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Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by Graduateacher(f): 8:52am On Jul 03, 2019 |
chris81964: Correct sence! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by grandstar(m): 8:55am On Jul 03, 2019 |
Deepfeel: You can't super impose yourself on your daughter's family. She needs to understand that. If tomorrow her son-in-law commits adultery because of her or it even leads to the ruin of the marriage, she's bound to feel bad about it. People will blame her. She needs to realise that the success of her daughter's marriage is sacred. Anything, just about anything that may ruin it should be avoided. Her mother should tell her daughter that she's grateful for visiting and staying with them. However, she's very uncomfortable with the loud moaning and creaking bed noise associated. She can go on and ask if they can be quieter. She even says it's best she goes back to the village as she does not want to intrude, that she's just a visitor. If her daughter puts it to the husband this way, I'm sure he'll see sense. Even the MIL can approach her son-in-law in this manner and I'm sure he'll understand. Married couples don't like their respective in-laws imposing themselves on them. Their immediately in a combative mood no matter the intention. Gray hair is loaded with wisdom. Cunning man dies, cunning man bury am 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by Katier00(f): 8:57am On Jul 03, 2019 |
ecclize:don't you like it? |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by Deepfeel(m): 8:58am On Jul 03, 2019 |
sexy74:Just cause it's your house doesn't mean your guest should be uncomfortable in it, People do all they can to make their guest feel at home in their house, you see people preparing specail meals they don't usually prepare just to please their guest you see people changing old stuff around the house replacing them with new once just to make their guest comfortable , so it's Simon's responsibility to make his guest feel comfortable in his home |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by Katier00(f): 8:59am On Jul 03, 2019 |
hopexter:for two month? Thank God my mom get shame. Highest na 3 weeks with abeg o |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by Abdhool(m): 9:11am On Jul 03, 2019 |
Never confront ur MIL bro, tell ur wife the likely consequence of her action and stay mute on request for sex, I bet u...she go dey beg u ni. Check my signature |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by Deepfeel(m): 9:13am On Jul 03, 2019 |
grandstar:The old lady is not stopping them from having sex but she feels disrespected for them to have loud noisy sex knowing fully well she's in the next room hearing the noise not like they are not aware they no but just don't care that disrespect, How about that baba on another thread on nairaland that pulled his son in-law away from his daughter when he was trying to remove his wife's pants on the dance floor in front of everyone? You will say that baba has no right to do that cause his daughter is married now? |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by DedeNkem: 9:21am On Jul 03, 2019 |
miltonchux: That is your home. Nobody, except your wife, has any right to dictate what happens in your home! But I really understand how irritating it would be for your mother-in-law to hear her daughter having sex. So she has right to complain. To resolve this, do one of these; 1. You can spend weekends with your wife in a hotel. 2. You can send your mother-in-law out to shop whenever you want to have a private moment with your wife. 3. If your wife can control her moaning during sex, then you can simply repair your bed noise. Things you must not do; 1. Kick her out of your house. 2. Scold her. 3. Continue having loud sex. Trust me, you don't want your mother-in-law to hate you! |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by Creativity007: 9:24am On Jul 03, 2019 |
sorry o, are they living in self contain ? |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by BitmapStudios: 9:30am On Jul 03, 2019 |
happney65:Baba werey ni yin sir. Stand alone in life bawo? |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by ifyemma123: 9:31am On Jul 03, 2019 |
Oga hotel don finish to pay for u and ur wife to kpamsh abi....no go cheat on your wife with ashawo ooh.....and no hala your mother in-law bcus of future respect... |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by LegitDiva: 9:42am On Jul 03, 2019 |
miltonchux: You should be more worried about your kids walking in on you!!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by selemo: 9:45am On Jul 03, 2019 |
raphroye:Fact!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by Nobody: 9:47am On Jul 03, 2019 |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by guru03(m): 9:51am On Jul 03, 2019 |
EncourageMe: Seriously. Then he isn't fit to marry. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by Mindlesskid: 9:57am On Jul 03, 2019 |
duduade: Irritate ni irritate kor... Something wey she never do before. |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by tofolo(m): 10:11am On Jul 03, 2019 |
chris81964:Bhadt guy...... |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by xtremeTall(m): 10:26am On Jul 03, 2019 |
Callertunez:lol |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by hopexter(m): 10:40am On Jul 03, 2019 |
Katier00: Even if. Two months is too early to start love making. She just put to bed. |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by castro316: 10:45am On Jul 03, 2019 |
ngwababe: If you are wise your mumsy should be the one to leave your house...that is if he is trying to put what God has joined together asunder. No man should come between you and your wife |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by Zeusc(m): 10:56am On Jul 03, 2019 |
marital sabotage |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by mixratio(m): 11:13am On Jul 03, 2019 |
I have two words of advice for you after that nothing else. 1. put your mattress on the floor whenever you want to commence "operation". 2. play music at a reduced level, just enough to cover the sound of your wife. dazzall. |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by Katier00(f): 11:14am On Jul 03, 2019 |
hopexter:aha, after 6 weeks, they should game on. Me sef na 4weeks |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by CeeManCollins(m): 11:22am On Jul 03, 2019 |
Find away around it cos you two can’t stay two months without sex because of MIL else your wife will go out give it to the guy who’s been asking for it then come home to you to still preach what the mom wants. So I advice you put the mattress on the floor then fold the bed and take it to the store, secondly for her moaning buy a sound system that will be louder than her voice. With these your sexual lives will remain intact, also remember that your MIL is sounding the warning now because she doesn’t want to commit taboo, if her daughter is moaning and arouses the mother who will satisfy her? You. |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by wwwkaycom(m): 11:33am On Jul 03, 2019 |
send her mother back asap |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by grandstar(m): 11:37am On Jul 03, 2019 |
Deepfeel: That is crossing the line by the son-in-law but a couple making love in their own room, is a right they have. If tomorrow the man starts cheating during the 2 months sex ban "imposed" by mother-in-law, everyone will blame the MIL, even her own daughter. The MIL should respectfully convey her feelings about the load moaning to her daughter who in turn should do so to her husband. The wife can tell her husband: "My mum complained about the noise level of our love making. She says it's our business that she doesn't want to intrude. I can tell from her countenance that she isn't happy and she plans to shorten her visit. What do you think we can do?" The bible says "the two shall become one". That means your spouse is even above your parent in the marriage arrangement. The inlaws must be respected and that respect comes with them too respecting the sanctity of the marriage arrangement 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by Sambab(m): 11:49am On Jul 03, 2019 |
Call her mother and report her daughter to her...her mum would tell her the truth implication to this, if incase you impregnate an oloso outside your marriage. Case close.... Next..............!!! |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by Deepfeel(m): 11:59am On Jul 03, 2019 |
grandstar:The mother didn't ban them from having sex rather she feels not regarded, knowing fully well that she's there in the next room but they are having noisy sex bagging noisy bed without putting into consideration that an elderly mother is in the next room disturbed by the noise if mama's room was far from their room she won't compliain , it's the daughter that ban sex in oder not to give her mom sleepless night, see this thing it's all about maturity and understand that bed and that room is not the only place they must have sex in |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by grandstar(m): 12:08pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
Deepfeel: It is probably the way the OP stated it. |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by Pat081: 12:26pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
Sluacoast:Why will mother in law stay with her daughter for 2 months sir? ??what of her own husband ?d woman should let them b |
Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by 1miccza: 12:32pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
chris81964: Simple and short!!!! |
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