Why looking at what people say

Sometimes I see most people saying I don’t like the way my spouse treat me, I wish I will go, I wish to divorce this marriage, but still they can’t divorce it they still stand strong because of what people, parents or spiritual leader may say about them when they divorce and due to that they prefer to die in silence than to divorce their marriage but to me they are making a big mistake because marriage is an agreement between you and your spouse but when you find out that he or she is not keeping that agreement that was made between you too why then are you still with him or her, when you live all day with tears and sorrow knowing full well that marriage is not meant to be so but rather marriage is meant to be a thing of joy and happiness. I know you will think am encouraging divorce but am not am just saying the truth, if you find out that the marriage you are does not work as you think please divorce and make use of your time because staying may lead to your death, you never know if he or she has someone he or she admires please leave now you still have time.

If you are looking at what people will say, what that your pastor or spiritual leader will say or how your parents will feel when you divorce then you are getting it all wrong and making a mistake that will result to your death or something else which you can never believe that will happen, so why then are you making all these issues hard for you, why then are you looking at what they will say instead of looking at what your heart want or what is the best for you. Knowing full well that you are not satisfied with your marriage any more why then do you pretend to people why then do you prefer to die in silence or do you think that what people may say is more important than your life, listen I have grow up in this world to understand that no matter what you do in this world people must still talk and there is nothing you can do to please everybody in this world because they are human with different brain, heart and understanding, so you see is of no use looking at what people will say when you have not taken good care of your own needs.

You really need help seriously because there is no way you can hide it that people will never notice that there is something wrong because emotional feelings or family issues due affect well in any activity we are doing as a human, why wasting your time on that person who don’t know your value or the potentials that you have, why trying to see if he or she can change knowing full well that it only happens in your dreams and not real life, look around you and read the signs and notice the people around you how they all live, notice those people you bother yourself on what they will say and see if they are ok and

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