I was formally staying with my in-laws (my previous post has the details https://www.nairaland.com/3496373/pains-advice-needed ). I got a new federal government job and I started working in another town. Now it's as if life has bounced back on me. There was a new opening in my in-laws town in which I was transferred back to be a pioneer, is like going back to square 1 because my husband said I can't rent another house because his father has alot of apartments in his compound.. I have tried working my transfer back but all proven abortive. My kids are two years and I had wanted them to start school but not with my in-laws. I really want peace I don't want to go back to my sorrows

My question now is...
1)Must a married woman be transferred?
2) Must I stay in my husband's family house
3) is there a way out.

Your husband really thinks like a goat.

He should be happy you're carrying his responsibility for him.

Why must you live with your in-laws? it's a recipe for trouble and divorce over time.

I need an urgent advice please

Of course there is always a way!

You better love yourself enough to prioritize your joy, peace and sanity.

Why make money if you cannot use it to enjoy and live a good life

If this means getting an apartment for yourself and kids, SO BE IT!!!

P.S. LIFE is not for the faint-hearted!!!

if you can afford a bedroom apartment, then go for it. if your husband complains, tell him its closer to your work place and the children's school. simple.

try and visit your in-laws once a while so it won't be like you're avoiding them.