BRETHA:
One example out of millions sir. Marriage should not be based solely on virginity, but on character. I’m only encouraging modesty yet I don’t understand why I am being attacked left and right from women. My fellow women of this generation are truly corrupt and it’s sad.

Lalasticlala please put this on the front page for women to see. I want to encourage modesty in this generation.

generationz:
Op sorry to say ,its either you are man or the indoctrination you received after years of wantonness emanates from those overly religious circles.

I would have expected you to give more solid points other than marriage as the reason why ladies should close their legs

The consequences of premarital sex does more damages to a woman's body rather than a mans

Over use of birth control pills causes damage to the woman's system in the long run
Also if the woman gets pregnant out of wedlock she suffers the fullblown consequences. A man can choose to run away and come back 18 years later to claim his seed. Na she go dey carry babymama tag all over ( No offence to strong single mother's out there , but society is what it is and you must open your eyes not just your heart when giving your heart to someone)


If a lady wants to remain celebate or a virgin she should do it for herself and because of her values not because of a man. She might be gravely disappointed.

AmazonTopaz:
Op please lecture the men.
Women have been lectured since time immemorial.
Women should not only be the upholders of chastity and morality.
I hope this does not get to FP.

Mindfulness:


I don't know about you but s.ex does wonders to my body.
Besides, what kind of family planning method are people supposed to use, married or not?

generationz:


Uhhhmmm

male condoms

Withdrawal method

Vasectomy

Male contraceptives

A good legal system that protects and fights for the rights of single mothers against deadbeat dads.

zed7:
I expect people to criticize the message. They'll come at you for making sense. Sex is no big deal, it's your body. Life is more than marriage, don't please anyone. Pursue your goals and career, live freely and be happy etc.
It's funny how social media works. Only unwise people take what they read here seriously. Only unwise people will join the band wagon. In the real world, I see women who cook, take care of their kids and husbands etc. I've travelled widely and I see the same scenario from country to country, continent to continent. Who then are these liberal women who don't care about family life and respecting their spouse?
The so called feminists are either single or divorced. The married ones fall in line at home and preach feminism online. Young girls please don't be deceived by what you read online. Respect your bodies and hope for a decent family life because at the end, nothing truly matters than a loving family. It's all we've got.

Mindfulness:


Which male contraceptives?
How many men will undergo a vasectomy?

generationz:


You can google male contraceptives

You men want to enjoy the glories of sex but don't want to suffer anything.

How many men will see the issues continuous use of contraceptives does on a lady and tell reduce their demands for sex from their women.

Mindfulness:


Who told you that liberal women do not take care of their families and do not respect their spouses?
I have travelled wide and far yada yada yada. I know that the spirit of confusion can haunt one person when she begins to realize that there are no simple categories to put people inside.

Which is your other moniker?

zed7:


Get the fúck out. I don't banter with inferior beings. Other moniker indeed, is everyone as jobless as your likes to be creating monikers up and down? Ozuo...

Marvyx:
OP.. I'll advise you to save this advice for your daughters and ladies who will care to listen.

These ones here are something else. Perhaps they have made the same mistake you made because I don't understand the furious attacks. And they are even your fellow ladies.

And for the lady above asking when men would give their wives their virginity, I'll tell you to change your circle. So far you're in the circle of the normal, you'll keep getting the normal. You want something outside the normal? Get out of that circle and you'll see there are plenty of guys who still keep themselves. Cheers [b][/b]

JoannaSedley:
Epistles for ladies while boys are left to you wallow in filth.

zynzyn:


But do remember that it is the man who does the proposing!!

Can you propose marriage to a man?

cococandy:
It happens.
Had a girlfriend who got married at 21 still a virgin and one of the best human beings I know.

Her husband has wooed all her friends and slept with the entire town they live in.

They are separated now because he got so brazen to the point of telling her that she’s lucky he hasn’t gotten any of his conquests pregnant yet.

I can’t even begin to summarize my annoyance

chai... this is painful

zed7:
I expect people to criticize the message. They'll come at you for making sense. Sex is no big deal, it's your body. Life is more than marriage, don't please anyone. Pursue your goals and career, live freely and be happy etc.
It's funny how social media works. Only unwise people take what they read here seriously. Only unwise people will join the band wagon. In the real world, I see women who cook, take care of their kids and husbands etc. I've travelled widely and I see the same scenario from country to country, continent to continent. Who then are these liberal women who don't care about family life and respecting their spouse?
The so called feminists are either single or divorced. The married ones fall in line at home and preach feminism online. Young girls please don't be deceived by what you read online. Respect your bodies and hope for a decent family life because at the end, nothing truly matters than a loving family. It's all we've got.