1. They like to settle down with decent women if possible virgins but still cheat on her with slay queens.(haba oga mi)

2. They want their wives to have kids(2 3 4 5 6 kids or even more) but want her belly to be flat and with no stretch marks. (Iffa hear)

3. They don't want their wife to work but get upset when she depends on them for everything. (Ok o)

4. They want their wives to breastfeed their babies atimes even when the woman is exhausted. Some reject the idea of formular in totality but they don't want to see saggy boobs. (U do well sir)

5. They want their wives to be contributing towards the bills and buy them nice surprise gifts but want her to be at home n take care of the home like a housewife. (I'm only one person o)

6. They want their wives to dress decently but chase after their neighbor who wears skimpy dresses. (Iffa catch u eh)

7. They like to have a praying wife but hardly take the lead in family prayers.(encourage us na please )

8. They praise their wives for forgiving them when they are caught cheating but heaven is let loose if reverse was the case. (You see your life?)

9. Men want transparency over how the wife spends her money who she calls etc, but transparency jumps out of the window when its time for them to do same. (This is hypocrisy na oga)

10. They don't want their wives to keep single friends but their own best friend might be a single guy. ( why na?)

11. They abuse their wives emotionally, financially, some even physically but you dare not try same with their sisters. Some go as far as beating up their inlaw for daring such on their sister. (U better lead by example next time)


12. They praise their wives for being able to manage the little allowances they give them but sponsor lavish lifestyles of their side chicks. (This one weak me finish)

Some sha...

AntiBrutus:
Some sha...

Yet men are the ones that complain that women are difficult to understand

1. They like to settle down with decent women if possible virgins but still cheat on her with slay queens.

Stop giving non-virgin hoes hope with this rubbish.


They are useless,wayward and disgrace to humanity.

Lol so true. God bless all the men that worships and adore their women. Their reward is on earth and greater in heaven

donstan18:

Stop giving non-virgin hoes hope with this rubbish.


They are useless,wayward and disgrace to humanity.

Lol the day men would take this advice, we'll stop having slay queens


What do men really want?

Kamani8:

Lol the day men would take this advice, we'll stop having slay queens

Cheating married men don't have the luxury of time to pursue difficult decent women like their wives. It took them months and years to get their wives to say YES.

Sleeping around got nothing to do with the way slay queens dress rather, it is an issue of availability and affordability.

Besides, they don't like the thought of sleeping with decent women like their wives. There is a level of satisfaction and security they derive from sleeping with anything that doesn't look like their wives.

Acidosis:



Cheating married men don't have the luxury of time to pursue difficult decent women like their wives. It took them months and years to get their wives to say YES.

Sleeping around got nothing to do with the way slay queens dress rather, it is an issue of availability and affordability.

Besides, they don't like the thought of sleeping with decent women like their wives. There is a level of satisfaction and security they derive from sleeping with anything that doesn't look like their wives.

While your point addresses the comment you quoted, You still somehow supported the whole point of the op

Why cheating on the decent woman na? And she'll be running from one pastor to another for prayers, the sleepless nights etc. And worse still, What if he brings home STDs?

Kamani8:


While your point addresses the comment you quoted, You still somehow supported the op

Why cheating on the decent woman na? And she'll be running from one pastor to another for prayers, the sleepless night's etc. And worse still, What if he brings home STDs?

I've only addressed the reasons married men go after slay queens.

Kamani8:
1. They like to settle down with decent women if possible virgins but still cheat on her with slay queens.(haba oga mi)

2. They want their wives to have kids(2 3 4 5 6 kids or even more) but want her belly to be flat and with no stretch marks. (Iffa hear)

3. They don't want their wife to work but get upset when she depends on them for everything. (Ok o)

4. They want their wives to breastfeed their babies atimes even when the woman is exhausted. Some reject the idea of formular in totality but they don't want to see saggy boobs. (U do well sir)

5. They want their wives to be contributing towards the bills and buy them nice surprise gifts but want her to be at home n take care of the home like a housewife. (I'm only one person o)

6. They want their wives to dress decently but chase after their neighbor who wears skimpy dresses. (Iffa catch u eh)

7. They like to have a praying wife but hardly take the lead in family prayers.(encourage us na please )

8. They praise their wives for forgiving them when they are caught cheating but heaven is let loose if reverse was the case. (You see your life?)

9. Men want transparency over how the wife spends her money who she calls etc, but transparency jumps out of the window when its time for them to do same. (This is hypocrisy na oga)

10. They don't want their wives to keep single friends but their own best friend might be a single guy. ( why na?)

11. They abuse their wives emotionally, financially, some even physically but you dare not try same with their sisters. Some go as far as beating up their inlaw for daring such on their sister. (U better lead by example next time)


12. They praise their wives for being able to manage the little allowances they give them but sponsor lavish lifestyles of their side chicks. (This one weak me finish)

A human would dish what you allow them to.

bukatyne:


A human would dish what you allow them to.

True but societal influence cannot be played down

Ok

Acidosis:


I've only addressed the reasons married men go after slay queens.

Yea. Understood

So true

true talk

So true. Thank God the narrative is changing. It's no longer what it used to be.

Most men with calabash tummy will want their girlfriends/wives to have flat belly. Why should I marry your calabash tummy with my flat tummy?

And truth be told, I don't think we still have men who doesn't want their wives to work. Or am I living in a different world?

Even God himself doesn't understand the women he created.

Op, you know sha?

Women complex die!

Is today world marriage day? This one that front page is full of marriage matter en..

Expecting counter thread.

Okay

Until i marry. I will find out

Kamani8:
1. They like to settle down with decent women if possible virgins but still cheat on her with slay queens.(haba oga mi)

2. They want their wives to have kids(2 3 4 5 6 kids or even more) but want her belly to be flat and with no stretch marks. (Iffa hear)

3. They don't want their wife to work but get upset when she depends on them for everything. (Ok o)

4. They want their wives to breastfeed their babies atimes even when the woman is exhausted. Some reject the idea of formular in totality but they don't want to see saggy boobs. (U do well sir)

5. They want their wives to be contributing towards the bills and buy them nice surprise gifts but want her to be at home n take care of the home like a housewife. (I'm only one person o)

6. They want their wives to dress decently but chase after their neighbor who wears skimpy dresses. (Iffa catch u eh)

7. They like to have a praying wife but hardly take the lead in family prayers.(encourage us na please )

8. They praise their wives for forgiving them when they are caught cheating but heaven is let loose if reverse was the case. (You see your life?)

9. Men want transparency over how the wife spends her money who she calls etc, but transparency jumps out of the window when its time for them to do same. (This is hypocrisy na oga)

10. They don't want their wives to keep single friends but their own best friend might be a single guy. ( why na?)

11. They abuse their wives emotionally, financially, some even physically but you dare not try same with their sisters. Some go as far as beating up their inlaw for daring such on their sister. (U better lead by example next time)


12. They praise their wives for being able to manage the little allowances they give them but sponsor lavish lifestyles of their side chicks. (This one weak me finish)

That's men for you.
So many unhappy married women these days .

Not encouraging one bit !

Kamani8:
1. They like to settle down with decent women if possible virgins but still cheat on her with slay queens.(haba oga mi)

2. They want their wives to have kids(2 3 4 5 6 kids or even more) but want her belly to be flat and with no stretch marks. (Iffa hear)

3. They don't want their wife to work but get upset when she depends on them for everything. (Ok o)

4. They want their wives to breastfeed their babies atimes even when the woman is exhausted. Some reject the idea of formular in totality but they don't want to see saggy boobs. (U do well sir)

5. They want their wives to be contributing towards the bills and buy them nice surprise gifts but want her to be at home n take care of the home like a housewife. (I'm only one person o)

6. They want their wives to dress decently but chase after their neighbor who wears skimpy dresses. (Iffa catch u eh)

7. They like to have a praying wife but hardly take the lead in family prayers.(encourage us na please )

8. They praise their wives for forgiving them when they are caught cheating but heaven is let loose if reverse was the case. (You see your life?)

9. Men want transparency over how the wife spends her money who she calls etc, but transparency jumps out of the window when its time for them to do same. (This is hypocrisy na oga)

10. They don't want their wives to keep single friends but their own best friend might be a single guy. ( why na?)

11. They abuse their wives emotionally, financially, some even physically but you dare not try same with their sisters. Some go as far as beating up their inlaw for daring such on their sister. (U better lead by example next time)


12. They praise their wives for being able to manage the little allowances they give them but sponsor lavish lifestyles of their side chicks. (This one weak me finish)

which one con be all these ajasa you put in bracket?
he no make sense jare

Spot on!

this one no join jare .. not all Nigerian men are like what you mentioned, infact only very few behave this way..

this is why Nigerian Men are hot commodity in the International Husband Market, with Akatas , Oyinbos and South Xenophobia women chasing us


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Brb.. Let me read jt