peacefulhome:
Op is funny. Your wife has firbiods and yet God still bless your home with kids , still you want to destroy the life of the unborn child? No problem, continue.

I understand the first child came through C.S . Please take your wife to the hospital where she did the C S , since they already have her medical history it will be easy for her to be manage by the hospital. You have nothing to fear aside from the financial aspect ( start saving now) .

yvelchstores:
. The wife's body healing part is actually a valid point since it was CS however, I think she can manage this one but of course it will have to be another CS.
Just be calm, children come with provisions and blessings. You will cope financially in Jesus name amen.
Congrats

bdchange:

Some of you will not cease to amaze me with this your statement of children comes with blessing palava. I wish I can take you round mainland such as ikorodu, badia, itire, ajegunle and so on to show you how children are really suffering because the stupid parents brought them to this world when they can't take care of them. Please refrain from this your advise if it is what you usually give couples who intend to bring children into this world without viable means of survival. Pls I beg of you.. It is for a sane society where louts and imbeciles will be on the low.

sassysure:

Very big misconception.
Childbirth takes a big toll on the mother's body a lot.
Especially when not spaced.

That we don't see women shout it to the moon is simply because when u look at your kids, u simply ignore the pains and sickness.

Most illnesses women suffer today started from pregnancy. Lots of things just happen when one is pregnant and then giving birth. Some were horribly sewed up. Hbp, hip dislocation or leg cramp, or CS gone wrong. So many stuffs women endure just to carry and birth a child.

momokiddies:
I was once exactly in this situation. Cs, fibroids, pregnant when baby was 9. We were agitated and the first person we talked to advised us to terminate. We did, but it has remained one of our biggest regrets. We always wish we kept it. Although I got pregnant again, but in always wish I kept that one. Who knows , that child could have been a blessing to us. Please keep it against all odds. It might look awkward, but you will be glad you did.
Cheers!

peacefulhome:


Do you have a child to give her? If no , no need asking if she is TTC or not.

Gerrard59:


Bringing a child into the world when you know you cannot take care of him/her is the greatest sin committed.

michlins:
abortion isn't a sin. Abortion is safer than childbirth if you must know

At op, instead of you to bring a child into this world when you aren't ready, abort and prepare

I will know you religious people will come for me but before you do, ensure you're a virgin

immaq8:
the same reason, we have more TTC & ladies running from church to church looking for fruit of the womb.

Saintmary:

Look at your question, when did they start giving out kids for promo, in order to sound savage, you ended up sounding really stupid. Get help, you're losing it.

namiji2598:
hmmmm
Is not abt taking care of the baby, people sabi dey comments anyhow, go back and read again

Saintmary:

Are you ttc?

Lamanii22:



You're the one commenting anyhow... You should re-read the post again... Should she now abort the pregnancy? It's not about taking care of the baby? What then is it... Tell me...

Alanzazani:


Very true. This is going to be the last kid anyway. Family planning all the way. He said they were using Billings and Creighton method which failed. The man is not irresponsible for some kids giving advice here. He is 36 years and a level 12 officer in a federal parastatal. Wife is also a lawyer so it is not a helpless situation. It is just the spacing and challenges that come with child bearing

namiji2598:
the woman's state of health is a major factor

Lamanii22:



Right... Loool... Pardon me.. Itara omo lo shey mi... I just don't like hearing the word "abortion"...

Omolarablg:
Don't attempt to get rid of the baby cos God had a reason why he permitted her to conceive soon , take care of the baby and the pregnancy and it will be a blessing to your family.

Alanzazani:
A friend of my shared his story with me.
He got married in October 2018, had a baby in July 2019. His wife had a fibroid in her uterus hence a ceasarian operation was carried out.

A few days ago they went for a scan to see what the fibroid looks like. To his amazement he was told his wife is 10 weeks pregnant. The young man is devastated. He is struggling to take care of his baby and his family. Only to be shocked with this news of a 10week old pregnancy. He is contemplating aborting the pregnancy. He doesn't know if 8 months is enough time for his wife's body to have healed. I strongly adviced him against this. His wife is unwilling to abort the baby. Mature advice need. FP please

immaq8:
the same reason, we have more TTC & ladies running from church to church looking for fruit of the womb.

Lamanii22:



What?

Afodot0022:
Pls dont abort op. My wife also got pregnant like 8 months after our first child. At first, i was so devastated being that we are still struggling to even take care of the first baby. Let me even tell u, we attempted the pill abortion but the baby refused to be aborted.My wife bleed severely that almost cost her life but when we did scan, it was still revealed that she is still pregnant. Omo na so i just jejely give up and told her to keep the pregnancy. she gave birth to the child without complications though. Now could you believe that this second child is so dear to me that i love her so much. Anytime i think about my action to abort her then, i feel so bad within. Ever since then, i have a change of mind towards abortion,I will never advice anyone to do abortion in respective of the circumstance around the pregnancy except if its severely life threatened. Its never a solution to anything. Now am very happy with my two kids and after the birth of my second child, things started changing financially that i dont even have any cause to borrow or live in lack. I will say this my second child brought lots of blessing for me cos my finances change for good even better than when i gave birth to my first child. So pls op dont hurt that little blessing in you. Take your wife to hospital so they can manage her and follow up with her till when she gives birth. pls dont attempt to kill that child, else you will regret it. who knows if you are only destined for two children in life and with the fibroid issue of your wife, conceiving is always difficult. so this might be your chance to have your child. so pls and pls dont abort that child. you guys will definitely survive and bet me, when that baby comes, you wont regret having that child as things will definitely change for good for you and your household. I am saying this base on my personal experience.

MrBrownJay1:


bro, sadly thats where so many people are failing.... also, we have to question the fact that this man didnt want another child, yet was mounting his wife raw, when we all know that women after childbirth can easily get pregnant again.

Alanzazani:
A friend of my shared his story with me.
He got married in October 2018, had a baby in July 2019. His wife had a fibroid in her uterus hence a ceasarian operation was carried out.

A few days ago they went for a scan to see what the fibroid looks like. To his amazement he was told his wife is 10 weeks pregnant. The young man is devastated. He is struggling to take care of his baby and his family. Only to be shocked with this news of a 10week old pregnancy. He is contemplating aborting the pregnancy. He doesn't know if 8 months is enough time for his wife's body to have healed. I strongly adviced him against this. His wife is unwilling to abort the baby. Mature advice need. FP please

Lamanii22:
Give birth to the baby please... Let me adopt it....

michlins:
the reason we have the above is because women resort to bad family planning methods and end up damaging their womb. If they have access to professionals who know what they're doing and stop drinking hot water and salt

Lamanii22:
Give birth to the baby please... Let me adopt it....

immaq8:
is this the level of your IQ?
is it advisable for a lady that haven't put to bed, go for Family planning?

immaq8:
is this the level of your IQ?
is it advisable for a lady that haven't put to bed, go for Family planning?

bdchange:

Some of you will not cease to amaze me with this your statement of children comes with blessing palava. I wish I can take you round mainland such as ikorodu, badia, itire, ajegunle and so on to show you how children are really suffering because the stupid parents brought them to this world when they can't take care of them. Please refrain from this your advise if it is what you usually give couples who intend to bring children into this world without viable means of survival. Pls I beg of you.. It is for a sane society where louts and imbeciles will be on the low.