if your friend male or female has the qualities u will want from your wife or husband. Will u speak up and marry him/her or will u just b burning with love inside and watch hium/her being frustrated by the ones they r going  after.

I'll take number one.

myname:

if your friend male or female has the qualities u will want from your wife or husband. Will u speak up and marry him/her or will u just b burning with love inside and watch hium/her being frustrated by the ones they r going after.

It depends on if it's mutual. I'll take number one if it is, and if it's not, I'll try hinting. If he just doesn't feel me as well, I'll move back to Pluto and let my feelings subside and hope that while I'm gone, he'll get a girlfriend.

i will speak up o jare. mouth dey pain me?

@myname, thank you for posting this thread.

I have found myself in this situation and at the end of the day I lost the lady. She later confided in me that she wasnt happy in her marriage and wondered if only I had proposed to her. I couldnt bring myself to tell her that I felt the same.

Given another chance, I wouldnt miss it.

It's good to propose if you are really sure that person has the qualities you desire.
We add to our problems sometimes because we choose to die in silence.
Though, it may be quite difficult for the women because they usually think the guy should make the first move.
I believe if you both understand each other very well, none will be seen as being cheap or something.
I strongly believe that people should get to that stage where they can go for what they want without fear
At least, I guess there should be no crime in making your feelings known
I must confess that sometimes you're so close to a person that you feel there will be no need for it

@ Ramono
Sorry about your experience
I can imagine how hard you'll find it to forgive yourself
But cheer up bro, God knows the best

Has anyone done a thread on WHAT IS LOVE? Seun, pliz help!!! All these threads on burning love, which is in fact infatuation, obsession or something sillier like desperation or plain boredom. Please lets educate ourselves on LOVE!!!

If u feel like u are both compatable and the relationship looks promising then i say u need to go for it!!

Life's too short for regrets, cos u could later find Ur self on some coulda-shoulda-woulda rants later!!