A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!!

Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.

imagine! na to quietly pack his belonging and leave her, dash her everything including the bride price. She is not sorry for her actions.

She can kill the man, the man should do DNA for his children. The woman is very silly.

Bola146:
He can kill the man, the man should do DNA for his children. The woman is very silly.

Why you dey confuse me na?!
Go and sleep please.

Bola146:


I guess you are the man don't pass your aggression here, face your wahala

You for no modify the post na, Odingua

He should give himself sense asap. He knows what to do and he should do it.

Optimistguy1969:

Why you dey confuse me na?!
Go and sleep please

I guess you are the man don't pass your aggression here, face your wahala

If na me, I go send her away, make she pack all her belongings go her village and I will look out for a better someone daughter to marry....


Send that wh*re away


Life too short than to be sad on little things..

Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!! Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.

Why exactly should the woman be respectful to the man though?

Since the woman has decided not to tangle, wetin be your own with the man and the wife? Why not allow them tackle the situation by themselves?

He should check himself and find out where He Is lacking .Also focus on the kids.Theres a movie called warroom about marital issues which He sould watch.Hygiene too.

It rains everywhere.

Seems the wife is tired of the man inability to satisfy her. Its painful, The man should work on himself in all area.

If this is true, then let him know that Marriage is no longer a do or die affairs.. They said if you see a bird dancing along the road, the drummer is not very far... whoever that is beating the drum your friend's wife is dancing is not very far...

That man should play the irreconcilable differences card already..( He can file for a divorce on ground of infidelity).. Since he has done everything to please her and nothing was happening...

Even if he starts studying all the Kamasutra sex positions, or travel to India to study it, it might not change anything...

I'm just wondering why he was begging and wasn't finding her repulsive.. anyways wetin I know self ...

Ulunne777:
He should ignore her and focus on the kids.

It rains everywhere

You mean like, every woman in Nigeria cheats? I thought it was 6 out of 10 women

yuping:
Seems the wife is tired of the man inability to satisfy her. Its paindul, The man should work on himself in all area.

Great advice!

yuping:
Seems the wife is tired of the man inability to satisfy her. Its paindul, The man should work on himself in all area.

If some of you were to be judges...I will put my chaplet on pure water and pray never to appear 100m close to the court room where you guys were preceding.. jzzz!!!!

socialmediaman:


You mean like, every woman in Nigeria cheats? I thought it was 6 out of 10 women

Is that the statistics for Nigerian men?

Ulunne777:


Is that the statistics for Nigerian men?

No. Nigerian women are the most unfaithful wives in the world. 62% of them, meaning 6 out of every 10. So by “it rains everywhere” do you mean that it’s not 62% but 100% of them?

http://www.citypeopleonline.com/nigerian-women-ranked-worlds-unfaithful-women-report/

https://www.channelstv.com/2012/07/16/nigerian-women-are-most-unfaithful-in-the-world-durex/

The only ground for divorce I recognise is sexual immorality. You can divorce your wife if you can't live with it, sire.

Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!! Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.

They are not compatible sexually....it's time to end it

I'm sure that man doesn't have enough to give his wife, not just money.
Leave the woman for good, she will later regret her action.
Some women no deserve love at all.

Bola146:
She can kill the man, the man should do DNA for his children. The woman is very silly.

yinmu

Mad oooooooo

socialmediaman:


No. Nigerian women are the most unfaithful wives in the world. 62% of them, meaning 6 out of every 10. So by “it rains everywhere” do you mean that it’s not 62% but 100% of them?

http://www.citypeopleonline.com/nigerian-women-ranked-worlds-unfaithful-women-report/

https://www.channelstv.com/2012/07/16/nigerian-women-are-most-unfaithful-in-the-world-durex/

and they are unfaithful with themselves?

Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!! Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.

Let me not talk what i will do if am the guy. Cos it aint gonna be pleasant.

Richy4:

If some of you were to be judges...I will put my chaplet on pure water and pray never to appear 100m close to the court room where you guys were preceding.. jzzz!!!!

I never judge both parties involved.

send her back to her parents.

then, go for complete medical process to improve your sexual performance

You marry a virgin problem, you marry a non virgin problem.. na wa. OP your peace of mind is important pls separate from that woman ASAP

Lemme guess...

After sleeping around and getting erectile dysfunction, oga looked for a fagin because sHe wIlL nOt bE aBlE tO tElL tHe dIfFeReNce. Okwaya?
That's why he is forming gentleman and looking for advice, when we all know what a normal Nigerian man would do in such situations.

See how my gender is looking elsewhere for virile kini because she carried her tear-rubber self and join with brostitute that have spent all his energy on other women. Kai, I cannot imagine all the pains she went through just to see one in this buhari era. Poor woman.

Hopefully, others will learn to leave brostitutes for their female counterparts.

Richy4:

If some of you were to be judges...I will put my chaplet on pure water and pray never to appear 100m close to the court room where you guys were preceding.. jzzz!!!!

As in eh!!!!!
Likeeeee....
A married woman cheated on her husband and all that human being can say is that "the man should work on himself"!?

As for what I would do...
It's a straight divorce and of course I'll effect the terms of our prenup asap...

Rinoxy:
A friend married his wife as a virgin and has remained faithful to her. He suspected her of infidelity and confronted her, to his surprise she said 'yes I slept with another man since you can't satisfy me'. Imagine the audacity!!!! Note that this man has tried all he could to be better but she never cooperated with him. She's not remorseful and has been more disrespectful to him since the incident. Mature advice please as his sanity is paramount at the moment.

That woman has already left the marriage. Better the leaves fully.

Damn

Hmm, Matthew 5:32 (KJV) But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery. So she is good to go.