marvinsync:



there is no problem with checking virginity
as long as it's not compulsory ( as In they are not forced to ) , it's not painful (they ensure their patients don't experience harm) and long as the test is accurate .


I hate when the UN or ( calling it as it is) the west , try to change people beliefs and systems to match theirs because they feel that they are the only ones that are correct


I'm some cultures women should be virgins before marriage, and they create systems to confirm the virginity , it's their culture ! the UN should mind their fvcking business !

Contradicting yourself here @ bolded, if it's their culture then that makes it compulsory for them. There's everything wrong with checking a woman's virginity, its her private part, it's her private business, nobody should be snooping around there.

opyzy:
I agree with the UN 100%, this bullshiiit must end especially in Africa, it is humiliating and dehumanizing.
There are other pressing issues in the continent other than chuku chuku girls privates in the name of virginity test

Wow, dis virginity stuff been hurt you oo

opyzy:
I agree with the UN 100%, this bullshiiit must end especially in Africa, it is humiliating and dehumanizing.
There are other pressing issues in the continent other than chuku chuku girls privates in the name of virginity test

hmmm

adami:


Contradicting yourself here @ bolded, if it's their culture then that makes it compulsory for them. There's everything wrong with checking a woman's virginity, its her private part, it's her private business, nobody should be snooping around there.

just cause it's their culture doesn't necessarily make if compulsory ,she can decide not to go with it , she can decide not to marry

they are checking her virginity to confirm if shes a virgin like she says ,how else will the suitor know if she is or not , u want him to be ripped off?

u can decide to make it a big deal or not

but it's really not ,u can see it as routine check, like when spouses go for medical tests before marriage to see if there is an abnormality or not

marvinsync:


just cause it's their culture doesn't necessarily make if compulsory ,she can decide not to go with it, she can decide not to marry

they are checking her virginity to confirm if shes a virgin like she says ,how else will the suitor know if she is or not, u want him to be ripped off?

u can decide to make it a big deal or not

but it's really not ,u can see it as routine check, like when spouses go for medical tests before marriage to see if there is an abnormality or not

So her marriage is hinged on her virginity She has to give up marriage because of that What do you even mean by the man being ripped off That should only make sense if the man is also a virgin. Women enjoy sex as much as men so why should she be restricted when the man is not and yet the man is the one who is ripped off? Culture is not cast in stone, culture changes and if a cultural practise suppresses a group of pple, it should be changed. Every adult should be entitled to sexual freedom.

adami:


So her marriage is hinged on her virginity She has to give up marriage because of that What do you even mean by the man being ripped off That should only make sense if the man is also a virgin. Women enjoy sex as much as men so why should she be restricted when the man is not and yet the man is the one who is ripped off? Culture is not cast in stone, culture changes and if a cultural practise suppresses a group of pple, it should be changed. Every adult should be entitled to sexual freedom.

Like I said it's their culture u don't have to like it , and we don't know if their culture also says the man has to be a virgin or not

And yes it would be a rip off , if the man says he wants a virgin to marry it's his choice and he's allowed to confirm

It's just like a medical test , if ur an AS u wouldn't wanna marry another AS cause it might lead to an SS child , so u go for test to confirm , you'd also wanna confirm fertility(to see if u can both have children) ,STD tests etc

It's really not a big deal , and I also put inclusions if they are gonna test virginity which is

Is it harmful?
Is it professionally done?!
is it really an accurate test or just a waste of time ?!