MY RELATIVE SAID THAT FOR TEN MONTHS NOW HE HAS NOT SLEPT WITH HIS WIFE.ACTUALLY THE WIFE IS SEVEN MONTHS PREGNANT NOW AND HAD A MISCARRIAGE INITIALLY . THEY ALREADY HAVE A YEAR OLD SON. SHOULD DIS BE OUT OF FEAR , WICKEDNESS OR WHAT?. THIS ISSUE HAS BEEN BOTHERING ME PERSONALLY CUZ I AM THINKING OF GETTING MARRIED. CAN THESE EXIST IN MARRIAGE AND HOW DO U HANDLE SUCH SITUATION? AND NOTE THE THE MAN IN QUESTION HAS EVEN SWORE THAT HE HAS NOT MET ANOTHER WOMAN SINCE. HOUSE DEBATE ON THIS.

dd

notin wrong
constant poking may lead to miscarriage

lol, real real hard one

okenwa:

notin wrong
constant poking may lead to miscarriage

You are wrong.

Let the woman heal, SHE IS GRIEVING, some people take long to heal and if he really love her he will respect her wishes to BE LEFT ALONE sexually, SHE JUST HAD A fuggin miscarriage!

evantical:

MY RELATIVE  SAID THAT FOR TEN MONTHS NOW HE HAS NOT SLEPT WITH  HIS WIFE.ACTUALLY THE WIFE IS SEVEN MONTHS PREGNANT  NOW

wait o, how can his wife be 7 months pregnant and he hasn't slept with her for 10 months?   abi na IVF pregnancy?

She should be ready cos when he gets ready,
She maybe knocked up so bad she gives birth to twins

;d ;d ;d ;d

sometimes people take their marriage vows for granted- it is for better for worse! if u want to start having sex with ur wife again try to talk to her like when you guys started dating be attentive and romantic and don't let her feel that you are only doing it to get down and dirty (even though you are)

It is because the man don't take Opa-eyin and Sepe once in a while,if he takesthis things once, he will Bleep his wife for 3 consecutive days

@ Bella87
The one wey I hear be say sperm fit stay for three days but he be like say our man own dey stay three months before dem die off.

All dis fake stories for nairaland sef

maybe na superman sperm, the thing arrange food for bag before he start the 3 months journey   

Bella87:

wait o, how can his wife be 7 months pregnant and he hasn't slept with her for 10 months?   abi na IVF pregnancy?

apocalypse:

@ Bella87
The one wey I hear be say spermatozoa fit stay for three days but he be like say our man own dey stay three months before dem die off.
All dis fake stories for nairaland sef

Bella87:

maybe na superman spermatozoa, the thing arrange food for bag before he start the 3 months journey   

i think what this bobo meant to say was that she was pregnant for 7months and had a miscarriage 3months ago and during all that time they didnt have se-x.

Oh well, he shd have been more articulate about that. I was wondering myself too!

yes uju, u r right, he should have been more specific and make us understand, i was wondering as well how possible, if she just had a miscarriage then he should be more patient, understanding and more loving than ever cause its a trying period for her emotionally

Osama10:

You are wrong.

Why do you say he is wrong. He has already pointed out that she has a history of miscarriage. If this is a high risk pregnancy depending on the nature of the risk sex can be completely out of the question. Some women are not even allowed to stand upright at a point in their marriage.

Poster I am a bit confused. You said she is 7 months pregnant now? Or did you mean to say she WAS pregnant for 7 months then had a miscarriage? If that is the case then her husband needs to stop thinking about himself and understand that this is a strain on her emotionally. She needs time to heal both physically and mentally. JEEZ some men!