Fanta Boy Ekwem from Umuchu, Anambra state, took to a popular Facebook group on Monday January 6, to bitterly lament how his younger sister ”insulted and fought him” back earlier today after he demanded to know why she did not wash his clothes as he instructed.

According to him, the sister is not ‘fully married’ as the fiance has only done introduction and paid her bride price. He stated that she still lives in their family house and will remain there until her fiance concludes the final traditional rights on Easter day.

Sharing a photo of himself wearing a shirt allegedly torn by his younger sister during their fight, Ekwem wrote;
I don’t normally bring up my family issues online but I have to do this for you guys to judge it, because everybody who were here when it happened was on her side.

She is married and so fucking what? Am just so sad this morning, this thing that happened today won’t end just like this I swear.

We have four girls in our family two out of the four girls senior me, and I senior two, one of the girls who I senior got married(the guy just did introduction and small something on her head) she is still in our family because the guy is yet to finish up the traditional rights according to the igbo culture.

So yesterday I was going out I bring out my Dirty clothes as you can see it on the pictures, I told her to wash the clothes for me so that today I will go back to base with them. She didn’t talk to me I left. I came back in the night and went to bed I didn’t ask of the clothes I told her to wash.

This morning I woke up around 6AM to park my things so I can start going back to Lagos, I called her to come and give me the clothes she washed for me, she didn’t even talk to me. I said okay let me go to the back yard to check if she sprayed it there. I met my cloths on the same spot I left it for her to wash yesterday.

I asked her why didn’t she wash my cloths for me, she didn’t talk to me again, I told her to leave whatever she is doing this morning to wash my cloths for me or else I will deal with her. Immediately I said that she started running her mouth. Saying things like…”don’t you know that am married now(imaro na m alu go di) why will you tell me to wash clothes for you, now is not that time please don’t disturb me(all these was what she was saying). I said to her “which kind yeye married you marry?

she started insulting me, a girl I senior with a year and 6 months talking to me this way? I got angry and hit her, I couldn’t believe it she fight me back and tore my cloth.

Am crying not that she beat me but my people were siding her, everybody was against me, why will I tell her to wash clothes for me. I should give her some respect as a married girl.

You guys should judge this, not that she is fully married to the man, she is still in our house the man is coming on Easter to finish up the traditional rights…..Look at my cloth how she tear it.

News Source:https://braveachiever.com/nigerian-man-narrates-how-he-and-his-newly-married-younger-sister-fought-each-other-after-she-refused-to-wash-his-clothes-photos/

What a full. No go work make you start your own family ote

I see

The way some of you guys are raised(not raised) sef.
You can't wash your own clothes?

She's married and so fucking what?

So you know she's married?

The entitlement! One would think he didn't have hands and so, couldn't do his washing himself but clearly, if he could hit his sister, then his hands are totally fine. He's even wondering why everyone was on her side and not his. Ndi senior brothers

I can’t just believe this!

I just pity the unfortunate woman that would end up with this foolîsh man.

Her life will be filled with pains

This guy has just given Nairaland Females the mouth to talk now. Na wertin I hate pass be this gan gan

Useless boy

I asked her why didn't she wash my cloths for
me, she didn't talk to me again, I told her to leave whatever she is doing this morning to wash my cloths for me
or else I will deal with her.

There's absolutely nothing wrong in washing your elder brother's clothes, but from the embolden. I can tell from afar how arrogant, aggressive and bossy this idiott sounded to warrant such insults from his married younger sister.

This one strong ooo

Lol....a year and 6months gap..,

I want to say a few things but no ....

Our feminist sisters in the lord are coming for his balls sack to squeeze out every last juice till he is dry of milk

He picked the wrong fight ....hei

I don't understand how the guy could command another adult to wash his clothes irrespective of the relationship even if she were a younger sister (her marital status aside) or a wife.

You probably are not good at doing laundry, I get that. Hence you should implore on the other person and come to an agreement.

If the sister had agreed to wash the clothes initially and changed her mind without informing him, then I see her wrong. But she didn't even answer him and he assumed that was a "yes".

He's crying because he was disrespected, but "respect is reciprocal" they say, and that's the golden truth. He didn't respect her as an adult (probably older than 21) and hence doesn't deserve to get the respect of an elder brother.

If you had used the same hand you used in hitting your sister to wash your clothes, you wouldn't have exposed your entitled illiterate self to the world.

So the sister was fine with washing it till they 'paid something on her head'.

The guy should ask his family members if he is wrong, only them understand their family dynamics.

This guy is a fool, beating his sister because she refused to wash his clothes. The lady should have had him arrested for assault

This guy is seriously mad but has no one to tell him. Eran

thorpido:
The way some of you guys are raised(not raised) sef.
You can't wash your own clothes?

As in eh,sometimes I also wonder why most Nigerian guys don’t like washing their clothes or cooking their own food. This is what happens when you don’t teach your kids necessary things because of their gender,such a shame.

All these things are simple things that men can do but because women have been made to be doing them for so long men now think they themselves can’t do them or are above them.

He is not even ashamed of uploading his picture, he is busy forming only son and feeling so entitled. He has been bullying his younger sister and now she has made him know that enough is enough, that is how his wife will tear his clothes if he goes into marriage with this mindset. The family house he is making noise about, if it is the uncompleted structure in the background he better redirect his energy to get that building completed

Even if she wasn't married, she isn't expected to was his cloths, exept she does it out of free will.

dochenaj:
I don't understand how the guy could command another adult to wash his clothes irrespective of the relationship even if she were a younger sister (her marital status aside) or a wife.

You probably are not good at doing laundry, I get that. Hence you should implore on the other person and come to an agreement.

If the sister had agreed to wash the clothes initially and changed her mind without informing him, then I see her wrong. But she didn't even answer him and he assumed that was a "yes".

He's crying because he was disrespected, but "respect is reciprocal" they say, and that's the golden truth. He didn't respect her as an adult (probably older than 21) and hence doesn't deserve to get the respect of an elder brother.

true

i believe that the moment you are of age of dating aka the average marrying age there should be a very mutual and respectful relationship between a brother and sister irregardless who is older. As grown ups no more treating each other as kids, kids are asked to do chores because thats how they get taught chores of how to keep a house clean etc, whereas at the age that both you can marry there is no more demanding someone to do things for you but you ask in respect. In return a good brother would give the sister money or something here and there as token of appreciation because generally brothers dont wash close for sister

this boy looks like is the only boy and he wants to play the man of the house to the two young sisters and it seems the he fought is tired of his bullying with this senior thing

What kind of stupidity is this??

The marital status should have nothing to do with this.
Respect is reciprocal. He could have asked nicely or done it himself. Even if the person you’re dealing with is a minor. Much less a fellow adult like you.

I’m wondering if those that sided with her would have done otherwise if she was single. Just Another reason why young girls place premium on marriage. When they are socially disregarded until they are married how do you expect them to aspire differently?

His entitlement is mind blowing

I will wait for those bitter folks to comment on this first before I make my own point

His entitlement mentality is annoying. Who told him it is his sister's job to wash his clothes? As per personal maid.

The babe was obviously tired of the nonsense and couldn't wait to rub the marriage in his face.

He should pay a maid to do his laundry and not convert his sisters to house helps.

He is a real bully! How can you tell another person to wash for you arrogantly Parent teach both male and female in your household how to do their chores theirselves. Result of putting male over female in chores is this.

This guy why u expose your foolly for the world to see Na. We are 7 in our family and am the first. I have never forced any of my sibling to do anything for me. They happily do it after plenty thank yous and small tipping. You have anger issues go and deal with it. Again this show that you have little or no respect for women. You not only insulted her, but also her husband. You deserve no pity at all. She for break your head so you know how to address issues.