gloria34:
First, i have a feeling this story is fabricated cause no man will be able to bear such and secondly, like the person above me said, you deserve it.

yazga:
Thats harsh

gloria34:
He lied to her, till now he hasn't told her the truth. He deserves his kind

cococandy:
Sir/madam,
Are we supposed to feel sorry for you

You’re a wicked person who got rewarded with someone you deserve. You wanted to deny her children? What was your plan when you married someone knowing that you can’t have children with them and that’s something they expect?

And the worst part is that the period wherein y’all were childless, she was probably blamed for being barren and you were quiet.

Go to sleep oga/madam

Forged story

giftfromGod:
If this story is your real life issues. Then you got married on a bad foundation. You lie to your wife why keep such secret? Oh so now it paining you? Don't get me wrong am not supporting what she did , but why do you have to lie.
In my own view I will advice you pretend you do not know those kids are not yours. Those kids knew you as their dad , so please accept them as yours. About your wife, have a heart to heart discussion with her and let peace dwell in your home.

MajorJeffery:
"In summary I became a pastor in a local church in my community 5years later and met my wife in the process. I did not tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God will heal me"

You're as e.vil as your wife so no issues here. Ehmm before I forget, the bolded part shows you are f00lish as well and that makes you worse than your wife.

cococandy:
Sir/madam,
Are we supposed to feel sorry for you

You’re a wicked person who got rewarded with someone you deserve. You wanted to deny her children? What was your plan when you married someone knowing that you can’t have children with them and that’s something they expect?

And the worst part is that the period wherein y’all were childless, she was probably blamed for being barren and you were quiet.

Go to sleep oga/madam

Forged story

First, i have a feeling this story is fabricated cause no man will be able to bear such and secondly, like the person above me said, you deserve it.

RZArecta2:
ive seen this same story in a couple of places for about a year now but saying he deserves it is insensitive

SteveOfu:
MY WIFE DOES NOT KNOW THAT I KNOW.

I have been married for 14years 'we' have 3kids(all boys) but none of them belongs to me. I know this for a fact but my wife does not know that I know. Let me explain.
5years before I met my wife, I was involved in a car accident together with two of my friends. We were traveling from Kasoa to Madina and our car skidded off the road. I was the only survivor of that accident, my friends died. I spent about 11months at the hospital and that left me with a condition that says I can't have children. I gave my life to Jesus Christ and became a committed Christian after the incident.

In summary I became a pastor in a local church in my community 5years later and met my wife in the process. I did not tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God will heal me. 6years into our marriage my wife got pregnant and had 'our' first child. To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA n it was clear I wasn't the father. I repeated the test for all 3 children and they are all not mine. I have been living with this situation for the past 8 years and I am beginning to get irritated by both the children and my wife.

My wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes round preaching to young women in the church about the need to remain faithful to their partners but she has had 3 children by another man or men I don't know. I want to confront her, but I am confused as to how to go about d situation

I am just angry and irritated by everyone in my house lately. I feel like a total stranger in my own home.

What should I do?

Raphsays:


Very easy.
Just tell her your short story or give her this thread to read and see her reaction and get her confessions.

frozen70:
You have a secret which you know you can't pregnant a woman and you hide it from her

She has her own secrets when she discovered that you can't pregnant her she sort herself out and had kids for

You did a DNA in secret which revealed to you that the kids aren't yours because you already knows the secrets you kept away from her

Only the children are innocent of this secrets

Everything about the marriage is based on secrecy

Pls for you to remain happy in your entire life

Close the chapter and let every secret remains secret

babyfaceafrica:
terrible advise