her

U need to keep an eye on her n make sure u get better evidence before taking any action. That postinor cud b a proof if she doesnt use it wen u av s*x wit her...I dont wanna conclude...Just tink well before making ur decision

She

You should confront her about it.Doesn't your wife work? She seems like she has a lot of free time.

It is always important to know a lady's lifestyle,minset,character and type of friends she keeps before marrying her.Women rarely change.


By the way,why do you use Postinor as your family planning method?Why don't you go for something more long-term?

Thanks

just take two days off from work without informing her and see what is happening 4 urself.

Are you sure you ready to know the truth?
Truth hurts bro.....

Good luck.

youngsahito:
just take two days off from work without informing her and see what is happening 4 urself.

@OP
Try this suggestion up there.
Seeing is believing.
Good luck.

OK thanks

Go for a DNA test for all ur kids.

Cc SAM1979

Plan a surprise visit or get someone to monitor her movement and feed you back.

Don't confront her
I can give you tips on how to bug her phone, you will have access to all her calls (audio not just the call log) and whatsapp and Facebook chats if you want

SAM1979:
I work far away from home in same town Port Harcourt and had to stay back in my office till Saturday due to transportation cost. Am home on Saturday or Friday night. On Friday night 8pm March 8, 2019, I got home to discover my wife just took a pregnancy prevention pill called 'Postinor' about 7pm that day. We had last sex on monday night of March 4, 2019 and I gave her N27,000 same day. My neighbour Madam called my attention to my wife association with a lady in same compound whose husband is a Police officer but on out of state duty for some time. The police wife has been accused of dating a young man in my compound and she is now the best friend of my wife. My neighbour madam told me my wife and police lady wife are partners of married women still searching for husband and that they are very known in my street about it. My wife rarely respect me and confronted her with the issue which she denied but later quickly deleted her received call log. I want to confront her with the issue of Postinor taken could mean she actually had sex that day which confirms infidelity. In Feb she came back and there was this thick white discharge on her pants which caked due to harmattan. It looks spermish with vaginal fluid mixed without odour. she dumped the pant on my clothes unwashed. I had to go for treatment. Should I raise this issue with her too. My neighbours claim she is always coming home very late which I have raised with her and she denied. Should I discuss the discharge and postinor with her tommorow March 16, 2019. Should I believe my neighbours. My wife spends most time reading Facebook stories everyday and I have complained too. I have 2 boys and 1 girl with her

Can you please give me the tips on how to bug a phone too

lilbest4:
Don't confront her
I can give you tips on how to bug her phone, you will have access to all her calls (audio not just the call log) and whatsapp and Facebook chats if you want

@ OP, on March 7th you posted a thread where you said "you needed a lady to for a serious relationship" , https://www.nairaland.com/5065290/need-lady-date-port-harcourt

so from March 7th, you got a date, got married, had 3 kids and she is already cheating on you, in just a space of 7 to 8 days.


OR
you are cheating on your wife same way she is cheating on you.
You both deserve each other.

You should make arrangements for your family to be together, cause the long distance relationship is not going well for you and your wife.

chivera018:
@ OP, on March 7th you posted a thread where you said "you needed a lady to for a serious relationship" , https://www.nairaland.com/5065290/need-lady-date-port-harcourt

so from March 7th, you got a date, got married, had 3 kids and she is already cheating on you, in just a space of 7 to 8 days.


OR
you are cheating on your wife same way she is cheating on you.
You both deserve each other.

You should make arrangements for your family to be together, cause the long distance relationship is not going well for you and your wife.

Babe u try ooo, na good research u do...Many tins dey happen for NL sha

chivera018:
@ OP, on March 7th you posted a thread where you said "you needed a lady to for a serious relationship" , https://www.nairaland.com/5065290/need-lady-date-port-harcourt

so from March 7th, you got a date, got married, had 3 kids and she is already cheating on you, in just a space of 7 to 8 days.


OR
you are cheating on your wife same way she is cheating on you.
You both deserve each other.

You should make arrangements for your family to be together, cause the long distance relationship is not going well for you and your wife.

Hmmmmmm!!! See life! You reap whatever you sow!!!

LoL.



The Op is also good in the cheating game.

chivera018:
@ OP, on March 7th you posted a thread where you said "you needed a lady to for a serious relationship" , https://www.nairaland.com/5065290/need-lady-date-port-harcourt

so from March 7th, you got a date, got married, had 3 kids and she is already cheating on you, in just a space of 7 to 8 days.


OR
you are cheating on your wife same way she is cheating on you.
You both deserve each other.

You should make arrangements for your family to be together, cause the long distance relationship is not going well for you and your wife.

He has deleted the post.

Sam1979, if I should invoke the spirit that causes elephantiasis of the scrotum upon you, even your ancestors will weep for you.

You and your wayward wife deserve each other.

Ishilove:

He had deleted the post.

Sam1979, if I should invoke the spirit that causes elephantiasis of the scrotum upon you, even your ancestors will weep for you.

You and your wayward wife deserve each other.

lol, I knew he would do that, but I have the screen shot. Let him come and delete it also.

nuelyoyo:
Go for a DNA test for all ur kids.

Cc SAM1979

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Everything na DNA test, like they come cheap.

chivera018:
lol, I knew he would do that, but I have the screen shot. Let him come and delete it also.

Oya take!

chivera018:
lol, I knew he would do that, but I have the screen shot. Let him come and delete it also.

Lol, caught in the act, he is a cheat who thinks his wife is also doing what he does.

chivera018:
lol, I knew he would do that, but I have the screen shot. Let him come and delete it also.

Whaaaat!!!

It's getting cheaper by the day

carammel:
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Everything na DNA test, like they come cheap.

Damn, you nailed it. I wish you had posted the content of that thread. I just went to read it and looks like he has deleted it.

chivera018:
@ OP, on March 7th you posted a thread where you said "you needed a lady to for a serious relationship" , https://www.nairaland.com/5065290/need-lady-date-port-harcourt

so from March 7th, you got a date, got married, had 3 kids and she is already cheating on you, in just a space of 7 to 8 days.


OR
you are cheating on your wife same way she is cheating on you.
You both deserve each other.

You should make arrangements for your family to be together, cause the long distance relationship is not going well for you and your wife.

Jirair:
Damn, you nailed it. I wish you had posted the content of that thread. I just went to read it and looks like he has deleted it.

the screen shot is available.

Ok, I'm just seeing it. Thumbs up for saving a screenshot of his post.

chivera018:
the screen shot is available.

What a shame. Op is probably cheating on his wife and of course also suspecting that someone somewhere is getting a piece of her cookie jar. Your actions reeks of guilt and if truly she’s cheating on you then you both deserve each other. I’ll bet my left balls that if the wife is given a chance to state her side of the story, she’s gonna be opening a can of worms.

Op might not even be married probably one of the kids on nairaland trying to seek attention....op if i tear u slap u go tell me who dash u wife...oya go and read ur book

chivera018:
@ OP, on March 7th you posted a thread where you said "you needed a lady to for a serious relationship" , https://www.nairaland.com/5065290/need-lady-date-port-harcourt

so from March 7th, you got a date, got married, had 3 kids and she is already cheating on you, in just a space of 7 to 8 days.


OR
you are cheating on your wife same way she is cheating on you.
You both deserve each other.

You should make arrangements for your family to be together, cause the long distance relationship is not going well for you and your wife.

.

Ewoooo

Hear the word of the sovereign LORD:

It is shameful even to talk about the things that ungodly people do in secret.--Ephesians 5:12

For there is nothing hidden that will not be disclosed, and nothing concealed that will not be known or brought out into the open.--Luke 8:17

The times of ignorance God overlooked, but now he commands all people everywhere to repent.--Acts 17:30

Give careful thought to the paths for your feet and be steadfast in all your ways.--proverbs 4:26

Mimzyy:
What a shame. Op is probably cheating on his wife and of course also suspecting that someone somewhere is getting a piece of her cookie jar. Your actions reeks of guilt and if truly she’s cheating on you then you both deserve each other. I’ll bet my left balls that if the wife is given a chance to state her side of the story, she’s gonna be opening a can of worms.

u got balls?