hush15:


Yes.... even the bible acknowledges times and seasons and there is no better time to address it than the time the incidence happened.

Benekruku:



What name are we destroying here please? Explain please! Am not getting.

That she exposed being raped as a child? Do you have conscience at all?

The best thing she has done and has as at today giving millions of girls out there the courage to speak out. She is a rare gem and a role model.

With the way you talk, even if your wife was raped, she wont tell you cos she knows you will protect your fathers name above her.

Thats just one thing I can deduct from all your statement.

Fathers name!

Ladyhippolyta88:

You can go and report the woman nobody would stop you.
If you chose to be an idiot not everyone wants to be like you.
So bye bye. You have been posting crap since rape apologist.

Neddstark:


You are a perpetual idiota If you dont go live on facebook and talk about the bad things done to you like Timi's wife. Infact you're a scum if you dont. Weak soul. I get hit, i move on. You can masturbâte on it till you dive in the lagoon for all i care

internationalman:

I wouldn't even fvck you if you were the only girl left for me on this earth..

For you to be a rape target in most cases especially by pastors like these you have to be extremely beautiful and attractive..

Not an ugly looking girl like you displaying her picture hopefully to get one nairalander...

That picture will stay there forever and no one here will look your way..

imam07:
I just dey see now that this case get political under tone. Is like some powerful people don't want coxa church at Asokoro.They have said it before It is Christians they use against Christians hmmm make u continue you know yourself.

King44:
let's assume it is true he raped her, she has come out to her husband that should be enough to gradually set her on the part of being healed of the trauma, but taking it public that won't heal her , that is witch hunt at least seeing him behind bars would heal her,

Ladyhippolyta88:

Likewise

Benekruku:


You must be a rapist too

Are you saying she shouldnt have exposed the rapist.

So Fatoyinbo's name is not spoilt and its only the womans name that is spoilt? Hello! The lady is not losing anything! She is a brave and courageous woman. Many ladies are dying in silence and cant speak out. Many ladies are unstable mentally unstable that they even dont know.

Plolly:

See uncle uncle wey mumu who told u I'm searching. I'm not searching that's y I hardly comment on topics on nairaland. But when I see a comment like urs it's hard to ignore ur stupidity and mumuness buroda odè

freg2000:

Social media us the police station to report a case of rape that happened years before the guy married her. And now the husband family name is trending negatively.
Let them go to the police and report and get set with their evidences.
They should have concern for the future of the children in that marriage

Benekruku:


Are you kidding me!

Are you aware she has saved the next victim this rapist could have preyed on. Some things need to be said in the open to save humanity. This guy would just have been having been abusing several kids without their parents being suspicious.

You cant imagine what millions of people have learnt from her public outburst.

internationalman:
You are searching stop deceiving yourself
And you will not see here..

itu404:
me, too . shame on Timi Dakolo you are the head of your household you were not married when this happened allowing the case to come up now shows you are not in control as you ought. moreover, this thing , if it is true happened long ago why now. this is all our shame as christians and thanks to Timi and wife. if you are still hurting you ought to have sought a one to one audience and tell him you are still hurting, but you want to forgive so that the hurt will go away.. imagin still hurting over this after you married the best man in the world i expect you to forgive it is possible if you are indeed, filled with the Spirit of God. what i am seeing is unforgiveness and vindictiveness and these are not of God. Have you asked God to heal your hurt What do you want to gain from this is it to please God or to please yourself

Bizmagnet:
What if the man is innocent? A rapist (pastor) came to your house by 6.30A.M and you couldn't shout till he did it. He still had the gut to go downstairs to pick something and came back to the same you, yet you couldn't shout all through the period despite the fact that your sister was around in the same building. All through the years you couldn't call him out or sue him despite the fact that your family hasn't been poor. It's now you just woke up from your slumber and remembered someone raped you...you can now just shout! This is not a claim that the pastor is innocent but this "shout" is very suspicious. Now you're gathering vulnerabe people who were not there or living witnesses when the pastor performed the alleged act, and these hungry people will boldly protest and deride the MOG who may be innocent. The way people use wifi dey collect generational curses no be small.

Ladyhippolyta88:

I had no idea I was discussing with an He -diot . Now I do I would refrain from giving the nincompoop the attention he seeks.

internationalman:

I wouldn't even fvck you if you were the only girl left for me on this earth..

For you to be a rape target in most cases especially by pastors like these you have to be extremely beautiful and attractive..

Not an ugly looking girl like you displaying her picture hopefully to get one nairalander...

That picture will stay there forever and no one here will look your way..

bendike:

Even if all you say is true. She was bellow 18 and therefore a minor and not responsible for what ever happened. Under the law it is a criminal offense.

internationalman:

Metusalare why don't you lecture us

Ladyhippolyta88:

There is no perfect timing.
In 1999 I doubt if she would have been believed what about the other women who have accused this pastor immediately were they not still doubted.
If you have a good support system where you would not be judged you would speak out immediately if you don't you end up bottling pain and all that.
In Nigeria rape is trivalised rape victims are stigmatised, judged and all that even some comments prove to that effect.

Ladyhippolyta88:
This comment of yours is truly silly.
Try not to be insensitive it takes a brave and supportive man to do this.
If she is a victim of rape then you have no idea the trauma this woman must have pass through no need justifying nonsense.
Only an idiot would try to trivalise rape and it's victims.

itu404:
me, too . shame on Timi Dakolo you are the head of your household you were not married when this happened allowing the case to come up now shows you are not in control as you ought. moreover, this thing , if it is true happened long ago why now. this is all our shame as christians and thanks to Timi and wife. if you are still hurting you ought to have sought a one to one audience and tell him you are still hurting, but you want to forgive so that the hurt will go away.. imagin still hurting over this after you married the best man in the world i expect you to forgive it is possible if you are indeed, filled with the Spirit of God. what i am seeing is unforgiveness and vindictiveness and these are not of God. Have you asked God to heal your hurt What do you want to gain from this is it to please God or to please yourself

bendike:

Even if all you say is true. She was bellow 18 and therefore a minor and not responsible for what ever happened. Under the law it is a criminal offense.

hush15:


look, aint no judge. i feel sorry about what happened to her but she didnt say anything when it happened. Only God know what transpired between them because i know rape cases have intriguing story lines attached to them. There is always a trigger but i wont justify Fatoyinbos actions. neway, i hope she gets her justice and she can be at peace with herself and get over it. for me, it still doesnt make sense.