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Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by ochibuogwu5: 12:56am On Dec 23, 2019
If you are born of the Holy Spirit whereby your *flesh has been crucified together with the flesh of Jesus Christ on the tree of Calvary* before or after Christian marriage; the Holy Spirit will teach you clearly that condoms or any form of contraceptives, withdrawal-methods, masturbation, pornography, anal-sex, oral-sex, manual-sex/fingering, sex-toys, party, adultery, lesbianism, homosexuality, public sexual intercourse, accepting that your spouse should go outside your marriage-bed and have sexual intercourse for any reason 'at-all' are within what defiles the Christian matrimonial bed according to Hebrews 13:4.
The sexual fluid of a man or woman is *LIFE/SACRED* hence should not be released outside the body of the couple except for *menstrual flow or wet dream* which is natural(not induced/forced by your actions/inactions) unless where it becomes *irregular*

Natural birth control which entails knowing and using your *fertile-days* within your cycle according to billings method and early morning temperature method is USED FOR CHILD FAMILY SPACING which is very cheap and effective.

Self-control which is one of the free fruits of the Holy Spirit flows consciously and unconsciously through couples who have died to the flesh with Jesus Christ Crucified with regards to sexual emotions when either couple is sick, tired, just-gave-birth, had a CS, e.t.c.

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Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by Ladylite: 1:01am On Dec 23, 2019
Am not even sure this is truth, jesusjnr we need your explanation o
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by lebron7(m): 1:14am On Dec 23, 2019
Oh no!! angry
Dipper life pastors have joined nairaland
They are known for having a lot of children, poverty and senselessness
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by ochibuogwu5: 1:26am On Dec 23, 2019
What is born of the flesh will produce fruits of the flesh (Gal.5:22-23)
What is born of the Holy Spirit will produce the fruits of the Spirit (Gal.5:19-21)
John 3:6.
You cannot serve the flesh and the Holy Spirit in one mortal-body.
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by mumumugu(m): 1:39am On Dec 23, 2019
story for the gods
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by Adedaniel211(m): 7:38am On Dec 23, 2019
Nobody holy pass.
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by RiyaGoddess(f): 7:45am On Dec 23, 2019
Married Christian couples engaging in different sex styles and positions is not a sin except when it becomes abnormal. During marriage classes in church (I don't know of other churches but in my church) sex styles, sex positions, intimate body parts, love languages etc, are being discussed and you will learn to understand what's a Sin or not. They talk about what is normal and abnormal.

The use of Condoms, withdrawal method, Contraceptives (Child spacing / family planning) fingering the female genitals, among Christian Couples is not a Sin! Don't come and confuse people here.

Anal sex, MouthAction, masturbation, homosexuality, lesbianism is a Sin and it is abnormal. That is not God's original way of having sex.

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Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by ochibuogwu5: 8:23am On Dec 23, 2019
RiyaGoddess:
Married Christian couples engaging in different sex styles and positions is not a sin except when it becomes abnormal. During marriage classes in church (I don't know of other churches but in my church) sex styles, sex positions, intimate body parts, love languages etc, are being discussed and you will learn to understand what's a Sin or not. They talk about what is normal and abnormal.

The use of Condoms, withdrawal method, Contraceptives (Child spacing / family planning) fingering the female genitals, among Christian Couples is not a Sin! Don't come and confuse people here.

Anal sex, MouthAction, masturbation, homosexuality, lesbianism is a Sin and it is abnormal. That is not God's original way of having sex.





Witnessing with the new life/flesh of Jesus Christ Crucified after you have experienced death of your flesh together with the flesh of the Crucified Jesus Christ is not just about what *you were taught* that you cannot defend when questions come from another dimension in which your teacher did not expose you to but *having encounter with Jesus Christ Crucified personally* such that you can *witness to what you have seen, heard, touched, handled e.t.c. which is *Word of Life* (1 John 1:1-2)
Great Grace Brethren!!!

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Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by Nobody: 8:26am On Dec 23, 2019
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Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by RiyaGoddess(f): 8:55am On Dec 23, 2019
ochibuogwu5:


Witnessing with the new life/flesh of Jesus Christ Crucified after you have experienced death of your flesh together with the flesh of the Crucified Jesus Christ is not just about what *you were taught* that you cannot defend when questions come from another dimension in which your teacher did not expose you to but *having encounter with Jesus Christ Crucified personally* such that you can *witness to what you have seen, heard, touched, handled e.t.c. which is *Word of Life* (1 John 1:1-2)
Great Grace Brethren!!!




It's not about what is being thought or not, it's about what is right or wrong, what is normal and abnormal...
I still stand on my previous response up.
God Bless You
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by ochibuogwu5: 11:04am On Dec 23, 2019
Natural involves the marriage every human being entered into after the sin of Adam whether you have committed sin actually by yourself or not. This is called the flesh or the carnal human being which cannot please God. This is a law standing in the heavens, earth and under-world (Genesis 6:3, John 3:6, 1 Corinthian 15:22, 44-58) which was reconciled by the blood of Jesus Christ death on the tree of Calvary (Colossians 1:20) therefore this write-up starts with if any human being has(wants to submit) submitted to the grace of Jesus Christ Cross by agreeing to crucify his/her flesh/spirit-man(not skin) together with the Crucified Jesus Christ about 2019 years ago and receive the new flesh/life of his resurrection then he/she should know that these things written above and those not mentioned are what defiles the Christian marriage bed. It is not meant to forcefully change anybody's teaching or knowledge but that those who worship the Father in spirit and truth (John 4:23-24) may prayerfully review what is happening in their matrimonial bed and engage the Holy Spirit for clarity (1 John 4:1, John 8:12, John 8:32, 1 Corinthian 14:33)

Great Grace Brethren!!!
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by Talk2nanro(m): 11:25am On Dec 23, 2019
It is written " my sheep hear my voice" meaning the elect understand the voice of the Spirit and heed to it.
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by ochibuogwu5: 12:20am On Dec 24, 2019
Ephesians 5:3-14 Amplified Bible (AMP)
3 But sexual immorality and all [moral] impurity [indecent, offensive behavior] or greed must not even be hinted at among you, as is proper among saints [for as believers our way of life, whether in public or in private, reflects the validity of our faith]. 4 Let there be no filthiness and silly talk, or coarse [obscene or vulgar] joking, because such things are not appropriate [for believers]; but instead speak of your thankfulness [to God].

*5 For be sure of this: no immoral, impure, or greedy person—for that one is [in effect] an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God [for such a person places a higher value on something other than God].

6 Let no one deceive you with empty arguments [that encourage you to sin], for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience [those who habitually sin]. 7 So do not participate or even associate with them [in the rebelliousness of sin].*

8 For once you were darkness, but now you are light in the Lord; walk as children of Light [live as those who are native-born to the Light] 9 (for the fruit [the effect, the result] of the Light consists in all goodness and righteousness and truth), 10 trying to learn [by experience] what is pleasing to the Lord [and letting your lifestyles be examples of what is most acceptable to Him—your behavior expressing gratitude to God for your salvation]. 11 Do not participate in the worthless and unproductive deeds of darkness, but instead expose them [by exemplifying personal integrity, moral courage, and godly character]; 12 for it is disgraceful even to mention the things that such people practice in secret. 13 But all things become visible when they are exposed by the light [of God’s precepts], for [a]it is light that makes everything visible. 14 For this reason He says,

“Awake, sleeper,
And arise from the dead,
And Christ will shine [as dawn] upon you and give you light.”
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by Nobody: 10:17am On Dec 24, 2019
Ladylite:
Am not even sure this is truth, jesusjnr we need your explanation o
The Op is spot on, for i believe that is where God stands on the matter, because He is supposed to be the birth controller of marriages involving believers.

It's obviously not easy to observe, for even righteous couples like Abraham and Sarah were not able to wait for God's time, and were observed have taken matters into their own hands.

But that is not saying that it's easy, but that it is the way God intends for married couples who belong to Him to follow. And He can help them to achieve it.

God bless.
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by Nobody: 1:32pm On Dec 24, 2019
jesusjnr:
The Op is spot on, for i believe that is where God stands on the matter, because He is supposed to be the birth controller of marriages involving believers.

It's obviously not easy to observe, for even righteous couples like Abraham and Sarah were not able to wait for God's time, and were observed have taken matters into their own hands.

But that is not saying that it's easy, but that it is the way God intends for married couples who belong to Him to follow. And He can help them to achieve it.

God bless.
Hello,how are you doing?

So you mean to say fingering,oral$€x,anal sex between married couples is a sin? Then it means christianity eschews pre-intimacy. Are you aware most ladies cant attain orgasm with mere penetration except through some of the acts the Op condemned? So a lady who doesnt attain pleasure via normal penetration should manage no pleasure sex till death do them apart?
Are you aware that pre-intimacy lubricates the woman and if she isnt well lubricated sex may be very painful for her? So she should endure painful sex?


Cc:CAPSLOCKED,hahn,lordreed,1sharon,olaadegbu,ihediniobi3,iamsabrina

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Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by Nobody: 1:34pm On Dec 24, 2019
ochibuogwu5:
If you are born of the Holy Spirit whereby your *flesh has been crucified together with the flesh of Jesus Christ on the tree of Calvary* before or after Christian marriage; the Holy Spirit will teach you clearly that condoms or any form of contraceptives, withdrawal-methods, masturbation, pornography, anal-sex, oral-sex, manual-sex/fingering, sex-toys, party, adultery, lesbianism, homosexuality, public sexual intercourse, accepting that your spouse should go outside your marriage-bed and have sexual intercourse for any reason 'at-all' are within what defiles the Christian matrimonial bed according to Hebrews 13:4.
The sexual fluid of a man or woman is *LIFE/SACRED* hence should not be released outside the body of the couple except for *menstrual flow or wet dream* which is natural(not induced/forced by your actions/inactions) unless where it becomes *irregular*

Natural birth control which entails knowing and using your *fertile-days* within your cycle according to billings method and early morning temperature method is USED FOR CHILD FAMILY SPACING which is very cheap and effective.

Self-control which is one of the free fruits of the Holy Spirit flows consciously and unconsciously through couples who have died to the flesh with Jesus Christ Crucified with regards to sexual emotions when either couple is sick, tired, just-gave-birth, had a CS, e.t.c.
Cc:CAPSLOCKED,hahn,lordreed,budaatum,iamsabrina,muttleylaff,olaadegbu,shadeyinka, ihedinobi3
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by Ihedinobi3: 3:22pm On Dec 24, 2019
Michellekabod2:

Cc:_______________________ ihedinobi3
Hello Michelle.

It is not my custom to respond to threads put up by people purporting to teach the Bible who themselves have no respect for the Bible, since I am a Bible teacher myself. It only leads to quarrels that I can do without. You are also not a Bible student, so I'm not sure what to make of your request.

Since you asked though, I don't agree with the thread. I've never seen what it teaches in the Bible.
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by Dantedasz(m): 3:32pm On Dec 24, 2019
Michellekabod2:

Hello,how are you doing?

So you mean to say fingering,oral$€x,anal sex between married couples is a sin? Then it means christianity eschews pre-intimacy. Are you aware most ladies cant attain orgasm with mere penetration except through some of the acts the Op condemned? So a lady who doesnt attain pleasure via normal penetration should manage no pleasure sex till death do them apart?
Are you aware that pre-intimacy lubricates the woman and if she isnt well lubricated sex may be very painful for her? So she should endure painful sex?


Cc:CAPSLOCKED,hahn,lordreed,1sharon,olaadegbu,ihediniobi3,iamsabrina

Sex is NOT meant to be enjoyed. Sex is for procreation only.
Be fruitful and multiply. Did you see any admonition of pleasure in that statement. Just a "wham,bam thank you,ma'am" routine.
And make sure you pray before the act begins. It should be over in a minute. undecided

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Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by hahn(m): 4:16pm On Dec 24, 2019
Dantedasz:


Sex is NOT meant to be enjoyed. Sex is for procreation only.
Be fruitful and multiply. Did you see any admonition of pleasure in that statement. Just a "wham,bam thank you,ma'am" routine.
And make sure you pray before the act begins. It should be over in a minute. undecided

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Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by LordReed(m): 4:21pm On Dec 24, 2019
Michellekabod2:

Hello,how are you doing?

So you mean to say fingering,oral$€x,anal sex between married couples is a sin? Then it means christianity eschews pre-intimacy. Are you aware most ladies cant attain orgasm with mere penetration except through some of the acts the Op condemned? So a lady who doesnt attain pleasure via normal penetration should manage no pleasure sex till death do them apart?
Are you aware that pre-intimacy lubricates the woman and if she isnt well lubricated sex may be very painful for her? So she should endure painful sex?


Cc:CAPSLOCKED,hahn,lordreed,1sharon,olaadegbu,ihediniobi3,iamsabrina

This is just a display of how people have justified harmful practices in the name of god and the god's agenda.

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Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by ochibuogwu5: 4:53pm On Dec 24, 2019
Hail Mary,
full of grace,
The Lord is with you,
Blessed are you among women.
And blessed is the fruit of your womb Jesus Christ.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
Pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

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Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by CAPSLOCKED: 5:39pm On Dec 24, 2019
RiyaGoddess:

Anal sex, MouthAction, masturbation, homosexuality, lesbianism is a Sin and it is abnormal. That is not God's original way of having sex.

GOOD THING NOT ALL OF US ARE BOUND TO YOUR CHRISTIAN THEOLOGY.

MY GOD THE ONLY TRUE GOD, CULO, SAYS WE CAN FUÇK PIGS, AND THAT'S IT. cheesy
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by CAPSLOCKED: 5:42pm On Dec 24, 2019
Michellekabod2:

Hello,how are you doing?

So you mean to say fingering,oral$€x,anal sex between married couples is a sin? Then it means christianity eschews pre-intimacy. Are you aware most ladies cant attain orgasm with mere penetration except through some of the acts the Op condemned? So a lady who doesnt attain pleasure via normal penetration should manage no pleasure sex till death do them apart?
Are you aware that pre-intimacy lubricates the woman and if she isnt well lubricated sex may be very painful for her? So she should endure painful sex?


Cc:CAPSLOCKED,hahn,lordreed,1sharon,olaadegbu,ihediniobi3,iamsabrina

WE CAN SAY THE FEMALE ORGASM IS A SIN. WOMEN AREN'T SUPPOSED TO HAVE ORGASM.
THIS IS WHY UP TO 50% OF ALL WOMEN WILL NEVER ORGASM THROUGH PENETRATION, AND ANOTHER 25% WILL NEVER ATTAIN ORGASM IN THEIR LIVES.

COURTESY — YAHWEH THE PERFECT DESIGNER.

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Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by paxonel(m): 5:52pm On Dec 24, 2019
This op na typical African bush man from the tribe of Zulu -lehi-za.

The mentality is like jesusjnr in another moniker

Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by ochibuogwu5: 5:57pm On Dec 24, 2019
John 1:9 King James Version (KJV)
9 That was the true Light(Jesus Christ Crucified), which lighteth every man that cometh into the world.

if you are a human being that has come into this world and THIS LIGHT has not lighted you. You are darkness (it is not you are 'in darkness')
thus
"Ephesians 5: 8 For *ye were sometimes darkness*, but *now are ye light in the Lord*: walk as children of light:"

There is darkness in the earth and thick darkness covers the universe but CHRIST JESUS CRUCIFIED IS THE LIGHT THAT SHINES TO DISPEL/REBUKE this darkness
thus
"Isaiah 60: 2 For, behold, *the darkness shall cover the earth*, and *gross darkness the people*: but the *Lord shall arise upon thee, and his glory shall be seen upon thee.*

3 And the Gentiles *shall come to thy light*, and kings *to the brightness of thy rising*."

You cannot use any religion, noise, ideology, entertainment/drama on pulpits, academia, science, philosophy, fashion, art, mere-routine christian activities, human wisdom, visible and invisible things in heaven/earth/under-world, spiritual powers in the unseen realm, religious titles, e.t.c which is DARKNESS TO CHASE AWAY DARKNESS
thus
Ephesians 5: 14 Wherefore he saith, Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light.

"2 Corinthians 4: 6 For God, *who commanded the light to shine out of darkness(Genesis 1:3)*, hath *shined in our hearts(first who accepted the grace of the gospel and are now sharing it with you)*, to give the *LIGHT of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ.*

7 But we have this treasure(CHRIST JESUS CRUCIFIED; THE LIFE THAT IS LIGHT) in earthen vessels(our mortal human bodies with its weakness/limitations), that *the excellency of the power may be of God*, and not of us."

Surrender yourself now to the grace of His Death and Resurrection so that you may receive Jesus Christ Crucified who is the ONLY LIFE THAT IS LIGHT to EVERY HUMAN BEING WHO COMES INTO THIS WORLD!!!
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by LordReed(m): 6:12pm On Dec 24, 2019
CAPSLOCKED:


WE CAN SAY THE FEMALE ORGASM IS A SIN. WOMEN AREN'T SUPPOSED TO HAVE ORGASM.
THIS IS WHY UP TO 50% OF ALL WOMEN WILL NEVER ORGASM THROUGH PENETRATION, AND ANOTHER 25% WILL NEVER ATTAIN ORGASM IN THEIR LIVES.

COURTESY — YAHWEH THE PERFECT DESIGNER.

LoLz!
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by ochibuogwu5: 6:27pm On Dec 24, 2019
Mark 8: 35 For whosoever will save his life shall lose it; but whosoever shall lose his life for my sake and the gospel's, the same shall save it.

36 For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?

37 Or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?

38 Whosoever therefore shall be ashamed of me and of my words in this adulterous and sinful generation; of him also shall the Son of man be ashamed, when he cometh in the glory of his Father with the holy angels.
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by ochibuogwu5: 7:59pm On Dec 24, 2019
Luke 11:35 Take heed therefore that the light which is in thee be not darkness.
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by ochibuogwu5: 8:03pm On Dec 24, 2019
2 Corinthians 3:16 Nevertheless when it shall turn to the Lord, the vail shall be taken away. 3:17 Now the Lord is that Spirit: and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty. 3:18 But we all, with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of the Lord, are changed into the same image from glory to glory, even as by the Spirit of the LORD.
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by ochibuogwu5: 8:07pm On Dec 24, 2019
Psalms 43:3 O send out thy light and thy truth: let them lead me; let them bring me unto thy holy hill, and to thy tabernacles. 43:4 Then will I go unto the altar of God, unto God my exceeding joy: yea, upon the harp will I praise thee, O God my God.
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by ochibuogwu5: 8:11pm On Dec 24, 2019
Psalms 36:7 How excellent is thy lovingkindness, O God! therefore the children of men put their trust under the shadow of thy wings. 36:8 They shall be abundantly satisfied with the fatness of thy house; and thou shalt make them drink of the river of thy pleasures. 36:9 For with thee is the fountain of life: *in thy light shall we see light.*
Re: Sexual Practices That Defiles Christian Marriage Bed by ochibuogwu5: 8:29pm On Dec 24, 2019
Luke 11:33 No man, when he hath lighted a candle, putteth it in a secret place, neither under a bushel, but on a candlestick, that they which come in may see the light. 11:34 The light of the body is the eye: therefore when thine eye is single, thy whole body also is full of light; but when thine eye is evil, thy body also is full of darkness. 11:35 Take heed therefore that the light which is in thee be not darkness. 11:36 If thy whole body therefore be full of light, having no part dark, the whole shall be full of light, as when the bright shining of a candle doth give thee light.

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