TattleTale:

@Davidylan,
don't tell me you are still mad at me for that little "fight" we had earlier on?

The world is too small for us to hold grudges, plus I am not at all your enemy9 LOL)

no, not mad at you. just licking my wounds. Neither am i your enemy, the world is too small. We may even meet and spark some fireworks you never know.

can the topic resume now pls?

wife material getting scare in London what say you?
david and anyone else interested in the topic
you seem like a man of the world, what is you thought on this? I mean it also mean people are finding it hard to hook up.

@ poster, Na you talk am o. .
To even think of it, husband material are also getting scarce. .We have majority of them thinking of how to toast white girls. . .   and others thinking of how to become a briton by marriage. .IT'S A PITY!

busygirl:

@ poster, Na you talk am o. .
To even think of it, husband material are also getting scarce. .We have majority of them thinking of how to toast white girls. . . and others thinking of how to become a briton by marriage. .IT'S A PITY!

Not just in London oh, it's everywhere. Naija guys just love them some white girls.

Naija guys up here are either scammers or 419

Man of the world ke?  

There is no scarcity, it just depends on WHAT you are looking for and WHERE. If you are busy looking for wife material in a bar, with the boys at the club, a strip joint, you will search for wife till kingdom come!
Have patience, this time last year i was also getting worried. It was my first time of going so long without a regular date but even the bible says to sit down and count the cost first before you embark on a project. Many of us looking for wife material are not even husband material yet, we are just looking for a domestic servant to be at our beck and call, cook our meals and do the laundry while we laze about and of course enjoy the benefits of free sex.

Make yourself a husband material first, next thingy keep praying and then wait patiently. The woman God has for you will show up at some point.
Like i tell my friends, one day will be one day me too i will walk down the aisle with one woman beside me. When and with whom is not mine to worry about at this point. I'm having fun as a single guy and for me that will do just fine.

Only few of them impress me. . Those are the ones that don't pick up the crazy fashion of piercing their ears. Notwithstanding, it's still a pity all of them want to marry oyinbo wifey

busygirl:

Only few of them impress me. . Those are the ones that don't pick up the crazy fashion of piercing their ears. Notwithstanding, it's still a pity all of them want to marry oyinbo wifey

what about you girls? is it not depressing to find them with hair dyed pink, belly rings, halter tops with exposed midriffs, tiny handbag containing nothing slung across the shoulder, heavily made up wearing red/purple boots and cursing at the top of the voice?

Inshort, God bless you davidylan. . . @ poster, you can't expect to get a wifey material in a club, bar, hotels wateva. . . Go to the right places. .like a church and also be born again. .i mean heavenly bound. Dont go to church simply because you're searching oooooh!

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what about you girls? is it not depressing to find them with hair dyed pink, belly rings, halter tops with exposed midriffs, tiny handbag containing nothing slung across the shoulder, heavily made up wearing red/purple boots and cursing at the top of the voice?

You mean them. . ._{not me}.Well, the answer is simple. If you want a wife, go to the right places at the right time. . same goes for whoever is searching for a husband. But believe me, the most important factor is God. Choosing a life patner, _{no be small thing ooo}

davidylan:

what about you girls? is it not depressing to find them with hair dyed pink, belly rings, halter tops with exposed midriffs, tiny handbag containing nothing slung across the shoulder, heavily made up wearing red/purple boots and cursing at the top of the voice?

Are you saying belly-rings are a no no on the recipe of "wifey material"??

If yes . .

I totally disagree

davidylan:

what about you girls? is it not depressing to find them with hair dyed pink, belly rings, halter tops with exposed midriffs, tiny handbag containing nothing slung across the shoulder, heavily made up wearing red/purple boots and cursing at the top of the voice?

even if u get a wife like that, or anywhere, be it clubs, hotels, or joints, if love exist, u can alwayz change them 2 wifey material, itz better than getting married 2 a witch in the church or a devil messenger ,, datz likely were u get all this spiritually deformed gurlz, while the physically difromed one are the ones in the club  

acidrop:

even if u get a wife like that, or anywhere, be it clubs, hotels, or joints, if love exist, u can alwayz change them 2 wifey material, itz better than getting married 2 a witch in the church or a devil messenger ,, datz likely were u get all this spiritually deformed gurlz, while the physically difromed one are the ones in the club 

THAT IS FUNNY LOL

yes it is a good point to make yourself a husband or wife material, well it depends on what you looking for. I don't think the poster is searching in strip clubs etc lol. seriously though many girls in London are nothing to write home about, except the ones on Nairaland of course / Like i have always said and keep saying, girls acting all aggressive and crazy with men get no where, not saying become dumb, just use your brain. Experience is the best teacher anyway, ask the women in this country over 30 still single if thier mindset and aspirations are still thesame as they were @ 19-24yrs old? many run their mouths saying '' i aint doin no dishes, i work'' i aint cooking today. just makes me laff. they fail to see men want these things

[/quote][quote author=acidrop link=topic=52250.msg1096787#msg1096787 date=1178499725]
even if u get a wife like that, or anywhere, be it clubs, hotels, or joints, if love exist, u can alwayz change them 2 wifey material, itz better than getting married 2 a witch in the church or a devil messenger ,, datz likely were u get all this spiritually deformed gurlz, while the physically difromed one are the ones in the club  

That's where GOD comes in. Searching for a life patner is not something that should be taken with levity. It's something way beyond the ordinary. I'm not saying you can't change a club-girl. .But not all can work out that way. A person who's searching need to seriously seek the face of GOD for direction.

cute-ass:

Are you saying belly-rings are a no no on the recipe of "wifey material"??

If yes . .

I totally disagree

na u sabi. Belly rings are a big turn off for me. Infact any ring besides the ones on ur ears na goodbye.  

acidrop:

even if u get a wife like that, or anywhere, be it clubs, hotels, or joints, if love exist, u can alwayz change them 2 wifey material, itz better than getting married 2 a witch in the church or a devil messenger ,, datz likely were u get all this spiritually deformed gurlz, while the physically difromed one are the ones in the club  

It's very easy to change a girl to wifey material on a forum. Try it in real life. You'd be like the man Solomon adviced to sit on the roof rather than stay in a corner with a brawling wife. Welcome to the first mistake on the road to an eventual divorce.

sisimose:

Like i have always said and keep saying, girls acting all aggressive and crazy with men get no where, not saying become dumb, just use your brain. Experience is the best teacher anyway, ask the women in this country over 30 still single if their mindset and aspirations are still thesame as they were @ 19-24yrs old? many run their mouths saying '' i aint doin no dishes, i work'' i aint cooking today. just makes me laff. they fail to see men want these things

You tell them my dear! Many girls think an aggressive attitude is a sign of an independent mind.

busygirl:

Inshort, God bless you davidylan. . . @ poster, you can't expect to get a wifey material in a club, bar, hotels whatever. . . Go to the right places. .like a church and also be born again. .i mean heavenly bound. Dont go to church simply because you're searching oooooh!

That a big lie i met my LOVE at a party .

@the topic
And also why don’t you have a little patience for the right woman to come by , stop searching around am sure the lady of your dream will look for you.

busygirl:

Only few of them impress me. . Those are the ones that don't pick up the crazy fashion of piercing their ears. Notwithstanding, it's still a pity all of them want to marry oyinbo wifey

I don't see nothing wrong with a guy piercing is ears, what matters the most is his the way he handles himself in public

So I you telling me since i have a nose ring am not a wife material

davidylan:

what about you girls? is it not depressing to find them with hair dyed pink, belly rings, halter tops with exposed midriffs, tiny handbag containing nothing slung across the shoulder, heavily made up wearing red/purple boots and cursing at the top of the voice?

What is wrong in carrying handbag that has nothing inside it.
What i use is a wristlet and all i have inside is my credit card, id, cash, lip gloss and mint so are u tell me it isn't lady like

LoVeBoOBS:

That a big lie i met my LOVE at a party .

that one na boyfriend. wait until you are married at least 2 yrs.

LoVeBoOBS:

What is wrong in carrying handbag that has nothing inside it.
What i use is a wristlet and all i have inside is my credit card, id, cash, lip gloss and mint so are u tell me it isn't lady like

Real women dont go around with wristlets, that is meant for teenagers.

davidylan:

na u sabi. Belly rings are a big turn off for me. Infact any ring besides the ones on your ears na goodbye.  

It's very easy to change a girl to wifey material on a forum. Try it in real life. You'd be like the man Solomon adviced to sit on the roof rather than stay in a corner with a brawling wife. Welcome to the first mistake on the road to an eventual divorce.

If you say so Your world, your rules!!! (But just for the records though, are you saying that if you met a girl, with a not-ears piercing, you fell hands down, she's everything you want in a package, and because of one stupid piercing, you'll let go?? ) You're too much ooh!!

BTW your list is really something else . . handbags too are not allowed
Well "hand bags", do add some feminity to a lady, believe it or not

busygirl:

That's where GOD comes in. Searching for a life patner is not something that should be taken with levity. It's something way beyond the ordinary. I'm not saying you can't change a club-girl. .But not all can work out that way. A person who's searching need to seriously seek the face of GOD for direction.

Well said girlfriend

@Sisimose,
I have not a clue who the hell you are, so PLEASE get off my back,

"seun this, seun that", that's all you can do,,,



@Topic
Davidylan,
so how many girls have you met and wanted to take you home to their mommas?  
That's weird, since for me, I ONLY take the Man that I am definitely feeling home, I may mention names to her, but with regards to going home to the family, hell NO,

Anyway some girls are desperate and foolish,

Wifey material in my vocabulary means someone who has the total package, looks, brains, and knows her way around the house( kitchen, bedroom etc)

all i see on this thread are frivolous likes and dislikes
tiny handbags, pierced belly, nose rings,ear rings on men ish

TattleTale:

@Sisimose,
I have not a clue who the hell you are, so PLEASE get off my back,

"seun this, seun that", that's all you can do,,,



@Topic
Davidylan,
so how many girls have you met and wanted to take you home to their mommas?
That's weird, since for me, I ONLY take the Man that I am definitely feeling home, I may mention names to her, but with regards to going home to the family, hell NO,

Anyway some girls are desperate and foolish,

Wifey material in my vocabulary means someone who has the total package, looks, brains, and knows her way around the house( kitchen, bedroom etc)

NOTED AND IGNORED FOR NOW


BACK TO TOPIC

davidylan:

You tell them my dear! Many girls think an aggressive attitude is a sign of an independent mind.

it's an impression. they think the western women have this attitude, but it is not the case

cute-ass:

If you say so Your world, your rules!!! (But just for the records though, are you saying that if you met a girl, with a not-ears piercing, you fell hands down, she's everything you want in a package, and because of one stupid piercing, you'll let go?? ) You're too much ooh!!

no way is she going anywhere but at some point those rings are going to go. If we are to have a future we both must be of one mind on certain issues.

cute-ass:

BTW your list is really something else . . handbags too are not allowed
Well "hand bags", do add some feminity to a lady, believe it or not

Nooo!   I mean those tiny 12 yr old handbags that 25 yr old ladies cling to and think it looks sexy.

TattleTale:

@Topic
Davidylan,
so how many girls have you met and wanted to take you home to their mommas?  

dear, i'm not kidding. Within two weeks you start hearing. . . i want you to meet my parents and i'm like   parents ke? lai lai! E never reach that levels o!

ikamefa:

all i see on this thread are frivolous likes and dislikes
tiny handbags, pierced belly, nose rings,ear rings on men ish

it is these "frivolous" likes and dislikes that cause unecessary friction during the marriage. Those tiny things we fail to correct because we are soo in love that they "dont matter" until we are well into the marriage and the hot love has settled into a boring monotony. That's when you start noticing how that his earing irritates you and you dont like the way she dyes her hair.

sisimose:

it's an impression. they think the western women have this attitude, but it is not the case

you hit the nail on the head again! Sometimes i laugh when i see women going "white women wont take that nonsense from . . .". I've been there, white girls are by far way more tolerant than black girls. you can almost walk over them and all they'll do is cry and come crawling back to beg you.

There is the wrong misconception especially by girls living in western countries that the "independent, strong black woman" is one who is aggressive, shares housework 50-50 and wont take nonsense from her husband. Nothing could be farther from the truth. Guys dont want a female version of themselves, they want a softer version who can calm and soothe their nerves when things get crazy. Someone who can keep quiet when they go raving mad, not one who can say "idiot" faster than you can take one breath.

@Davidylan,
That's just preposterous,  I would NEVER take guys I have just met to meet my parents. Matter of fact, I won't dare ( they would be safer in the closet )

@Cute Ass, am against the various nose, tongue(bottom and top) and all other areas rings as well.


@All, I am learning a great deal, Now I know a lot about men and their interior
I think am better able to now choose from my list of eligible bachelors

Guys don't want a female version of themselves, they want a softer version who can calm and soothe their nerves when things get crazy. Someone who can keep quiet when they go raving mad, not one who can say "idiot" faster than you can take one breath.

YEP I CONCUR.
i tell you many nigerian girls will remain single for a very very long time with this same attitude, mouth as foul as kabira

davidylan:



it is these "frivolous" likes and dislikes that cause unecessary friction during the marriage. Those tiny things we fail to correct because we are soo in love that they "don't matter" until we are well into the marriage and the hot love has settled into a boring monotony. That's when you start noticing how that his earing irritates you and you don't like the way she dyes her hair.

his earrings,or the color of her hair, her belly ring should not matter from the get-go

remember nobody is perfect

davidylan:

that one na boyfriend. wait until you are married at least 2 years.

For the record his my husband

Real women don't go around with wristlets, that is meant for teenagers.

Wristlets are for teenagers Are you kidding me

Too bad that what i use because i don't like carry handbag, i feel it's too much work.

@David
So now I see, you prefer white girls to black because according to you they can handle "BULL SHIT" better than us?? .

Ok, well I guess I will find myself a white man, so that I can walk all over him and have him eating out of my hand

TattleTale:

am against the various nose, tongue(bottom and top) and all other areas rings as well.

I don't see nothing wrong with nose and belly ring but am really against tongue ring

@ loveboobs, you met your love at a party GOOD FOR YOU. bUT believe me, there's difference between a boyfriend and a husband. . I've not said there's something wrong with guys piercing their ears. I'm speaking for myself. Personally, i don't like it.

davidylan:

no way is she going anywhere but at some point those rings are going to go. If we are to have a future we both must be of one mind on certain issues.

Thats much better, BTW if you can't beat them, you join them. You might grow to be fond of it Anyways a pregnant lady is not allowed to carry the belly-ring for some resons so they got to go sooner or later

I hope you're ready to quit some too for your wifey . . don't think its only ladies that have issues to be put to "one mind"

Nooo!   I mean those tiny 12 yr old handbags that 25 yr old ladies cling to and think it looks sexy.

LOL . .much better there too. Hate ladies that go about in under-sizes too (clothes and bras), thinks it makes them look sexy

TattleTale:

@Cute Ass, am against the various nose, tongue(bottom and top) and all other areas rings as well.

Against??

Well there are some piercings i cannot stand, some i find irritating and annoying (not against though), but the nose and belly ones are OK. .  actually have both

Different strokes for different folks

davidylan:



There is the wrong misconception especially by girls living in western countries that the "independent, strong black woman" is one who is aggressive, shares housework 50-50 and wont take nonsense from her husband. Nothing could be farther from the truth. Guys don't want a female version of themselves, they want a softer version who can calm and soothe their nerves when things get crazy. Someone who can keep quiet when they go raving mad, not one who can say "idiot" faster than you can take one breath.

Speak for yourself david ;

You want a girl that will be your slave in other hands, that will kiss your ass. Too bad you won't find a African or Black women that will do or serve you like that. WE love to be Independent and Aggressive

I think it's a good thing you only date white girls since they are so easy to control