DBestDoc:


I read your post over and over again and I felt really sad.

You and your husband are both responsible for your marriage whether it works or crumbles but catering to that child and raising him right is your responsibility.

A father may bail, all relatives may bail, even the whole world may abandon a child but a GOOD Mother CANNOT bail on her Child. It’s unfortunate your husband didn’t share the sentiment and I don’t blame him but trust me, you’ve given yourself peace. You did what you had to do, what every responsible and right thinking mum would do and I would have done same if I were in your shoes.

Raising those kids alone may be overwhelming but God’s gonna give you the strength and grace to pull through.

There are times when you’d want to second guess yourself, you’d think you made a mistake. The true mistake would have been abandoning that child without love and pushing him into something dangerous that’d eventually get him killed.This would have been THE mistake that you can never live with and of course the marriage you tried to save would have collapsed.

I pray everything goes well with you and the kids.

The way you put the words together eh, even a cold-hearted monster will agree with you. You're too much!

If you are a married man and you find yourself attracted to school girls.just buy your wife a school uniform

Madam I am happy u did the right thing. U and ur children will be fine.

Hi op.. Any update

Sharonstone7719:
Hi op.. Any update

Everything is fine by God's grace

Vyvyanvyvy:


Everything is fine by God's grace

Did you and your husband come back together?

And your baby you were pregnant with then.

bukatyne:


Did you and your husband come back together?

And your baby you were pregnant with then.

We are not together anymore. I gave birth to a baby girl, she is 8 months old

Vyvyanvyvy:


We are not together anymore. I gave birth to a baby girl, she is 8 months old

GOOD.

Vyvyanvyvy:


Everything is fine by God's grace

I hope you've gotten your daughter back or at least seen her?

Ardar:



GOOD.



I hope you've gotten your daughter back or at least seen her?

Yes all my 4 children are staying with me

Vyvyanvyvy:


We are not together anymore. I gave birth to a baby girl, she is 8 months old

Alright then,

Goodluck

P.S.: hope your son is well adjusted?

Vyvyanvyvy:


Yes all my 4 children are staying with me

I'm happy for you. Please protect your children. The world is very wicked now and everyone is selfish, be selfish with your self and your children. Their happiness should come first. May God keep providing for you. When your boy is 12, allow him learn a trade during his holidays so that he can learn to be independent on time. Also don't forget to teach him good morals. May God see you through.

veave:


I'm happy for you. Please protect your children. The world is very wicked now and everyone is selfish, be selfish with your self and your children. Their happiness should come first. May God keep providing for you. When your boy is 12, allow him learn a trade during his holidays so that he can learn to be independent on time. Also don't forget to teach him good morals. May God see you through.

He will be 13 in August. Amen thanks

Your story has really touched my heart, I want to pay for your son's school fees for the whole year, please contact me to this email jennyfhajen@yahoo.com with proof of his school fees

Jennyfha:
Your story has really touched my heart, I want to pay for your son's school fees for the whole year, please contact me to this email jennyfhajen@yahoo.com with proof of his school fees

God bless u

Vyvyanvyvy:

Thanks for nice advice. You are right my son has become a thief due to the way my sister in law has being treating him , depriving him from food and many bad things the boy had no other choice than to steel. Since I’m alive I want him to be with me and I will take good care of him

You that is his mother can't shelter him and give him food yet you have the mouth to blame your sister in law.

You're truly shameless, you're alive and your child is being treated like an orphan all because you don't want to leave man. Irresponsible parent, you and the boy’s father are the same do not for a second think you're better.

CanadianNaija:


You that is his mother can't shelter him and give him food yet you have the mouth to blame your sister in law.

You're truly shameless, you're alive and your child is being treated like an orphan all because you don't want to leave man. Irresponsible parent, you and the boy’s father are the same do not for a second think you're better.

Abeg park well!

She has move on with her children.

Am sure if u were in her shoes you would not be able to leave a common boyfriend not to talk of a husband.

drmikeadams:



God bless u

Amen

Jennyfha:
Your story has really touched my heart, I want to pay for your son's school fees for the whole year, please contact me to this email jennyfhajen@yahoo.com with proof of his school fees

Sorry ma I have to do this in public because you don't reply my mail. I am very sorry ma I am not an ingrate person I know you gave me 100k 2 months ago. I use the money for my business and I buy my baby stuffs unfortunaly the business has collapsed. I am broke, hungry and my due date is 27 of next week I don't have any money. I am sorry ma pls pity me for the sake of my unborn orphan pls ma don't be angry with me pls

Fatiaaa:

Sorry ma I have to do this in public because you don't reply my mail. I am very sorry ma I am not an ingrate person I know you gave me 100k 2 months ago. I use the money for my business and I buy my baby stuffs unfortunaly the business has collapsed. I am broke, hungry and my due date is 27 of next month I don't have any money. I am sorry ma pls pity me for the sake of my unborn orphan pls ma don't be angry with me pls

Nawa ooo, wahala be like bicycle

Jesu...100k blown away just like that..... madam you just blown away that huge sum of money Kai if I see who dash me even 30k sef I wee worship that person.
Anyways Sha...wahala really be like gala you must unwrapped it before you eat it.

Vyvyanvyvy:


We are not together anymore. I gave birth to a baby girl, she is 8 months old

Congratulations on the birth of your new baby
Hope you're coping well with the children.
May God give your the strenght and all the help you need to raise them all to be successful and exemplary human beings.
Glad to know you're all doing fine

Fatiaaa:

Sorry ma I have to do this in public because you don't reply my mail. I am very sorry ma I am not an ingrate person I know you gave me 100k 2 months ago. I use the money for my business and I buy my baby stuffs unfortunaly the business has collapsed. I am broke, hungry and my due date is 27 of next week I don't have any money. I am sorry ma pls pity me for the sake of my unborn orphan pls ma don't be angry with me pls

10k abi 100.strange that your moniker is solely dedicated to E begging. It means you are lurking around with your main account.

Jennyfha:
Your story has really touched my heart, I want to pay for your son's school fees for the whole year, please contact me to this email jennyfhajen@yahoo.com with proof of his school fees

Thanks so much ma, God bless you and grant you all your heart desires

eyinjuege:


Congratulations on the birth of your new baby
Hope you're coping well with the children.
May God give your the strenght and all the help you need to raise them all to be successful and exemplary human beings.
Glad to know you're all doing fine

Amen, thanks so much

LadySarah:


but how can a child still in the cocoon of its mother be an orphan?

This comment of yours is amazingly peppered with ignorance, even though it was intended as a flak. An orphan is a person who has loss one or both parents. One doesn't have to suffer the loss of his father and mother before becoming an orphan.

In truth, no man wants to live with a stubborn woman.
I hope the OP is fine, now that she has her four children together..

CanadianNaija:


You that is his mother can't shelter him and give him food yet you have the mouth to blame your sister in law.

You're truly shameless, you're alive and your child is being treated like an orphan all because you don't want to leave man. Irresponsible parent, you and the boy’s father are the same do not for a second think you're better.

Judge nowamagbe abeg comot for here before I comot your teeth na

Fatiaaa:

Sorry ma I have to do this in public because you don't reply my mail. I am very sorry ma I am not an ingrate person I know you gave me 100k 2 months ago. I use the money for my business and I buy my baby stuffs unfortunaly the business has collapsed. I am broke, hungry and my due date is 27 of next week I don't have any money. I am sorry ma pls pity me for the sake of my unborn orphan pls ma don't be angry with me pls

Okokobioko!!!! Is this a joke or what? Nothing my eyes will not see in nairaland. You blew 100k without saying thank you and now you want another assistance. She you dey whine me ni?

veave:



Okokobioko!!!! Is this a joke or what? Nothing my eyes will not see in nairaland. You blew 100k without saying thank you and now you want another assistance. She you dey whine me ni?

It’s called entitlement mentality, she thinks that woman is plucking money from the tree.

Fatiaaa:

Sorry ma I have to do this in public because you don't reply my mail. I am very sorry ma I am not an ingrate person I know you gave me 100k 2 months ago. I use the money for my business and I buy my baby stuffs unfortunaly the business has collapsed. I am broke, hungry and my due date is 27 of next week I don't have any money. I am sorry ma pls pity me for the sake of my unborn orphan pls ma don't be angry with me pls

To simply put, you're a very shameless and entitled person

Prettiepearlz:

To simply put, you're a very shameless and entitled person

Thank you.God bless you for the insult

Fatiaaa:


Thank you.God bless you for the insult

And you too!