better job, I'll have recommended him....

Guy 1... I hate womanizers

Guy 2... Short guys can be very stubborn. Any small mistake the wife does, they will see it like you're disrespecting them and will start giving attitude until the wife has apologised thoroughly

Guy 3... He definitely can't abandone his grandmother cos of little quarrel with wife so he will always come back home. The experience of knowing how to take care of a woman is a plus

oweniwe:


The third guy doesn't sound irresponsible to me. To take care of a grandparent and to run a taxi are not beans. If he had a better job, I'll have recommended him....

Guy 1... I hate womanizers

Guy 2... Short guys can be very stubborn. Any small mistake the wife does, they will see it like you're disrespecting them and will start giving attitude until the wife has apologised thoroughly

Guy 3... He definitely can't abandone his grandmother cos of little quarrel with wife so he will always come back home. The experience of knowing how to take care of a woman is a plus

oweniwe:


Don't marry a man that openly cheat. Or a man who sleeps with other girls, but says he has no feelings for them... Such guys don't listen to simple advice from their wives.

My gman was a womanizer and let me tell you... He would first spend a week with girlfriends in posh hotels and pay School fees for girlfriends before sending us feeding money in school. They will be spending on girls, hotels, drinks, travel money and other "flexing/enjoyment" stuffs... But if you advise him to buy small land, he will give 101 reasons why he cannot buy land now

I can never advise my sister to marry any man who openly womanize.. never. They don't know how to set up or invest in biz so if they lose job.... small time, they go broke

Realife4u:

I am 33 years old