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My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by darling4real1: 7:49pm On Mar 07, 2020
My fellow ladies see what i am seeing ooo
Please Help,
My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets.
Here is this story,
I’m in a big dilemma with my kid sister , I don’t want to bore you with long story I will make the long story short.
I got married in May 2000 I was pregnant with my first child, I had my first child in September that same year then another daughter in 2002 May and in July 2002 my husband left for abroad.
I had to move out of the renting apartment and went back to my parents house with my 2 kids while waiting for him to process our documents so that we can join him. It took him 2 years to settle and for 2 year he couldn’t send us money because he had no documents and job.
My parents were supportive until when my husband got his documents and started working. He started sending us money every month and was working hard for me and the kids to join him but things were not working well for us as they kept rejecting us but he didn’t get tired of us.
I started getting tired after 5 years of waiting, missing him badly, no intimacy and I was lonely and very depressed. I start seeking attention outside and I met with a married man that I had a relationship with.
I got pregnant in 2008, the man suggested abortion but I didn’t want to abort because I was scared to die because I remember a cousin that had a husband abroad, she got pregnant, went to abort and she died instantly, so I didn’t want to end up like her.
I had planned with my sister and mum that I should leave our state to another state to go and have my baby then will come back after the baby is 3 months. I and my kid sister left and rented another house in a different state meanwhile we lied to my dad that I had traveled to join my husband in abroad.
Things went well , I had my baby, another girl in 2009 and we kept the secret for 3 months from my dad and we had to lie to him that it was my kid sister that had given birth to this baby while we were away and my dad got angry at her and he has said a lot of harsh things to her.
It was very painful but my sister supported me and didn’t let the secret come out, even to my husband, he just knew the baby was my sisters. Because I was breastfeeding her, we didn’t want to go home yet so we had to stayed here for a year.
When I weaned her, we started preparing to go back home, lied again to my dad that things didn’t work out and I couldn’t join my husband anymore. We returned back home in 2010 and we had been keeping this secrets from my dad, husband and other people.
Finally, God has been great that I had to joined my husband in 2013 after 11 years of waiting. It was a wonderful time to be with him again.
My kid sister got married in 2014, she had a daughter with her husband before marriage born in 2012, so the husband accepted her with my daughter that she pretend to be hers. She went to her husband house, leaving my kids with our parents, she only took the daughter she had with her husband and I used to send them money as usual until in 2015 my 2 daughters I had with my husband joined us abroad and my other daughter stayed behind.
I had to convinced my husband that my sister baby should join us too which he was okay with and grateful to my sister because she had been the one taking care of our children in my absence. So we started applying for documents for the girl, but they kept rejecting it but we didn’t give up.
At that same time, my sister has also wanted her biological daughter to be included in but I was frank with her that we couldn’t add her daughter because the daughter that I had is known to be hers so if we had another daughter it would be wrong. So this has caused a lot of problems between my sister and I, that she called me an ingrate after everything she has been doing for me but I was never ungrateful to her because I take care of her daughter school fees in a very good private school but I just couldn’t take her abroad with us but she is adamant that her daughter should be here too.
Fortunately, my daughter which to my husband is my niece, joined us this january 2020. She knows me as her auntie and my sister her mummy. She is doing well, my family is complete, I have also had 2 more children with my husband. Two cute boys but my sister has been threatening and blackmailing that she would tell my husband everything about my daughter.
I had begged, even our mum has been begging her not to spoil my marriage but she wouldn’t listen. I’m scared she would tell my husband and my marriage will be over. I don’t sleep well and anytime when my husband get back from work, my heart beat faster thinking that he has found out about the secrets and I’m no longer in peace.
He loves my niece (daughter) so much that he doesn’t treat her any different from our 4 children but I’m getting so scared, have been taking blood pressure medication because of my sister threatening me.
Please I know a lot of you would insult me because I deserve it but all I need is advice from you.
Please if you could offer me some because I just don’t know what else to do...
Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by donbachi(m): 7:56pm On Mar 07, 2020
Even satan go shout "Blood of Jesus" after reading dis....u no do well.

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Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by njelrapheal: 7:56pm On Mar 07, 2020
This one pass me. Over to the elders

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Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by Maxymilliano(m): 7:58pm On Mar 07, 2020
This same story was posted here a while back

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Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by patani(m): 7:59pm On Mar 07, 2020
Another 2019 nairaland super story

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Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by Officialgarri: 8:00pm On Mar 07, 2020
If you are here to read endless bashing, kindly stand in line

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Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by Taraj01(m): 8:00pm On Mar 07, 2020
If you see a woman and a snake, i won't say you should kill the woman oo, but spare the beautiful snake's life.

Never trust women.

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Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by GOFRONT(m): 8:04pm On Mar 07, 2020
na wao......Wetin Cockroach no go see inside pit latrine??

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Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by Caramelskin(f): 8:04pm On Mar 07, 2020
E don happen
I don tell am

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Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by Winneygirl(f): 8:10pm On Mar 07, 2020
But I have read this exact story on nairaland recently.
What do you gain from copy and paste stories na?

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Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by NextD18: 8:10pm On Mar 07, 2020
Can someone help me with the link of the first story.

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Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by trutht828: 8:10pm On Mar 07, 2020
Taraj01:
If you see a woman and a snake, i won't say you should kill the woman oo, but spare the beautiful snake's life.

Never trust women.

You are being unreasonable, oga. This woman was separated from her husband for 11 years.

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Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by GboyegaD(m): 8:15pm On Mar 07, 2020
At this stage be sincere with your husband, you might be surprised he knows but just choose to keep quiet. Don't let your sister be the one to tell him as that could cause more pains than good.
Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by Kdon2: 8:16pm On Mar 07, 2020
darling4real1:
My fellow ladies see what i am seeing ooo
Please Help,
My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets.
Here is this story,
I’m in a big dilemma with my kid sister , I don’t want to bore you with long story I will make the long story short.
I got married in May 2000 I was pregnant with my first child, I had my first child in September that same year then another daughter in 2002 May and in July 2002 my husband left for abroad.
I had to move out of the renting apartment and went back to my parents house with my 2 kids while waiting for him to process our documents so that we can join him. It took him 2 years to settle and for 2 year he couldn’t send us money because he had no documents and job.
My parents were supportive until when my husband got his documents and started working. He started sending us money every month and was working hard for me and the kids to join him but things were not working well for us as they kept rejecting us but he didn’t get tired of us.
I started getting tired after 5 years of waiting, missing him badly, no intimacy and I was lonely and very depressed. I start seeking attention outside and I met with a married man that I had a relationship with.
I got pregnant in 2008, the man suggested abortion but I didn’t want to abort because I was scared to die because I remember a cousin that had a husband abroad, she got pregnant, went to abort and she died instantly, so I didn’t want to end up like her.
I had planned with my sister and mum that I should leave our state to another state to go and have my baby then will come back after the baby is 3 months. I and my kid sister left and rented another house in a different state meanwhile we lied to my dad that I had traveled to join my husband in abroad.
Things went well , I had my baby, another girl in 2009 and we kept the secret for 3 months from my dad and we had to lie to him that it was my kid sister that had given birth to this baby while we were away and my dad got angry at her and he has said a lot of harsh things to her.
It was very painful but my sister supported me and didn’t let the secret come out, even to my husband, he just knew the baby was my sisters. Because I was breastfeeding her, we didn’t want to go home yet so we had to stayed here for a year.
When I weaned her, we started preparing to go back home, lied again to my dad that things didn’t work out and I couldn’t join my husband anymore. We returned back home in 2010 and we had been keeping this secrets from my dad, husband and other people.
Finally, God has been great that I had to joined my husband in 2013 after 11 years of waiting. It was a wonderful time to be with him again.
My kid sister got married in 2014, she had a daughter with her husband before marriage born in 2012, so the husband accepted her with my daughter that she pretend to be hers. She went to her husband house, leaving my kids with our parents, she only took the daughter she had with her husband and I used to send them money as usual until in 2015 my 2 daughters I had with my husband joined us abroad and my other daughter stayed behind.
I had to convinced my husband that my sister baby should join us too which he was okay with and grateful to my sister because she had been the one taking care of our children in my absence. So we started applying for documents for the girl, but they kept rejecting it but we didn’t give up.
At that same time, my sister has also wanted her biological daughter to be included in but I was frank with her that we couldn’t add her daughter because the daughter that I had is known to be hers so if we had another daughter it would be wrong. So this has caused a lot of problems between my sister and I, that she called me an ingrate after everything she has been doing for me but I was never ungrateful to her because I take care of her daughter school fees in a very good private school but I just couldn’t take her abroad with us but she is adamant that her daughter should be here too.
Fortunately, my daughter which to my husband is my niece, joined us this january 2020. She knows me as her auntie and my sister her mummy. She is doing well, my family is complete, I have also had 2 more children with my husband. Two cute boys but my sister has been threatening and blackmailing that she would tell my husband everything about my daughter.
I had begged, even our mum has been begging her not to spoil my marriage but she wouldn’t listen. I’m scared she would tell my husband and my marriage will be over. I don’t sleep well and anytime when my husband get back from work, my heart beat faster thinking that he has found out about the secrets and I’m no longer in peace.
He loves my niece (daughter) so much that he doesn’t treat her any different from our 4 children but I’m getting so scared, have been taking blood pressure medication because of my sister threatening me.
Please I know a lot of you would insult me because I deserve it but all I need is advice from you.
Please if you could offer me some because I just don’t know what else to do...

No peace for the wicked!

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Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by SundayIgbanke: 8:18pm On Mar 07, 2020
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Officialgarri:
If you are here to read endless bashing, kindly stand in line
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Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by eyinjuege: 8:25pm On Mar 07, 2020
I read this same story some days back.
Why are you recycling somebody else's story?
Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:25pm On Mar 07, 2020
this is the fruit of your own deceit/wh0ring ways....if i was the sister i would even ask for three time more. you better tell your husband before he gets to learn the truth from her directly!
Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by GraGra247(m): 8:27pm On Mar 07, 2020
Abeg arrange travel for your sister baby.
Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by eyinjuege: 8:29pm On Mar 07, 2020
Lies
Why are you posting someone else's story on here and claiming it to be yours?

This is the original story.

https://www.nairaland.com/5700498/sister-want-expose-secret-life/3#86900717

Mods' kindly pull down this thread.

Royalroy

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Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by MichaelBukamzy(m): 8:34pm On Mar 07, 2020
Op.you,your mother,your sister,your husband,your father,your niece/daughter whatever are all stuuupid. Fake ass modafuka

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Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by chatinent: 8:37pm On Mar 07, 2020
There is no acceptable justification for sexual immorality. Face the consequences squarely.
Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by ojun50(m): 8:39pm On Mar 07, 2020
Which kind advice you need
Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by Patented: 8:50pm On Mar 07, 2020
Apostle must hear this.
Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by bigiyaro(m): 8:54pm On Mar 07, 2020
I don't understand o, you want us to beg your sister or what? buts it only natural that if you put hand for fire, you simply get burnt. ask ur self if your husband deserved this treatment, I pray you reap the rewards of your labour, you don't deserve your family.
Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by Nobody: 9:11pm On Mar 07, 2020
darling4real1:
My fellow ladies see what i am seeing ooo
Please Help,
My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets.
Here is this story,
I’m in a big dilemma with my kid sister , I don’t want to bore you with long story I will make the long story short.
I got married in May 2000 I was pregnant with my first child, I had my first child in September that same year then another daughter in 2002 May and in July 2002 my husband left for abroad.
I had to move out of the renting apartment and went back to my parents house with my 2 kids while waiting for him to process our documents so that we can join him. It took him 2 years to settle and for 2 year he couldn’t send us money because he had no documents and job.
My parents were supportive until when my husband got his documents and started working. He started sending us money every month and was working hard for me and the kids to join him but things were not working well for us as they kept rejecting us but he didn’t get tired of us.
I started getting tired after 5 years of waiting, missing him badly, no intimacy and I was lonely and very depressed. I start seeking attention outside and I met with a married man that I had a relationship with.
I got pregnant in 2008, the man suggested abortion but I didn’t want to abort because I was scared to die because I remember a cousin that had a husband abroad, she got pregnant, went to abort and she died instantly, so I didn’t want to end up like her.
I had planned with my sister and mum that I should leave our state to another state to go and have my baby then will come back after the baby is 3 months. I and my kid sister left and rented another house in a different state meanwhile we lied to my dad that I had traveled to join my husband in abroad.
Things went well , I had my baby, another girl in 2009 and we kept the secret for 3 months from my dad and we had to lie to him that it was my kid sister that had given birth to this baby while we were away and my dad got angry at her and he has said a lot of harsh things to her.
It was very painful but my sister supported me and didn’t let the secret come out, even to my husband, he just knew the baby was my sisters. Because I was breastfeeding her, we didn’t want to go home yet so we had to stayed here for a year.
When I weaned her, we started preparing to go back home, lied again to my dad that things didn’t work out and I couldn’t join my husband anymore. We returned back home in 2010 and we had been keeping this secrets from my dad, husband and other people.
Finally, God has been great that I had to joined my husband in 2013 after 11 years of waiting. It was a wonderful time to be with him again.
My kid sister got married in 2014, she had a daughter with her husband before marriage born in 2012, so the husband accepted her with my daughter that she pretend to be hers. She went to her husband house, leaving my kids with our parents, she only took the daughter she had with her husband and I used to send them money as usual until in 2015 my 2 daughters I had with my husband joined us abroad and my other daughter stayed behind.
I had to convinced my husband that my sister baby should join us too which he was okay with and grateful to my sister because she had been the one taking care of our children in my absence. So we started applying for documents for the girl, but they kept rejecting it but we didn’t give up.
At that same time, my sister has also wanted her biological daughter to be included in but I was frank with her that we couldn’t add her daughter because the daughter that I had is known to be hers so if we had another daughter it would be wrong. So this has caused a lot of problems between my sister and I, that she called me an ingrate after everything she has been doing for me but I was never ungrateful to her because I take care of her daughter school fees in a very good private school but I just couldn’t take her abroad with us but she is adamant that her daughter should be here too.
Fortunately, my daughter which to my husband is my niece, joined us this january 2020. She knows me as her auntie and my sister her mummy. She is doing well, my family is complete, I have also had 2 more children with my husband. Two cute boys but my sister has been threatening and blackmailing that she would tell my husband everything about my daughter.
I had begged, even our mum has been begging her not to spoil my marriage but she wouldn’t listen. I’m scared she would tell my husband and my marriage will be over. I don’t sleep well and anytime when my husband get back from work, my heart beat faster thinking that he has found out about the secrets and I’m no longer in peace.
He loves my niece (daughter) so much that he doesn’t treat her any different from our 4 children but I’m getting so scared, have been taking blood pressure medication because of my sister threatening me.
Please I know a lot of you would insult me because I deserve it but all I need is advice from you.
Please if you could offer me some because I just don’t know what else to do...
The Truth of the Matter is that to be free, you need to damn all Consequences and tell your Hubby the Truth!

Only The Truth can liberate you both here on Earth and in Eternity!

No matter the Consequences, Set yourself free by Telling your Hubby the Truth!

May GOD HELP U
Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by OlawaleBammie: 9:23pm On Mar 07, 2020
darling4real1:
My fellow ladies see what i am seeing ooo
Please Help,
My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets.
Here is this story,
I’m in a big dilemma with my kid sister , I don’t want to bore you with long story I will make the long story short.
I got married in May 2000 I was pregnant with my first child, I had my first child in September that same year then another daughter in 2002 May and in July 2002 my husband left for abroad.
I had to move out of the renting apartment and went back to my parents house with my 2 kids while waiting for him to process our documents so that we can join him. It took him 2 years to settle and for 2 year he couldn’t send us money because he had no documents and job.
My parents were supportive until when my husband got his documents and started working. He started sending us money every month and was working hard for me and the kids to join him but things were not working well for us as they kept rejecting us but he didn’t get tired of us.
I started getting tired after 5 years of waiting, missing him badly, no intimacy and I was lonely and very depressed. I start seeking attention outside and I met with a married man that I had a relationship with.
I got pregnant in 2008, the man suggested abortion but I didn’t want to abort because I was scared to die because I remember a cousin that had a husband abroad, she got pregnant, went to abort and she died instantly, so I didn’t want to end up like her.
I had planned with my sister and mum that I should leave our state to another state to go and have my baby then will come back after the baby is 3 months. I and my kid sister left and rented another house in a different state meanwhile we lied to my dad that I had traveled to join my husband in abroad.
Things went well , I had my baby, another girl in 2009 and we kept the secret for 3 months from my dad and we had to lie to him that it was my kid sister that had given birth to this baby while we were away and my dad got angry at her and he has said a lot of harsh things to her.
It was very painful but my sister supported me and didn’t let the secret come out, even to my husband, he just knew the baby was my sisters. Because I was breastfeeding her, we didn’t want to go home yet so we had to stayed here for a year.
When I weaned her, we started preparing to go back home, lied again to my dad that things didn’t work out and I couldn’t join my husband anymore. We returned back home in 2010 and we had been keeping this secrets from my dad, husband and other people.
Finally, God has been great that I had to joined my husband in 2013 after 11 years of waiting. It was a wonderful time to be with him again.
My kid sister got married in 2014, she had a daughter with her husband before marriage born in 2012, so the husband accepted her with my daughter that she pretend to be hers. She went to her husband house, leaving my kids with our parents, she only took the daughter she had with her husband and I used to send them money as usual until in 2015 my 2 daughters I had with my husband joined us abroad and my other daughter stayed behind.
I had to convinced my husband that my sister baby should join us too which he was okay with and grateful to my sister because she had been the one taking care of our children in my absence. So we started applying for documents for the girl, but they kept rejecting it but we didn’t give up.
At that same time, my sister has also wanted her biological daughter to be included in but I was frank with her that we couldn’t add her daughter because the daughter that I had is known to be hers so if we had another daughter it would be wrong. So this has caused a lot of problems between my sister and I, that she called me an ingrate after everything she has been doing for me but I was never ungrateful to her because I take care of her daughter school fees in a very good private school but I just couldn’t take her abroad with us but she is adamant that her daughter should be here too.
Fortunately, my daughter which to my husband is my niece, joined us this january 2020. She knows me as her auntie and my sister her mummy. She is doing well, my family is complete, I have also had 2 more children with my husband. Two cute boys but my sister has been threatening and blackmailing that she would tell my husband everything about my daughter.
I had begged, even our mum has been begging her not to spoil my marriage but she wouldn’t listen. I’m scared she would tell my husband and my marriage will be over. I don’t sleep well and anytime when my husband get back from work, my heart beat faster thinking that he has found out about the secrets and I’m no longer in peace.
He loves my niece (daughter) so much that he doesn’t treat her any different from our 4 children but I’m getting so scared, have been taking blood pressure medication because of my sister threatening me.
Please I know a lot of you would insult me because I deserve it but all I need is advice from you.
Please if you could offer me some because I just don’t know what else to do...



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Yeeehhhhhh!!!!

Ahhhhhhh!!!

Goooooddddddd!!! Seeeee human beannnnssssssss!!!!




Satan right now, cus he must hav bn confused already

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Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by Sexyliciousbri: 10:00pm On Mar 07, 2020
It's two ways it's either u loose ur marriage after she expose you or u let the cat out of the bag itself and pray that God touches his heart to forgive you
Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by punisha: 10:36pm On Mar 07, 2020
Oya advisers carry on..
I'm sleeping this super story out
Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by Nobody: 12:17am On Mar 08, 2020
This one is strong sha. Sincerely I have no advice for you but I really wish you well because you seem like a very nice person. Best wishes
Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by KendrickAyomide: 2:37am On Mar 08, 2020
Lies. Which kind yeye abroad you they. U made a post about your dog barking when it sees your caretaker for the past 3 years because he uses a lot of juju. That alone signifies u are not abroad
Re: My Sister Is About To Ruin My Marriage With Our Dirty Secrets by Nobody: 3:00am On Mar 08, 2020
If this is a real story then you are evil. Your mother, sister and yourself are terrible females. Please don't raise your daughters this way.
I don't care about your dilemma, just don't raise your daughters to be useless like you and your family.
PS.
The reason I sometimes respond to fake stories is that someone out there may be going through something similar. Nothing is new in life.

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