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Can Verbal Abuse From A Spouse Assume Right For Any Reason? by Nobody: 9:40am On Jul 04, 2019
I need urgent answer to know how to handle an issue now.
Re: Can Verbal Abuse From A Spouse Assume Right For Any Reason? by Nobody: 9:53am On Jul 04, 2019
Na dem
Re: Can Verbal Abuse From A Spouse Assume Right For Any Reason? by Nobody: 10:09am On Jul 04, 2019
Theglobalman:
Na dem

Meaning what?
Re: Can Verbal Abuse From A Spouse Assume Right For Any Reason? by LordKO(m): 10:38am On Jul 04, 2019
Is it palatable? No. Is it inevitable? Yes. Citing these answers, whether it's justifiable or not shouldn't be your concern at this material time, because reaction is always a product of something - no form of abuse is good or justifiable. You should be looking towards avoidance. Maybe you can tell us in detail what happened.

Personally, it's inevitable if I have a close relationship with a contriver - opinionated people, just like parasitic people, and contrive are inseparable, because they gain their energy and resources from being expedient. Only a parasitic person can rival an unconquered opinionated person (self-conquest is important) in draining energy from any sane person around him/her, either in the short or long run - unreliability will always remain their hallmark.

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Re: Can Verbal Abuse From A Spouse Assume Right For Any Reason? by Nobody: 11:03am On Jul 04, 2019
LordKO:
Is it palatable? No. Is it inevitable? Yes. Citing these answers, whether it's justifiable or not shouldn't be your concern at this material time, because reaction is always a product of something - no form of abuse is good or justifiable. You should be looking towards avoidance. Maybe you can tell us in detail what happened.

Personally, it's inevitable if I have a close relationship with a contriver - opinionated people and contrive are inseparable, because they gain their energy from being expedient. Only a parasitic person can rival an unconquered (self-conquered) opinionated person in draining energy from any sane person around him/her, either in the short or long run - unreliability will always remain their hallmark.

lol, i will try avoidance as you said. thanks
Re: Can Verbal Abuse From A Spouse Assume Right For Any Reason? by marriage1: 11:28am On Jul 04, 2019
SEVEN KEYS TO HAPPY MARRIAGE.
Verbal abuse is dangerous as domestic violence.
Loving couples should do anything to avoid verbal abuse in their marriage relationship.
Verbal abuse has so many negative effects in the life of the children which includes;
Disrespect to the parents when the child is being given instruction.

The same way you abuse your spouse, that is the same your children will talk to someone
else in and outside the home.
Find out more one how to deal with marriage relationship challenges.
https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2019/06/seven-keys-to-happy-marriage.html
Re: Can Verbal Abuse From A Spouse Assume Right For Any Reason? by Nobody: 1:01pm On Jul 04, 2019
PrincessNZ:


Meaning what?

No vex.
Re: Can Verbal Abuse From A Spouse Assume Right For Any Reason? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Jul 04, 2019
Theglobalman:


No vex.

OK
Re: Can Verbal Abuse From A Spouse Assume Right For Any Reason? by bukatyne(f): 4:12pm On Jul 04, 2019
PrincessNZ:
I need urgent answer to know how to handle an issue now.

What we sometimes call verbal abuse is an angry reaction to one's actions.

Tell us what really transpired to be of any help.
Re: Can Verbal Abuse From A Spouse Assume Right For Any Reason? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Jul 04, 2019
bukatyne:


What we sometimes call verbal abuse is an angry reaction to one's actions.

Tell us what really transpired to be of any help.

Thank you. From Lordko's comment I have been able to see the cause of the problem between me and my partner so I will try and adjust.
Re: Can Verbal Abuse From A Spouse Assume Right For Any Reason? by Truthsbitter: 4:44pm On Jul 04, 2019
grin grin
Yes!!!
Right, done by a woman ...

Wrong, done by a man...

sefini...
Re: Can Verbal Abuse From A Spouse Assume Right For Any Reason? by Nobody: 5:12pm On Jul 04, 2019
Truthsbitter:
grin grin
Yes!!!
Right, done by a woman ...

Wrong, done by a man...

sefini...

Sarcasm of a misogynist, lol

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Re: Can Verbal Abuse From A Spouse Assume Right For Any Reason? by Truthsbitter: 5:24pm On Jul 04, 2019
PrincessNZ:


Sarcasm of a misogynist, lol
Sorry princess I love my kind of women...and they are not lower to me....they are my friends and not bitter (verbally) abusive women. grin

ok. seriously verbal abuse is just as bad as physical abuse but when one makes reasonable and gentle scolding it's a good way to correct, criticize and complain and not abusive
Re: Can Verbal Abuse From A Spouse Assume Right For Any Reason? by Fountainofyouth(f): 7:59pm On Jul 04, 2019
Verbal abuse is a no no, control your anger and be slow to speak when provoked.

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Re: Can Verbal Abuse From A Spouse Assume Right For Any Reason? by kunleweb: 9:21pm On Nov 04, 2019
PrincessNZ:
I need urgent answer to know how to handle an issue now.
.hmm

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